Is there a double standard when ...

[Tashki]

You kind of proved my point lol. Guys tend to see sps who are their "type" so why shouldn't a girl have the same rights ?

If she feels that her and the client do not click / mesh well via the initial call / text/ booking process than doesn't she have the right to turn him down to avoid giving him a bad experience / sub par experience ?.

You do have every right, reason and obligation to turn down a client. I’m not sure how you can “click” well with a client during the booking process. Maybe they have poor business etiquette or don’t know how to fill out a screening form properly that makes you not want to see them? Then that’s a valid reason to not see them.

If you don’t click with them because you don’t personally find them attractive or vibe with them, then I find that counter-intuitive. I don’t see why that matters when you’re a professional. I also don’t see why some SPs feel the need to mix their personal dating preferences with their clients.

 

[sweetiepieexo]

You do have every right, reason and obligation to turn down a client. I’m not sure how you can “click” well with a client during the booking process. Maybe they have poor business etiquette or don’t know how to fill out a screening form properly that makes you not want to see them? Then that’s a valid reason to not see them.

If you don’t click with them because you don’t personally find them attractive or vibe with them, then I find that counter-intuitive. I don’t see why that matters when you’re a professional. I also don’t see why some SPs feel the need to mix their personal dating preferences with their clients.

I dont know of any ladies that mix their dating preferences with this business/ their clients. It has nothing to do with looks and more to do with how comfortable an escort and client are.

For example if you text me and you are coming off as creepy, rude , or demeaning then I feel I do have the right to turn you down . If you are rude over text than what makes me think you won't be rude in person ? . It has nothing to do with rejecting you and more to do with how comfortable I/ we are meeting you.

There are also tons of guys who go and see an escort and yes the service was great but the chemistry was off which can make for a lackluster session. Wouldn't you want to see someone who makes you comfortable , pleases you and you can have great conversations ? Or do you prefer the wham bam thank you ma'am approach ?

 

[squeezer]

I also don’t see why some SPs feel the need to mix their personal dating preferences with their clients.

If a 20 something young hottie based it on the John's looks, 95% of Johns would be refused service. LOL

Make it 97.5%

 

[Drakarys]

If a 20 something young hottie based it on the John's looks, 95% of Johns would be refused service. LOL

Make it 97.5%

Make it a 100% in your case

 

[squeezer]

Make it a 100% in your case

I'm in the select 2.5% because I brush my teeth, shower and comb my hair.

 

[Jenesis]

I'm in the select 2.5% because I brush my teeth, shower and comb my hair.

Pubic hair doesn’t count buddy.

 

[squeezer]

Pubic hair doesn’t count buddy.

Hey, it's better than Drakary's comb-over

 

[Indiana]

Who the fuck voted no?

 

[fall]

I dont think you are misunderstanding what this thread/ question is .

My question is : does a girl have the right to chose who she sees ?

For clarification I am not talking about when you meet the girl and then she refuses services when you get there. Obviously that would warrant a bad review depending on her reasons for not providing the service.

I am talking about if you are messaging a girl and she says " I'm sorry I'm not comfortable meeting , have a good day ". Does that warrant a bad review / threatening for a bad review.
[/QUOTe}

Sure she has the right to refuse service. And the guy whom she refused service to has the right to post about it. Not a "bad review", but an honest review saying that the girl refused service to him and his side of the story (although, most likely, such review may have negative impact on the girls business, especially if several guys had the same experience). And, of course, threat of the bad review should never be used, but SP should be aware that bad services imply bad reviews.

 

[sweetiepieexo]

We are not talking about the service lol. We are talking about during the initial booking process.

For example , if someone texts me and has an attitude or is being condescending than is it not my right to turn them down ? Do you think they can still write a review without even meeting the sp or driving to the incall location ?

That is what the poll is about - I am not asking if a girl doesn't provide a service does she deserve a bad review ( we all know the answer is yes ). My question is

Does the girl have the right to choose who she sees just like the gentleman do ?

 

[sweetiepieexo]

So far , 94 % of people voted yes.

& 5. 6 % for the nay sayers.

Let's keep this alive

 

[Drakarys]

We are not talking about the service lol. We are talking about during the initial booking process.

