Is this considered bait and switch?

[mikerev]

When an SP says they offer certain services over the phone or text, then when you get there, they change their mind.
For example: SP says they provide greek for a little extra, during your session you say you would like some anal action ( on her) and all of a sudden they dont feel like it or just dont want to anymore.
Same scenario with any type of service. Is this considered bait and switch? Because one of the reasons I see an SP is sometimes for that extra service. I dont believe that this would fall under " YMMV" because they have stated they provide this particular service. Hygiene aside, I can understand if someone is not clean or their hygiene is not the greatest, but in my case i am always impeccably clean and shaved.
Any thoughts?

 

[Celticman]

I see it as bait and switch. It is somewhat analogous to the client not putting the full fee in the envelope. Both are examples of trying to obtain something under a type of false pretense. We should ALWAYS out this type of escort in a review, albeit with a fair reference to YMMV.

 

[Catherine St.Claire]

It's a tough call. I get asked for specific services that I do enjoy but not with everyone so I state that upfront. If someone is looking for greek but he is a piston driven energizer bunny it comes off my table immediately. Perhaps there was something besides hygiene that triggered her to back out. The easiest thing to do is ask her for the honest reason why she didn't indulge you. I'm very upfront in explaining to clients why something isn't going to work because it gives them the opportunity to change techniques and opens a dialogue that has the potential to enhance the experience. There is a reason for everything and it isn't always about money...

cat

 

[thumper18474]

YMMV is probably the most frequently used acronym in the Biz....and especially when it comes to Greek.!( or maybe YSMN)..Your Size Means NO!...LOL

big difference between being hung like a light switch or Northern dancer!

If your a Pounder and then your asking her to receive the same pounding in Greek!..doubt it'll happen...My philosophy is pay the extra...if it happens it happens ...

@ Celticman..If I ask her if Greek is on the table and she says yes for an additional fee...and I know that its gonna be a <50% chance that it'll happen but I offer the extra anyways..then I run the risk of not sailing ... so thats on me....No?
which happened not too long ago....as we were playing she was all apologetic but she was willing to try but chances are its not gonna happen so I said dont worry about it..
I'm not there to cause her discomfort..I'm in it for the pleasure..hopefully she has fun too...

 

[SinnamonFairbanks]

Size can be an issues too. Like I offer greek, but there was one guy who came in who was way to big and I had to tell him I couldn't do it. I enjoy greek, but I didn't want to go through with it and be in pain the entire session. It's the same for people who are too small too. My main concern with them is the cover falling off. Generally, the guys with that issue know better. There are some guys though that are pretty ambitious. lol

It could be a bait and switch or it could be something else. You should ask them to be honest with you and tell you why, I'm sure they won't have an issue telling you, especially after a session.

 

[Malika Fantasy]

I am with Sinnamon on this.

Greek: Most SP that offer it, seem to be doing it for a small upcharge and state it is YMMV. If you are Ron Jeremy brother and she refuse...I don't think it's B&S, unless she takes the extra donation even before doing anything in that area, which in this case it isn't fair.
If she ask you to stop...I have had people in the past that were pounding for 45 minutes.For me after a while it hurt. I ask them to stop. I personally don't see it as B&S

Another example...I personally offer cimsw most of the time, but sometime I will avoid doing so because the person is obviously a heavy smoker and I know the taste of the sperm will not be good and I don't wish to swallow something that taste horrible.
Granted,this service is included in my rate, but does that make it B&S?

I really hate to be this person, but I often see people posting on boards stating but I am always clean,respectful and have good hygiene...I can say that for some (most people are more than fine) but their version of clean really differ than mine

 

[JoeyJames]

I agree with Sinnamon & Malika. I know that if I declined/didn't provide the service, taking the extra cash would be wrong, but if it's not taken, it's a little tough to cry B&S without more than one experience, for all the reasons listed and more. Of course it's good to put the word out there so that people can put together whether it's a rarity/one time thing, or legitimate bait and switch.

The trouble with Greek is you never know what's up; there are a host of valid issues that could arise due to size, personality, style, a rough client earlier, or even... Er... Health/personal issues at that given moment, with the last mentioned being incredibly difficult to discuss. When I offered Greek, I know that after some unpleasant experiences that if someone seemed careless or untrustworthy, it was immediately off the table & explaining that can be tough.

 

[jjw99]

I seen a ma 3 time
I was in the chat room she was in it too
she said if come in right now she have sex with me
and yes jump in the car when I got in they
we was playing and I said we have sex now
she said I cant do that in here
I was like what you said we well have sex and she said no
I was never go back
not good to lie to a guy you seen 3time
right

 

[Cowboy Kenny]

Why was you have sex at a massage parlour ?

 

[Sgt Banger]

Why was you have sex at a massage parlour ?

Yeah we wants to knows
is not legal

 

[jjw99]

why was I having sex at massage parlour
why not
not going for a back rub lol
but my point was she said yes then when I was there it was no
she lost a customer
if she don't want to have sex just say no in the chat room
not when iam there and pay her