Is seeing pregnant SPs frowned upon?

[fanofthehobby]

I ran across an ongoing acrimonious debate on another MB over a pregnant SP who was posting her availability there. She was in her 2nd trimester and said she barely showed. There was a bunch of posts telling her she shouldn't be working , followed by posts telling the first posters to mind there own business , followed by an interesting post claiming it was taboo among hobbiests to see a pregnant provider. I had never heard this in 25 years in the hobby so I thought I would throw the question to my fellow Terbites.
Is seeing a provider that you know is pregnant frowned upon?
Is there a subculture that seeks them out as a fetish of sorts?
I have been with SWs who I found out to be pregnant after the fact which creeped me out a bit to the point that I thought if I had known before I wouldnt have proceeded but I am curious as to other opinions.

 

[homonger]

Having gone on record that I prefer to see sp's who are childless, I would also rather not see a pregnant sp, but I don't think there is any hobbyist code against it. And there is definitely a subculture that has a thing for pregnant women, so go for it, you sick bastard.

I did have one encounter with an sp a number of years ago who told me she was pregnant. She was very thin, and it was clearly early in her term, as I would not have guessed if she had not told me. The only reason it even came up is because she couldn't do certain positions.

I am not a doctor, and am not a woman either (although I do enjoy watching figure skating on occasion), but I understand that sexual intercourse is still allowable and safe, well into in a pregnancy. So, I guess, if it is safe, I can't criticize an sp for working while pregnant, but I certainly wouldn't endorse it.

 

[Goober Mcfly]

Wait until the little bugger pops out, crawls up mommy's tummy and starts poking her repeatedly in the forehead saying "How do you like that?"

 

[homonger]

As you are a woman, a mother, and an sp, I would have to defer to your judgement on this matter, kiarra. However, I do take some small offense in the veiled notion that a hobbyist/sp encounter can't be an "intimate moment", lol.

 

[elaine]

while I was pregnant I chose not to work. I asked many ladies there opinion on the Escort talk board. It was fair to say many recommended not to risk my unborn child into a possible dangerous enviroment. When the idea of endangering the child became aware to me, there was no question, I was not meant to work while with child.

We choose to have child, and it's our job to protect them. I wont agree with a lady who works while with child, but I am not their mentor, parent or pastor, so my word means nothing, and they should not be concerned of anyones else's opinion, then what is in their heart as to whats best for the child.

Men seeing ladies : Yes it's OK. Don't encourage it, but I will say men generally who do see ladies is for the adoring part of a woman with child, not just for a bang and screw. I met a couple people while I was plentifull with my milk, I thought they were wanting it weirdo style like squirts and stuff, but it turned out, they just wanted that completeness, it's very few months in a womans life you get the oppurtunity to taste her fully. I was pleasantly surprized.

So I think men searching for pregnant woman to be intimate with may be on the same, careing way, but still believe the child should not be placed into these sexual situations.

elaine

 

[Goober Mcfly]

Wait until the little bugger pops out, crawls up mommy's tummy and starts poking her repeatedly in the forehead saying "How do you like that?"

You know, that's the second time I used that joke. And still not a "LOL" or anything.

*/me thinks he is losing his edge...*

 

[homonger]

I have clearly admitted and indicated that I am in fact one of those SP's at the present time.

Fanofthehobby, I believe we have a love connection!

Goober, you have done better work.

 

[elaine]

Another thought,

If a lady was to market as "pregnant" is she marketting her unborn child? Then is it child prostitution? Is it a child or a fetus?

Is she living off the avails, from proceeds of child prostitution?

I'm still saying, not to follow my words, as they are for discussion only. And not knocking anyone, but thought this could be a likely twist, if a lady adverted as 'pregnant'

 

[train]

This type of fetish is difficult to understand for someone like myself who doesn't really have any . From the little that I know most fetishes seem to be satisfied by illusion . Unless the fetish is for someone in their 8 or 9 month can't someone just "fool" these guys . Please .

 

[homonger]

Acually he was freaked out over it so... not likely hun.

Ah yes, I see that now that I have reread this thread. My mistake, Jenn dear.

 

[Zep]

They say pregnant women are very horny (when they are not throwing up etc.) Buddy of mine's wife was a fuck addict (while pregnant) and apparently loved the oral forevers up until the little tosser popped out! After that it was all downhill.

I personally would not engage with a lady who was expecting...gawd I'd feel rather guilty! Can't explain why. It just doesn't seem right?

 

[The Baroness]

Although I personally do not agree with working while pregnant,I'd have to say calling it child prostitution and/or marketing your child is a little far-fetched.

God,people can just run with things................

 

[elaine]

no Miranda I was not saying it was. But if the courts begin to take the belief that a fetus is infact a child. I was only proposing that a woman advertizing being pregnant, then she is using her child as a factor for business. If her business was proven to be prostitution, and her advert included the said fetus/child. Some people could veiw that as child prostitiution, or living off the avails.

Of course we know it's not child prostitution, but some of the virgin white picket fenced court appointed workers may not think the same way. It would not stand up in court, but emotional and family damage could be done....

 

[Crippler]

......I am in fact one of those SP's at the present time./B]

it figures

 

[fanofthehobby]

Similar to the other MB, there are many opinions on this matter.
Pregnant SPs are NOT my bag although I was turned on at one point when a former girlfriend got pregnant and was showing me her bra with flip down panels for easy feeding {and huge engorged nipples!}. Best wishes for your empending motherhood Aphrodite.

 

[The Baroness]

Then they would also have to declare abortion murder.

 

[Quirt]

I just had to try

A few years back, while feeling uninterested in the "usuall" SPs I'd been seeing, I found a lady who was about 7 months along. It was quite erotic, as she was thinly built, and open to anything that her condition would allow. It was a terrific experience...I saw her 3 more times till about 2 weeks before delivery, She contacted me about 2 months after "the blessed event" and I saw her a few more times while she was expressing milk. As far as I was concerned all invlved were quite happy.

 

[The Baroness]

I am not talking about drinking,smoking,etc.In fact,if you read what I wrote,I do not agree with working while pregnant.
I just think calling it child prostitution is ridiculous and i also think personal feelings(past catfights) are a big part of this thread.


The fact is: Its up to the woman and for some,sitting on their ass collecting mother's allowance is not an option.

 

[The Baroness]

ohhhhh did I hit a sore spot?

LMAO

Good morning Kiarra

 

[Goober Mcfly]

*cough*

Ladies? Can't we all just get along?