For example , if someone texts me and has an attitude or is being condescending than is it not my right to turn them down ? Do you think they can still write a review without even meeting the sp or driving to the incall location ?

That is what the poll is about - I am not asking if a girl doesn't provide a service does she deserve a bad review ( we all know the answer is yes ). My question is

Does the girl have the right to choose who she sees just like the gentleman do ?

You absolutely have the right to screen and only book with those you're comfortable with and if you choose to decline service for comfort/safety reasons, then a bad review is NOT warranted. We should respect provider's right to choose.

There's also another side to this as well.

Not all providers act in a professional manner when communicating and for different reasons. I understand that they have to deal with good and bad all the time, but they can't allow the bad affect the good. What I mean by that is: if I reach out to a provider after she had to deal with assholes all day long, I still expect her to communicate in a calm manner without snapping at me.

I always keep my convo as short and to the point as possible. Not too long ago I reached out to a well known independent provider who advertises on Terb and wanted to setup a booking. Her ad referred to her website for scheduling details. For whatever reason she didn't update her hosting location or available hours, so when I asked for this info, she snapped at me. She told me that I'm just some random guy and said some other unpleasant things. I needed to know her schedule and hosting area location in order to book, but was basically insulted instead.

I didn't meet her, but she gave me a sour taste of her service. Does that warrant a bad review? I don't know, I didn't post anything, but perhaps I should have. Potentially, the purpose of such review would be to warn other of such behavior and perhaps to let that provider know she was wrong for behaving unprofessionally.

 

[Jenesis]

You absolutely have the right to screen and only book with those you're comfortable with and if you choose to decline service for comfort/safety reasons, then a bad review is NOT warranted. We should respect provider's right to choose.

There's also another side to this as well.

Not all providers act in a professional manner when communicating and for different reasons. I understand that they have to deal with good and bad all the time, but they can't allow the bad affect the good. What I mean by that is: if I reach out to a provider after she had to deal with assholes all day long, I still expect her to communicate in a calm manner without snapping at me.

I always keep my convo as short and to the point as possible. Not too long ago I reached out to a well known independent provider who advertises on Terb and wanted to setup a booking. For whatever reason she didn't update her hosting location or available hours, so when I asked for this info, she snapped at me. She told me that I'm just some random guy and said some other unpleasant things. I needed to know her schedule and hosting area location in order to book, but was basically insulted instead.

I didn't meet her, but she gave me a sour taste of her service. Does that warrant a bad review? I don't know, I didn't post anything, but perhaps I should have. Potentially, the purpose of such review would be to warn other of such behavior and perhaps to let that provider know she was wrong for behaving unprofessionally.

This is exactly what @sweetiepieexo is talking about in the reverse. That same sour taste you got just from text was enough to make you not book her, and this is the same for us. You just get a vibe and decline.

In your case - you do have the option of writing a review. Reviews are not just for service received but booking, communication etc so you are within your right to.

In our case - we usually have to let it go and move on to the next. Unless he is extremely over the top in his rudeness, or threatening etc, AND using a real number then we can maybe share with a blacklist but that is very rare. For us, we are just left to deal. Which could be why you got that rude reply back. Because she dealt with 100 of those guys before you with no recourse.

Again, not right for her or those men to treat us that way, but you have an additional option that we don’t because you are the customer. For us, it’s just apart of the business sadly.

 

[sweetiepieexo]

This is exactly what @sweetiepieexo is talking about in the reverse. That same sour taste you got just from text was enough to make you not book her, and this is the same for us. You just get a vibe and decline.

In your case - you do have the option of writing a review. Reviews are not just for service received but booking, communication etc so you are within your right to.

In our case - we usually have to let it go and move on to the next. Unless he is extremely over the top in his rudeness, or threatening etc, AND using a real number then we can maybe share with a blacklist but that is very rare. For us, we are just left to deal. Which could be why you got that rude reply back. Because she dealt with 100 of those guys before you with no recourse.

Again, not right for her or those men to treat us that way, but you have an additional option that we don’t because you are the customer. For us, it’s just apart of the business sadly.

Exactly !.

The only part I disagree with is that it warrants a bad review. I say that only because no services were received and they can't evaluate looks or anything.

