I've got 99 problems in 69.

Claudia Love

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Ok am I the only one who finds 69 extremely uncomfortable? I cannot orgasm in that position. Period!.


First I'm trying to do the balance act , 2nd I'm trying to suck his dick, 3rd I'm worried that my boobs are squishing him, 4th i'm thinking if this new guy knows how to relax me having an orgasm in 69 my left knee will clobber him by accident, I just can't relax, nor concentrate, on my little petune.

It took me 20 years to say I'm not into 69s anymore. Maybe if i had 2 bottles of wine , then no one gives a shit of neck strain or if we both are simultaneously looking like sardines being canned. I'm an old fashioned lover. I suppose I like to lay down and relax while I'm being pleasured that's the only way i can do it !. Or maybe I'm the odd duck here and many women you'd been with cream for you in 69's.

I've got 99 problems in 69 and orgasm is one of them.
 
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I enjoy a good 69 every once in a while, I don't need it every single time I see a woman.

I would say don't worry about #3, squishing the guy. If you're that heavy then 69 is probably out of the question anyway. I quite enjoy feeling the weight of a woman when I'm in that position (or any position for that matter).
 
I enjoy a good 69 every once in a while, I don't need it every single time I see a woman.

I would say don't worry about #3, squishing the guy. If you're that heavy then 69 is probably out of the question anyway. I quite enjoy feeling the weight of a woman when I'm in that position (or any position for that matter).
i weigh around 145 but I still feel like I'm squishing the guy.
 
Are you on bottom or top position?

Would bottom be more comfortable for women?
I try it on top most times I've done it because I like to be able to give him good oral. My fear is that if I'm on bottom and he' s thrusting downwards and his unshaven face tickles me I don't want to bare any teeth and hurt him .:eek:
 
Not my favorite either, hard to do a good job on her and cum as well.
 
I used to see a SP who always wanted to be on the bottom of 69 and takes a solid throat fucking.
 
Ok am I the only one who finds 69 extremely uncomfortable? I cannot orgasm in that position. Period!.


First I'm trying to do the balance act , 2nd I'm trying to suck his dick, 3rd I'm worried that my boobs are squishing him, 4th i'm thinking if this new guy knows how to relax me having an orgasm in 69 my left knee will clobber him by accident, I just can't relax, nor concentrate, on my little petune.

It took me 20 years to say I'm not into 69s anymore. Maybe if i had 2 bottles of wine , then no one gives a shit of neck strain or if we both are simultaneously looking like sardines being canned. I'm an old fashioned lover. I suppose I like to lay down and relax while I'm being pleasured that's the only way i can do it !. Or maybe I'm the odd duck here and many women you'd been with cream for you in 69's.

I've got 99 problems in 69 and orgasm is one of them.

I am so with you. I have guys ask and I tell them straight, we can do it but it is not my cup of tea.

I just can’t concentrate. It is just better to focus on one or the other. Pleasing Or being pleased. There are positions I can get into for the visual of my up close pussy while sucking him off, if that is what he is going for, but a true actual 69, is just difficult for me.
 
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I am so with you. I have guys ask and I tell them straight, we can do it but it is not my cup of tea.

I just can concentrate. It is just better to focus on one or the other. Pleasing Or being pleased. There are positions I can get into for the visual of my up close pussy while sucking him off, if that is what he is going for, but a true actual 69, is just difficult for me.
I think guys think we all love 69's. Some say it's so erotic. After being in that position for too long, I feel drained so it doesn't pump me up for the main event. It actually makes me more tense than ever. This is actually the first time I'm ever discussing this. I wanted to know if it was just me that felt this way. like is there something wrong with me not being able to enjoy it . so thanks for your honesty it shows im not alone on this.
 
You know threesomes can solve the 69 issue?
Sometimes all you need is another helping hand!
 
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I really don't like it. Strains my neck to get my mouth angle right. Her vagina is upside down from the way I like to daty best, and it's tough to do anything good with my fingers.

Plus it ruins my concentration re: enjoying what she's doing to me...
 
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I've only ever really enjoyed it side by side, not one on top of the other.
It's distracting enough as is, when people are worried about squishing each other it's useless.

For the most part, not my cup of tea but I have had it be great fun with a couple of partners, where it was almost a playful competition.

The hit/miss ratio isn't great though, so unless someone seems really excited about it I don't bother.
 
I almost never ask for a 69. I prefer the ability to focus on her when I daty, I find the bj more intense/pleasurable when I'm not going down on her too as she can focus on the task at hand.

Have done inverted 69 but I do that more to surprise her.