Is it possible for a provider to develop feelings for a client?
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This forum is a place for reviews How would a newbie know what to expect when venturing out for the first time? I'm pretty sure those penthouse novels would help less experienced hobbyists. Not advocating for them (my reviews are brief fwiw), but everyone has their own way of writing their own reviews. And should write it as they please.
I think it possible, but not really expected. I mean they made a movie or two about it 
So far, I have been treated well. Hope that trend continues. Although I do get weird requests, low ball offers. I just stick with what is on my profile(s). Remember, be nice. I do think the OP should look for a GF elsewhere though.
Have a great Hump Day evening.
So far, I have been treated well. Hope that trend continues. Although I do get weird requests, low ball offers. I just stick with what is on my profile(s). Remember, be nice.
I do think the OP should look for a GF elsewhere though.Have a great Hump Day evening.
Sp’s have absolutely zero feelings or wish to develop feelings with clients. If they wanted a relationship, they would be in a different line of work . An escort only has feelings for money and there are many providers who are great salespeople in selling the fantasy of false hope on their clients.
Whats the first thing that happens on visitation? ( Show me the money), it’s all about the money and nothing else!!!
Whats the first thing that happens on visitation? ( Show me the money), it’s all about the money and nothing else!!!
I do not speak for everyone...but is that fair to say?? Maybe the SP loves the intimacy and meeting fun, new people. Maybe some are in it strictly for the money, who knows. I think you can tell who is who when you meet. I have no idea what others do for a living, but love it or hate it, no one is working without knowing payment is coming.
But this I can say, everyone has feelings. Some hide it better than others, but cuts do hurt.
That's literally with I said. If someone isn't providing the services you want, why keep pressuring her instead of seeing someone else? Just go see someone else. You kept seeing her all these years and kept asking her and she kept saying no. Now you're mad because new clients got what you wanted.... You could just have respected her boundaries and decided to see someone else instead a long time ago if those services are that important to you.
I’m kinda baffled that a sizeable portion of client actually expect emotional stimulation from escortsWow this is still going online lol.
Some delusional simps and those to carry their “dreams”.
”$$$$, it’s a gas”
Of course it is about the money or they would just do it for free? Why shouldn’t they expect payment? It’s a business.
That’s harsh.
The only statement you made that I agree with is that SPs have zero wish to develop feelings with clients.
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This happened with me as well. She was my regular for 3 years and the last year I was seeing her exclusively as I had some personal things in my life and job loss / change where I had no energy or inclination to either date in the real world or look for other SPs. I liked seeing her 1-2x a month and we did have good "sexual chemistry" but then the last 6 months it became a coin toss if she would actually follow through with the date or would ask to reschedule the day of or day before.
The final nail in the coffin was when she canceled on me literally last minute for a date planned 2 weeks in advance. Now once in a while, people do get sick or life happens on either side but when every date becomes a coin toss, yeah it feels like you are just taking me for granted.
I think you guys have to understand that it's not because we don't want to be in a romantic relationship with clients that we don't care about them. The fact that I need to be compensated for the work I do for my clients doesn't negate the positive relationships I develop with them.
Providing emotional comfort and connection is part of my job. Developing a romantic relationship and hanging out off the clock is not.
Another TERBo Cop, we've already established that I repeated what you said. Do you want an apology, too? Some of y'all seem intent on backing the provider, and pinpointing my actions/emotions regardless of what I say; I've already acknowledged the stupidity of my actions in previous posts.
One can feel disrespected and not get mad. Remorse is more like it, for my lost time/money. I gave her the benefit of the doubt because (I thought) she was good to me, just to find out (through this forum) she wasn't giving me her best/prioritizing others. And then for her to lie again and to attack the credibility of TERBers and their reviews.... If you actually read my earlier posts, you'd know I've dropped her since.
I'm not a cop. I'm sorry this person hurt your feelings. I myself give everyone the same service. Have a great evening
It's not difficult to develop a relationship with a provider. Depending on your race and background you can EASILY accomplish this. But there are pros and cons. After dating over 15 girls I will share my secrets.
The obvious benefit is the sex and off the clock hangouts.
