Is it uncommon for escorts to go over the alotted time?

[beaver]

I booked an hour long apppointment with an escort last week, and the appt went over by 20 minutes. I thought she was going to charge me extra but she didnt.

This week I booked another appt with another agency, for an hour long appt and the appt went over the allotted time by a good 10-15 minutes as well, she didnt charge a penny more for it.

So I was just wondering, is this a common pratice among escorts? I know that with MPs they watch the clock like hawks.

I hardly use escorts because I dont want to call them to my house, and cant justify spending an extra 100 on a hotel room, but this time my firm has a conference at the metropolitian (try the chinese restaurant Lai Wah Heen on second flr) so I decided to give it a shot.

 

[Sasha Jones]

I can only speak for myself but .... yes.
Especially for one hour bookings.

I like to take a few extra minutes to talk and get comfortable. In an hour that is hard to do, so I usually stay a little bit over time to try to compensate for my blabber mouth!

I can add even though it may be common practice for some it shouldn't be expected.

 

[SmoothOperator]

Time Over!

I have never experienced an SP that stayed the alloted time.It was always more.From 1/2 hr. extra up to 2 hrs.,at no additional fee.
I would think an agency woman with a driver waiting might not be so inclined.But it is quite common among Indies.

S/O

 

[Cool Dude]

..so I usually stay a little bit over time to try to compensate for my blabber mouth!

Yes but it's such a cute blabber mouth.

 

[travel'nman]

Indies, Yes

I tend to agree with the tenor of this thread. Ladies that work for themselves tend to have what I term a "long hour". While the ladies that I see regularly tend to do this, I do not expect it at any time. After 60 minutes it is her time.
It may be that the independents that I see do not have tons of appointments each day. It may be that we have hit it off. It may simply be that the lady has no sense of time. While I would like to think it is the second reason, I do not flatter myself and just thank my lucky stars that I get the extra time. In fact, on some incalls I am the one that has had to watch the clock.
I have found that the ladies that work for a service tend to watch the clock much closer. This is especially true for those services that the driver brings the SP to the room (I always use a hotel for out call as I am always out of town). Come to think of it, I have had only one agency lady stay over and that was in Charleston, South Carolina, more than a decade ago.

Travel'nman

 

[Gentle Ben]

I have had this happen both with Indies and agencies where the lady drove herself, understandably it's a lot harder to do when a lady's driver is waiting for her, cheers to indies & ladies that drive themselves! LOL

The longest overstay was 1 1/2 hours on a 2 hour date, which originally started as a 1 hr date, wow! 3 1/2 hours for what originally was to be 1 hr. but I guess we must have clicked.
with all respect to the lady I considered the date over at the end of the 2 hours and it was her choice to stay, we just sat chatting and I kept thinking, does she expect me to pay for this? but at the end she said she had to get going, thanked me for taking the time talking with her & said she really enjoyed it and gave me a nice hug & kiss!
I dont expect this again or from anyother lady, but I think a "Baker's Dozen" hour is most enjoyably, (that is if we both click with each other), to just wind down & relax and talk about a few things that you didnt have the time for before. the act itself or physical contact should be within the specified time and any overtime should be just for chatting!

 

[Dave in Phoenix]

Some escorts actually really do like certain men and will spend more time with them by their choice, or they choose to have long hours to first get to know them without using up the time clock.

But as others have said, it seems to me most of the Agencies keep the provides on a strick time clock calling them if they don't call in by the end of the hour etc. But I think most of the agency escorts I have had, also have drivers waiting for them.

With independents, I have almost always go over time, and often I realize this and suggest I can disappear whenever I should but I am on no tight time schedule. I have frequently stayed 1/2-1hr ovetime with indies, talking, giving them masssage etc which was their time choice. Sometimes they really do enjoy the sex and since I do a lot of foreplay massage, cuddling etc., sometimes they want to extend the sex phase!

In Phoenix I recently had a 1 hr appt turn into 4 hours as we became friends and have since gotten together as intimate freinds not as a client. Escorts, especially if they aren't married (actually she is but very open relationship), do "connect" with some men and seek friendships. Obviously that is not to be expected but it does happen.

Of course if the man is married and only wants a fantasy love session that is different. But for unattached free single men it is rare, but the friendship connection can occur as escorts are human too, and if they don't have a wonderful boyfriend or husband can be looking for friendship sometimes even from clients also. Others may have a policy that is never to be friendswith a client since it interferes with business.

 

[rollo]

I've had a few go less than the allotted time, most go a little bit over and some go way over. During my most recent session, she informed me that talking was not on the clock. That was a most pleasant surprise. And it was the first time we'd been together. We went 25 minutes passed the hour.

