Is it so wrong to fall in love with a stripper?

[BernardMadoff]

I met a stripper and we had seen each other so often for almost half year. At first I was just kinda looking for a fun time after I broke up with my ex-gf. To be honest, this is my first time seeing a stripper. She told me that she didn't do this often and most of time she is dancing in the club. I believe her and start treating her like my GF with respect and care. I take care of her financially and send her 4k-6k a month. I really want her to settle down and focus on her study.

But later I find out that she is also an escort and doing it quite often. It makes me really sad. I must admit I've fallen for her. How I know I've fallen for her. I cry for her. I stay home a lot, I keep thinking about her and I'm always making plans for her and I - blowing heaps of cash for overnights. Sex is no more important to me when I see her. But I don't want this kind of relationship because I am still young( 20-something), not bad looking and don't want to be anybody's sugardaddy.

Is it possible to change her? is there a happy ending for us if we keep seeing each other? Why is it so hard for her to get out and to get a real job? I never believe in fairy tales but now I am begging to be in one.

Your 20-something, and you can afford to give someone 4-6k a month? What do you/whats your job, or were you born wealthy?

 

[The Fruity Hare]

Man...u give 4k to 6k a month? U must be rich....oh my.

Maybe he used to be rich, but possibly not so much anymore!

I could dress up in a skirt and wig, and shave my legs if all I have to do is call and say I'm too busy, have a headache, etc., but just deposit the money in my account.

Sounds like a nice easy little gig.

 

[The Bandit]

Strippers, MP, SP, they all need, want, and deserve to be loved too. They are real people with real feelings, so yes, it is possible, but you should think of them as a woman, a person, and not what they do. Honestly, look past the job, and look at the person.

Yes they are real people, and deserved to be loved...BUT...most will use you for money etc. When the money runs out they move on to the next guy.

The majority will not change their profession for you, why should they, and why do we give them money when they probably make more than us.

I know, I've been there, and have never recovered from it.

 

[MindJohn]

I met a stripper and we had seen each other so often for almost half year. At first I was just kinda looking for a fun time after I broke up with my ex-gf. To be honest, this is my first time seeing a stripper. She told me that she didn't do this often and most of time she is dancing in the club. I believe her and start treating her like my GF with respect and care. I take care of her financially and send her 4k-6k a month. I really want her to settle down and focus on her study.

But later I find out that she is also an escort and doing it quite often. It makes me really sad. I must admit I've fallen for her. How I know I've fallen for her. I cry for her. I stay home a lot, I keep thinking about her and I'm always making plans for her and I - blowing heaps of cash for overnights. Sex is no more important to me when I see her. But I don't want this kind of relationship because I am still young( 20-something), not bad looking and don't want to be anybody's sugardaddy.

Is it possible to change her? is there a happy ending for us if we keep seeing each other? Why is it so hard for her to get out and to get a real job? I never believe in fairy tales but now I am begging to be in one.

Oh my god, I can't under-emphasize this advice:


"RUN AWAY FROM HER NOW!!!!"

 

[elassowipo1]

In love with a stripper? I'll let my friend T-Pain answer this one

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gkkwxJCHEvY

 

[Cobster]

Ha ha ha....better yet ask her if she can "lend" you $500 for a few days cause you misplaced your bank card.

lol

 

[marikiss]

I - blowing heaps of cash for overnights. .

So not only are you playing sugar daddy, you're also a client at the same time. Ok if you like spoiling a girl and giving expensive gifts and money, GREAT have fun with it, but setup an offical understanding. Is she an SP that you're hooked on or is she your girlfriend? girlfriends don't charge for overnights, they want to stay with you.

If you like spoiling girls but don't want a working girl for a girlfriend or sugar baby you might wanna take a look at www.whosyoursugadaddy.com tons of eager babes willing to take your gifts. Or if you just get off on being taken advantage of and treated like dirt check out these listings. http://beta.niteflirt.com/categories/849 all are ladies that specialize in taking money from weak men with open wallets. hahaha


honestly I have to call bullshit! this dickhead is playing us all. more likely than not the whole thing is made up and he's whacking off to us making fun of him.

 

[Polecat]

Dude I had a stripper live with me for over a year, and the best part of it I took her money. I tried to get her to escort so she would bring more $$ to the table but when she wouldn't I showed her the door. I do miss the extra income that I had.