Is it reasonable to ask for a lower price for non-sexual service??

[mississauga_guy]

I need someone to go with me to a wedding... a knockout girl, younger, someone very sweet... but dressed very elegant, formal and respectful. I'm guessing it will take a little over an hour but not more than 2. If she likes I would be more than happy to take her out to dinner afterwards somewhere nice as well my treat. I just want someone to talk with, someone to hold my hand and let me cry on their shoulder... (this is going to be a rough wedding for me to attend but at the same time I don't want to miss it or go alone, or with a guy-friend). If she's really cute I might grab her ass but that's about it! (just kidding).

Sooo... is it reasonable to expect a girl to bring down her price for something like this since it is non-sexual in nature? Or do they not care what is done in the hour or two you spend with them and the rate remains the same? I kind of feel bad paying a girl too, but I want to bring someone with max glamour if you know what I mean, I can give the girl a jewelry gift instead of cash Anyways, I'm hoping some of the girls on here will answer and give me their opinions as well.

Thanks.

 

[Yuri]

I would think a reduction in fee, for a non-sexual outing would be reasonable. The challenge is will you be able to find a SP who would agree to a reduced fee. Secondly, if the wedding is say a busy Saturday Evening, an average SP would forgo the reduction knowing that her time would be better spent on Clients paying the regular fee.

Here is a open challenge to all SP's....how about honouring Mississauga Guy's request, have that gesture of goodwill communicated on TERB as a SP that show's humanity and compassion...who knows that may be an interesting marketing twist.

 

[blofeld]

If she could make, say, $300/hr by skipping you, why would she take an appointment for (say) $200/hr? From a pure business point of view it doesn't make sense.

 

[mississauga_guy]

OK well thanks for the replies. The wedding is in aprox. 1 month from now, on July 12th (a saturday) at 1:30pm. So I'm not sure how much business these girls get on Saturday early afternoons. I know some mention they only like to see 1 guy a day, so they could do this, and see a guy later in the evening and still make their money for the day?

A blind date? That would be too risky... what if she were unattractive? I really need to go with someone very pretty.

As for it being a "tough gig" ... she just chit chats for a little while before/after and stands there for 30-40 mins or whatever during the ceremony, I can't see it being all that challenging!

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[elaine]

Actually, it's very challenging. I was a 'lady' to a gent who would fly me to his home town every two three months for a week at a time, to play his 'date'.

You meet best friends, you meet relatives (actually I met no family) but I met the gardener etc. And the frequency of it all was just from the original meeting, and having the townspeople asking how I was, when was i coming back so to show face, he'd rehire me. His secratary after six months thought things were serious and got me a full scolarship to Aberdeen Uni to make things eassier for me to move over!

We ended it shortly after that, but what was meant to be a fun weekend watching the Perth Derby, turned into quite the woven web.

A reduced rate to meet family and friend, possibly your own and risk having to invite you over for dinner cause my friend or pinchy faced aunt was also at the wedding? no way!

 

[mississauga_guy]

Hmmmmmm.... well I think it's safe to say it wouldn't turn out into anything permenant seeing how everyone at the wedding is not related to me nor my flesh and blood. I'm going as the "friend" of the bride and groom, but my ex is in the bridal party.

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Anyhow, you guys are right, I do need someone who is intelligent, articulate, etc. So it may be hard to find the right person.

 

[papasmerf]

one can always negociate.

One can always refuse to pay retail

one can always go to a wedding alone.

 

[BigGuy26]

Re: prefer to have a date

going alone to a wedding would kinda suck!

Why would going to a wedding alone suck? Aren't weddings a good place to meet other singles? Who knows, you may meet a friend or relative of the bride or groom or family who happens to be single too. Plus its really easy to start a conversation!

 

[mississauga_guy]

I already know everyone that is going to the wedding pretty much, including her relatives.

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[papasmerf]

So your goal is making a roomfull of people go WOW
and your ex think she really screwed up????

Walk away guy and cut your losses while you can.

 

[mississauga_guy]

It's not my intention to let anyone get the impression I am dating Ms. X or give my ex the feeling she screwed up. I just would like to go with someone, and I would like that someone to be very attractive and elegant. As I mentioned, I have grown very attached to her family as well, so I really don't want to miss the wedding, and going alone is not an option.

 

[mississauga_guy]

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[ToronToto]

... now that everyone knows the story of my life, I better keep my mouth shut before someone figures out who I am

Anyone who knows you and reads TERB has probably figured this out several posts ago.

btw, are you the type that won't go to an SC alone?

 

[LateComer]

What if her family figured out your "date" was an SP? I don't think I would take the chance.

 

[mississauga_guy]

>>Anyone who knows you and reads TERB has probably figured this out several posts ago.

Ya, you're right. I've already gone and edited my posts to remove any unique info about me. This website has an Alexa ranking of 12,472, so it must get a lot of traffic. Hopefully no one I know is reading it

What's an SC by the way?

As for the people at the wedding figuring out she's an SP --- well I guess I'll have to make sure to meet her once or twice before hand so we can get to know eachother a bit more so it's not as obvious.

 

[ToronToto]

Didn't mean to make you paranoid about this, but it was quite revealing, and all in a single thread. Many of us have said things about ourselves, but over the course of many, many, many posts.

An SC is a Strip Club. Some guy asked in a post (not the original thread inquiry) about going to an SC alone, and if it was okay to do so without seeming/feeling kinda weird. Basically he had qualms about going alone, and it's sound as if you may have similar issues.

Haven't you ever gone alone to, see a film, eat at a good restaurant, have a vacation etc?

 

[mississauga_guy]

Nope, I would never go to see a film, eat at a nice restaurant, etc by myself. Vacation? not for pleasure... maybe if I had business to do. What's the point? Those are more social activities.

Strip Club? funny you mention that. I went to one for the very first time this weekend with a bunch of guys. I would hardly go often with other people, let alone myself. Who goes to a strip club by themselves anyways? You would have to be king pervert

 

[ToronToto]

Just as we suspected, your answer reveals why going to a wedding alone is "just not an option" for you.

See this post/thread about going to an SC alone https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?s=&postid=240179#post240179 (Search is up again). If you`re not a hobbyist, please ignore my post(s), and avoid TERB, for your own sake.

 

[BigGuy26]

Nope, I would never go to see a film, eat at a nice restaurant, etc by myself. Vacation? not for pleasure... maybe if I had business to do. What's the point? Those are more social activities.

Sounds like you may have some issues regarding confidence. Just take a chance.

 

[mississauga_guy]

I have no issues with confidence, and I'm not 17. I don't know many 17 year olds that own their own business or have 3 cars. Neither of you know me personally, so I don't see how you can arrive to any conclusions about my personality or age.

I think anyone that goes to a NICE restaurant by themselves is somewhat sad if you ask me. If it's someplace to just eat, that's different. Same with a vacation or a strip club. Unless you go on 20 vacations a year or something. I tend to only go on 1-2 per year so I like to make it something to remember with family or friends.

As for TorontoTo's suggestion, I think he may have a point. If I end up staying/posting here, I'll become a pervert like most of you people. I only wanted the company of a nice woman, that's all.

Later.