 

[sneakylong]

Talk about over the time

Once saw an SP for the last few hours before her shift was up. When the driver called she told him she would find her own way home and stayed until about noon the next day. I still have a smile on my face from that one.

 

[MuffinMuncher]

Key words: not expected

I think we all have pleasant stories of a particularly good appointment that went overtime for one reason or another.

Much of these successes are attributed to the chemistry established beforehand and in the early parts of the date... as a client we have a responsibility to be courteous, clean, well mannered, polite, respectful and sober. Just as in the real world, if your date likes you and enjoys your company, you might just get very very lucky.

We're all... well, OK, most of us ... are humans with feelings and emotions regardless of profession. The degree to which you remember this point goes a long way to determining that elusive YMMV factor.

 

[FarmersDaughter]

If I hit off with a client, I usually may stay over the alotted time but as Sasha said it is a common practice for some of us Sps but shouldn't always be expected...

Now that I don't have people who'd yell at me "Why are you still there?!?!", I can allow myself to be much less businesslike. However, these guys do know the deal, so yes, as Alexa says, it should be done with a selected few we feel respected/comfortable with.

Especially with a guy who "takes forever"--forget it! I have to get going...time is as precious as youth and beauty that nature bestowed upon us for rightful use

I don't like passive men and want them to enjoy themselves and participate. I do not like a person to lie there like they're dead. Those kind of people make me uncomftable and I'm usually gone after the hour is over...

A bit off the topic but...I wanna thank Alexa for pointing it out. I really don't understand these dead fish! The Mayflower madam said she used to try to convince her girls that these guys (esp. mature ones)are not impotent nor turned off, but just want to be pampered, and to be with a woman who wouldn't expect them to do all the "right things" in bed--ending up just lying there.

To me, no matter how old a guy is, there's no excuse not to *do something* when he's alone with a pretty woman undressing in front of him. It's give-and-take. Go ahead and flatter us, cuddle with us, massage our smooth curves, arouse us...

 

[klukerspud]

I've only had one experience...

And it was my first and only time with a SP so far. The thing about it was that I only asked for the hour because I really wasn't sure of what I was doing (not the act but the experience). Sort of trying things out, for the lack of a better phrase.

The thing was that I was so deleriously happy with the fact that she stayed an extra couple of hours and just relaxed with me (I'm a cuddle hog) and talked. GFE all the way.

The only regret that I have was not being able to give her a bigger tip at the time - YMMV depends on how you treat a person. The friend I was traveling with who introduced me to this concept told me I was going a little over board in trying to set a mood with flowers, but we should all think about this for a second - you all give your wives, girlfriends, lovers, etc. gifts, right? Extra money, flowers, DATY, whatever it takes - but make the SP happy.

While you shouldn't expect over time, there's an argument that she's there for you and you are paying for her time - the trick is that it's as much about you as it is about them. My rule of thumb - always be a gentleman and always take care of your SP.

 

[tboy]

First off, thanks for the candor by all the contributors here, its nice to see the other side of the coin as it were.

I noticed (from the male posters) that I am not alone with my thoughts when a lady stays over the allotted time. Many times I have had thoughts of the "bill" going up for every tick of the clock (when I was a newbie).

Personally, the "after time" "before time" is almost as important to me as the actual act. There is nothing more pleasurable that curling up with a beautiful woman and just shooting the breeze for a bit. I think these times make it more like a real date, as opposed to simply a service call. heck, these extra minutes have taught me a lot about women, their thoughts, their fears, their dreams etc.

Thanks for all the pleasant conversation ladies, and thanks for doing that little bit extra.....

 

[FarmersDaughter]

...The friend I was traveling with who introduced me to this concept told me I was going a little overboard in trying to set a mood with flowers, but we should all think about this for a second - you all give your wives, girlfriends, lovers, etc. gifts, right? Extra money, flowers, DATY, whatever it takes - but make the SP happy...

Oh, that reminds me of guys who "assume" our date has no time limit just because...

For example, being bilingual (a very exotic language), I get some curious people who want a little lesson, or just want to try out their skills on me. They have fun listening to me, jotting down key phrases...and time flies!

Even w/o anything specific like that, I love giving each date a flair of some cultural dimensions they're interested in.

By the time they wanna get much closer to this pretty tutor , however, not much time is left--and they *don't* think I still have to charge them for the conversation part.

One guy really thought a bunch of flowers compensate the lesson!

I don't wanna sound businesslike, but at some point I'd need to tell them I gotta get going...

Well that's just my unique situation...