The drawback that no one talks about is they will ask you to drive them around to appointments and shopping. Eventually they will ask you for papers (citizenship).
This is specific to new comers to Canada that unfortunately settle into this world as a quick means to survive.
It is very possible for ladies to develop feelings for a guy who is able to provide value in terms of physical and emotional comfort, as well as signaling future possibilities while demonstrating a level of financial stability and intelligence.
That's really the formula especially at a Latino house, for someone that speaks the language. I can imagine that to also be true for Eastern European or Asian shops.
So if you are hungry for dating girls that work in this industry, there's no better place to start.
However, I warn you that as good as the sex, being a driver and a paper cuck is not worth the trouble. Believe me I have been down that road. The drama and the bs back home in Columbia or where the fuck is not worth your peace of mind.
You are welcome to try it for yourself and get the experience. You'll be mind fucked for real.
I would just pay for the sex and leave it at the room.
The obvious benefit is the sex and off the clock hangouts.
The drawback that no one talks about is they will ask you to drive them around to appointments and shopping. Eventually they will ask you for papers (citizenship).
This is specific to new comers to Canada that unfortunately settle into this world as a quick means to survive.
It is very possible for ladies to develop feelings for a guy who is able to provide value in terms of physical and emotional comfort, as well as signaling future possibilities while demonstrating a level of financial stability and intelligence.
That's really the formula especially at a Latino house, for someone that speaks the language. I can imagine that to also be true for Eastern European or Asian shops.
So if you are hungry for dating girls that work in this industry, there's no better place to start.
However, I warn you that as good as the sex, being a driver and a paper cuck is not worth the trouble. Believe me I have been down that road. The drama and the bs back home in Columbia or where the fuck is not worth your peace of mind.
You are welcome to try it for yourself and get the experience. You'll be mind fucked for real.
I would just pay for the sex and leave it at the room.
I would say yes but rarely act on it. I think you have to think beyond this and actually see the big picture if ever it happens. Might cool you down a bit.
First you will go through the same stigmatization we do with your friends and familly. While we are a community here, your loved ones will not necessarily be approving. Your friend might laugh at you because you are a guy that is in a relationship with a girl who sleeps with everyone. Question your manly hood and ridicule you behind your back. Some might straight up stop talking to you. Forget about her meeting your fam if thats the case. It wouldn't be nice to do that to her.
Second, you will go to work everyday thinking about what she is doing or worst if something is going to happen to her.
Third, depending on the boundaries you establish you will ear the bad stories or simply seeing her being spoiled by another man. You will be angry and and helpless when something happen to her.
Fourth, the alleged sexual realm. You will absolutely not have a relationship with constant sex and discoveries. Maybe at the beginning but at the end of the days relationship fades and connection take over. Some morning you will wake up horny but she needs to go to work have sex with other men and wont help you out all the time.
You need to be a special type of guys to be with an escort imo. Personally, I wouldn't act on any feelings because I did in the past as a baby escort and know where it goes and at the end of the day you gave it up for free and the discount you gave will be apply on another women the minute you are lacking....are we deserving of love? Yes absolutely. But very few can provide it properly to us.
Food for thought.
Ps. I didn't read the rest of the thread so if I repeat something sorry
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...or there's another way of looking at this. If you are an escort's partner, you are the only one who matters in her eyes and the other men are just clients. ''Getting spoiled'' is nice and all, but ultimately I am not in a relationship with these men. It's just part of the game. At least in my case, when I had a partner while being an escort, that was the truth for me. That is also why it's important to not date your clients or fall in love with them in my opinion, because it breaks that boundary. Sure, I appreciate my clients and have a friendship with them, but ultimately they are clients and this is my job.
Completely agree in the case where your man has an iron clad self confidence, is very head leveled and have an entourage that is understanding. Lets face it, it is kind of rare and you were very lucky.
Also clients are clients but unfortunately in my case, I actually reached orgadm with some of them (shameful I know) so I have a hard time telling my partners "its just a job". I rather say "hey, here what might/could happen if we get together. Now take a decision". At then end of the day I am what I am and he has to deal with it just like I do. And thats good for clients or non clients but especially non clients because they dont know.
