This is going back several years, but there used to be a spa in Sandy Hill that catered to men, and had mostly male staff. they did aesthetics, waxing, and massage. However, they did have one female staff member at the time, and who would work occasionally. They did have a shower massage option. I was so curious about it, I had to try. (They have since relocated, and no more shower massage). It was done in a room that had drains on the floor and a hose connected to a very large shower head that hung over the table. It was a really amazing experience, and I would love to find something like that again. With warm/hot water, the room was steamy, relaxing, and with candles and music was really enjoyable. NOTE -- this was strictly legitimate massage and no extras were ever implied or asked for. However, a room like this at one of the better adult massage spas (brass/cmj, etc take note) would go over very well in my opinion. It was a pretty unique experience.