Any well off guys ever date a civilian and be told "its not about the money?".
My best friend was just complaining to me about the girl he has been dating for about 2 years now. In the beginning of the relationship he could do no wrong. He elevated her lifestyle way beyond her normal means and they got along like 2 peas in a pod.
Anyways, skip ahead to present, and he has now reached the stage with is girlfriend where "its not about the money". He now gets dumped on for working too many hours, not sharing enough of his time with her and not being attentive enough. the usual stuff.
I didn't have the heart to tell him that I think he is doomed, but I've come to feel that once you fill one set of needs for someone, they tend to lean on you for the next set of needs.
Status quo never seems acceptable, and at some point, we will reach a limit in which there are needs that we can no longer meet.
Am i way off track or is this why most relationships inevitably fail?
My best friend was just complaining to me about the girl he has been dating for about 2 years now. In the beginning of the relationship he could do no wrong. He elevated her lifestyle way beyond her normal means and they got along like 2 peas in a pod.
Anyways, skip ahead to present, and he has now reached the stage with is girlfriend where "its not about the money". He now gets dumped on for working too many hours, not sharing enough of his time with her and not being attentive enough. the usual stuff.
I didn't have the heart to tell him that I think he is doomed, but I've come to feel that once you fill one set of needs for someone, they tend to lean on you for the next set of needs.
Status quo never seems acceptable, and at some point, we will reach a limit in which there are needs that we can no longer meet.
Am i way off track or is this why most relationships inevitably fail?