 

[Fun For All]

I dont think you are misunderstanding what this thread/ question is .

My question is : does a girl have the right to chose who she sees ?

For clarification I am not talking about when you meet the girl and then she refuses services when you get there. Obviously that would warrant a bad review depending on her reasons for not providing the service.

I am talking about if you are messaging a girl and she says " I'm sorry I'm not comfortable meeting , have a good day ". Does that warrant a bad review / threatening for a bad review.

No...if you messaging back and forth and he threatens to write a bad review if you don't see him, you tell him to fuck off and move on...

 

[Drakarys]

This is exactly what @sweetiepieexo is talking about in the reverse. That same sour taste you got just from text was enough to make you not book her, and this is the same for us. You just get a vibe and decline.

In your case - you do have the option of writing a review. Reviews are not just for service received but booking, communication etc so you are within your right to.

In our case - we usually have to let it go and move on to the next. Unless he is extremely over the top in his rudeness, or threatening etc, AND using a real number then we can maybe share with a blacklist but that is very rare. For us, we are just left to deal. Which could be why you got that rude reply back. Because she dealt with 100 of those guys before you with no recourse.

Again, not right for her or those men to treat us that way, but you have an additional option that we don’t because you are the customer. For us, it’s just apart of the business sadly.

Businesses deal with bad customers all the time. Professionals stay keep cool, calm and collected.

I don't envy you position though. It must be extremely difficult to stay cool when bombarded with tons of degrading and rude comments, objectifying etc.

I understand it's not easy, so I'd rather move on, than add fuel to fire by writing a negative review. I just tell myself "she's having a bad day, let her be".

In my business I deal with a lot of shit too. Sometimes I want to tell clients to go to hell, but it hurts my bottomline so I stay professional no matter what. I'm lucky enough to pick and choose my clients, so if there's a "potential problem" vibe from anyone, I either decline service or charge an insanly high fee to compensate me for their behavior.

 

[Jenesis]

Exactly !.

The only part I disagree with is that it warrants a bad review. I say that only because no services were received and they can't evaluate looks or anything.

To be clear, I meant if her responses were actually unprofessional. Not if she is declining. That can be done in a professional manner and would not warrant a negative review.

If a guy writes “ hello, just wondering where you are hosting today” and she comes back with “fuck off buddy, it’s in the ad” - that is rude.

So to be clear, clear unprofessional behaviour, can be reviewed. It is a little pointless because it is not a full review but guys are in their right.

But to post a negative review because you got legitimately decline is just pathetic and should show more about the guy then the SP

 

[Jasmina]

I was that girl. Lol. I only saw clients I felt some chemistry or click with. Including the initial contact. It wasn't conducive to saving mad bank but at the end of the day, I enjoyed the job which was equally as important to me as the money. And because of that attitude I had more repeats than anything, because the service level was vastly improved by my own enjoyment. Some dudes will never understand that though. Some dudes also don't care if a provider is mechanical. But most do.

You kind of proved my point lol. Guys tend to see sps who are their "type" so why shouldn't a girl have the same rights ?

If she feels that her and the client do not click / mesh well via the initial call / text/ booking process than doesn't she have the right to turn him down to avoid giving him a bad experience / sub par experience ?.

 

[Jasmina]

Even that is subjective though. How do we know he didn't warrant a "Fuck you, buddy" or she wasn't just having a really shitty day? I agree with sweetiepie, reviews should be objective in a sense and based on actual services. Did she look like pictures? Did she provide what she claimed to provide? Did she try to upsell after session started? Did she honor the time paid for? Etc.

To be clear, I meant if her responses were actually unprofessional. Not if she is declining. That can be done in a professional manner and would not warrant a negative review.

If a guy writes “ hello, just wondering where you are hosting today” and she comes back with “fuck off buddy, it’s in the ad” - that is rude.

So to be clear, clear unprofessional behaviour, can be reviewed. It is a little pointless because it is not a full review but guys are in their right.

But to post a negative review because you got legitimately decline is just pathetic and should show more about the guy then the SP

 

[Bagilson]

If prostitution were ever made legal, this might become an interesting legal problem. Sex is a service, and businesses aren’t allowed to refuse service based on race etc…. So, the girls might end up legal obligated to service anyone who met the asking price.