Is it ok to get feelings for a Client

[MOSTH8ED]

Is it safe to have feelings for a client, or are you just setting yourself up to get hurt,
Does he spend time with you because he's lonely, make him 100% happy, or does he do it cause he's addicted to the scene, and your just one of many? Men are so confusing

 

[alex52]

Your just setting yourself up to get hurt.

 

[Petzel]

These type of threads come up all the time.

 

[Brandon123]

I didn't know SP's had feelings for clients. The percentage must be slim.

 

[Petzel]

I didn't know SP's had feelings for clients. The percentage must be slim.

You must be sarcastic cuz of course feelings can develop. SPs are people too.

 

[MOSTH8ED]

MPA actually

 

[gww]

It happens.. if you have the feelings let him know.

 

[Petzel]

It happens.. if you have the feelings let him know.

No! Don't tell him now you have feelings for him or you'll scare him off and lose a client. I would advise you to wait before you tell him anything.

 

[Samurai Joey]

To the OP,

Of course it can happen that you can develop feelings for a client -- you're a human being, after all. The key question then is what you intend to do about those feelings. Can you still continue to provide your services as an MPA with him given these feelings? Only you can answer that question.

I concur with the others that it's only fair to let the client know, and see how he reacts. Then you can determine what next steps you wish to take.

 

[bridgette_xo]

I would probaby not recommend it but sometimes you can't control your heart. There are factors you would have to consider such as his marital status, his view on sps/mpas and if he can be open to accepting you for that, and also if he feels the same. There are other factors of course but those are some you should consider.

 

[GrandBlasterK]

If you insist on calling him a "client", how will he believe your feelings towards him are genuine and not part of the act? Women are so confusing.

 

[Babypowder]

i want to advise you to give him the pussy

 

[shack]

Is it safe to have feelings for a client, or are you just setting yourself up to get hurt,
Does he spend time with you because he's lonely, make him 100% happy, or does he do it cause he's addicted to the scene, and your just one of many? Men are so confusing

Men are actually quite straightforward until the women start overthinking.

'tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.

 

[letsn0twastetime]

wish an SP would 'develop' feelings for me, it would boost the low lying self esteem for a while... but alas all GFE ever experienced was just that. And some who claim they offered GFE acted just like robots. I don't have the plague, really!

 

[Lou Siffer]

No! Don't tell him now you have feelings for him or you'll scare him off and lose a client. I would advise you to wait before you tell him anything.

Wait for what?

 

[Maverick2012]

I would probaby not recommend it but sometimes you can't control your heart. There are factors you would have to consider such as his marital status, his view on sps/mpas and if he can be open to accepting you for that, and also if he feels the same. There are other factors of course but those are some you should consider.

This is good advice & hopefully things you have already considered.

I'm recently out of the biz, but I've been there before, more than once in fact & it can be difficult. Just like there are some men that wonder if an SPs/MPAs attention is more than just her being booked to be there, SPs/MPAs can also get attached. In addition to Bridgette's advice, I would look at your own life - your real life outside the job - perhaps something is missing there?

Bottom line, tread lightly & ease into it. If you tell him how you feel without all of these considerations & scare him off.... you have also just lost a client. Good luck, hun.

 

[Petzel]

Wait for what?

Wait to see if he may be interested in her or show her another side of him. The longer she waits, the more she will get to know him and give her more time to feel him out.

 

[toughb]

Is it safe to have feelings for a client, or are you just setting yourself up to get hurt,
Does he spend time with you because he's lonely, make him 100% happy, or does he do it cause he's addicted to the scene, and your just one of many? Men are so confusing

You worry to much Most. I love you for your mind.

 

[Phil C. McNasty]

You'll both live long and happily ever after

 

[GrandBlasterK]

Chances are it is not a good thing to get involved in a relationship with a client, and seriously there is nothing wrong with getting professional help or the advice of a therapist or counsellor about this.

Every time I get too emotionally attached to an SP, I seek professional help from another one who acts as my therapist (and who also happens to provide a great blowjob). Seriously, this can become a vicious and inter-dependent cycle.