I've given up..

[LadyTY2Uall]

We'll have to disagree on this one, I haven't got wood a couple times with a woman and you feel like crawling under a rock, maybe it takes time to deal with it.

no problem, as I said, I am not a man so i cannot know how it truly feels. I can tell you that the woman you were with most likely was not nearly as bothered about it as you were.....unless of course she has self esteem issues, in which case she would have blamed herself anyways.

 

[GotGusto]

Being chronically flaccid is a physical state that all of us men will have to face eventually. Some sooner than others.

 

[Don]

slashaxl - do you have problem when trying to get it on with someone? Basically I'm asking can you get it up no problem and climax when you masturbate.

 

[BallzDeep]

But isnt that where you live?

Actually, that's a pretty good line.

 

[slashaxl]

slashaxl - do you have problem when trying to get it on with someone? Basically I'm asking can you get it up no problem and climax when you masturbate.

thanx for all the info and help everyone, and don, can't get it up properly even with pills and even light touching or rubbing against willy by a lady causes a release almost immediately.

As for my age, I'm in my late thirties. Don't have diabetes but doc makes me do tests to monitor sugar level as they have gotten high at times. I take cholesterol pills as precautionary measure since cholesterol was borderline high at times. So basically I'm fucked but not in a good way.

 

[Don]

don, can't get it up properly even with pills and even light touching or rubbing against willy by a lady causes a release almost immediately.

wait, i'm confused. You say that you can't get it up... but that you cum almost immediately when stimulated... are you saying that you cum without an erection?

 

[Grass_Hopper]

Ok, here's one of my secrets...

As you can see by my reviews, I have quite a few games that I play...

Hint #1:
If Mr. Happy does not want to collaborate, EDs are not the solution... Your body get use to it, and you end up with side effects, but no results...

As weird as it can sounds, a little of prostate massage, with a mini-vibe (usually 10 bucks at the corner sex-shop) does the job... It can be incorporate to many games, and is quite something to provide for an SP!

Hint #2:
For quick coming, I use this solution...

During mouthplay (what's better than a long sloppy bbbj... and I have to stop there... Don't want to high jack the thread...), playing with cold (I usually use an ice cube or milk) around the balls can delay the cuming... Using lubricant jelly mixed with the play is making it unbelievable...

Hint #3:
Just relax!

Having sex is a hobby as going golfing or fishing... I never seen someone stressed from drawing... Keep in mind that you are with a professionnal that's there to fulfill your fantaisies. Not for you to be perfect...

Good luck!

I saw one of the lovely ladies that advertise here on terb today and once again my friend down below didn't cooperate. ED and premature ejaculation are my problems, I 've taken generic stuff, real viagara/cialis and tried so many things and still can't enjoy a session any more. Wasn't the case couple of years ago. Always had this problem but pills etc helped me enjoy a session, now....I'm getting more and more frustrated , don't know what else I can do. Doctor isn't helping...just given up.

 

[Grass_Hopper]

wait, i'm confused. You say that you can't get it up... but that you cum almost immediately when stimulated... are you saying that you cum without an erection?

This happens quite often with older folks...

 

[Grass_Hopper]

no problem, as I said, I am not a man so i cannot know how it truly feels. I can tell you that the woman you were with most likely was not nearly as bothered about it as you were.....unless of course she has self esteem issues, in which case she would have blamed herself anyways.

Well said!

 

[rosemount36]

I saw one of the lovely ladies that advertise here on terb today and once again my friend down below didn't cooperate. ED and premature ejaculation are my problems, I 've taken generic stuff, real viagara/cialis and tried so many things and still can't enjoy a session any more. Wasn't the case couple of years ago. Always had this problem but pills etc helped me enjoy a session, now....I'm getting more and more frustrated , don't know what else I can do. Doctor isn't helping...just given up.

Have you seen a urologist yet? If you have, get a second opinion, or a third opinion. This is a major issue with you it seems, so don't stop seeking help. There are many excellent urologists out there. Keep trying and best of luck.

 

[LadyTY2Uall]

You are sooo polite, even to lesser beings!

lol It is the way my Momma raised me

 

[momoo_t]

thanx for all the info and help everyone, and don, can't get it up properly even with pills and even light touching or rubbing against willy by a lady causes a release almost immediately.

As for my age, I'm in my late thirties. Don't have diabetes but doc makes me do tests to monitor sugar level as they have gotten high at times. I take cholesterol pills as precautionary measure since cholesterol was borderline high at times. So basically I'm fucked but not in a good way.

Everything is on your head... have you had depression or childhood trauma??

 

[toughb]

If you have even slightly elevated blood sugar it will, in one way or another, affect an erection.

Throw in stress, elevated blood pressure and intercourse can become a problem.

I'm a diabetic and have been for ten years. I use Viagra. There are still times when extreme arousal is necessary to get it up. A lot of foreplay and deep sea diving does the trick for me. Gal sure doesn't complain either.

This is a trial and error situation.

You'll get the right combination.

...

 

[Cycleguy007]

 

[chuckparker]

Slash, maybe try a different Dr, someone who will listen to you and try to help solve the problem and not just put a bandaid (pills) on it.

LADYTY ....... you seem like a very sweet lady. Great advice on doing other things. I can have lots of fun before I even use my pecker.

 

[great bear]

Get yourself to a gym. Work out on a regular basis at least 4 time a week. Being in shape will reduce your high blood sugar, it will increase the blood flow to all parts of your body, it will reduce the need for cholesterol lowering drugs. It will reduce high blood pressure. Cheers GB

 

[moresex4me]

Dude, see another urologist. You're too young not to be able to get it up at all, way too young.

And I don't know what your doc said to you, but even one high blood sugar reading means you are a diabetic. Period. So make sure you get that under control.

Sounds like there is some underlying issue that they have not uncovered. Regardless, there should be a solution for you. See a specialist, or another one, soon!

 

[PolrBear]

Up, Up, and Gone

I too have this problem, but it does not stop the hobby. I still get to eat, drink and be merry with some lovely ladies. It can be tormenting, but learn to live with it. I tried those pills too, but to no avail. Now I am up front with the ladies, and all goes well. I steer clear of the young tight ones, that would be too much to endure. The more seasoned ladies seem to accept it better.

 

[Cycleguy007]

Get yourself to a gym. Work out on a regular basis at least 4 time a week. Being in shape will reduce your high blood sugar, it will increase the blood flow to all parts of your body, it will reduce the need for cholesterol lowering drugs. It will reduce high blood pressure. Cheers GB

The benefits of regular exercise and proper eating are measured on an exponential scale!

Read my signature...

 

[LadyTY2Uall]

Slash, maybe try a different Dr, someone who will listen to you and try to help solve the problem and not just put a bandaid (pills) on it.

LADYTY ....... you seem like a very sweet lady. Great advice on doing other things. I can have lots of fun before I even use my pecker.

Awww blush I love a man who knows how to use his whole body when having sex, way more fun than just the typical 'in, done, out'