Is it normal to get booted out early?

[EdElric]

Hi guys,

I am new to all this, well, a couple months in, I was just wondering is it normal to get booted out earlier than what you offered? I have only been going through LL services, not many local indy yet (recommendations?…..).

I have always compensated for at least an hour-long service, although, y’know, can’t last that long. I enjoy small talks afterward, just laid back and hang out. However, the past couple of services, let’s just say, time has been cut short, like, commercial break length short. It was like, oh, you finished, you done. Maybe, I found a couple bad apples on a tree but, it is giving me some bad impressions. I can finish in HH just for the service, but I preferably pay for the hour, let us take our time, don't rush it, socialize a bit, have some fun and relax.

Anyhow, I guess I am seeking any sort of experiences from you guys?

Is it better to do HH services, those you found on LL, with limited info, and test the water first.
Or, you have been generous….and aim for the hour but somehow you get pissed off even more afterward because you felt, wtf, did I just got scammed because that session was shorter than a period of hockey….don’t get me wrong, I can get fucked by just attending a senator’s game and watch them lose but still….at least, for the amount I paid for the game, I get to stick around.
There have been extremely rare gems(When she opens that door, she didn't give you the, get the fuck in, give me yo money and let's get fucked. But the sensation of welcoming home, from a long day of work) found on LL and I hope to be a regular, but still, the odds were slim considering how much I’ve blew past couple of months….(thanks GME now I’m broke).

So, do you guys just go for it, avoid the small talks afterward and peace or stick around for socialization?

Any word of advices or recommendations for the newbies around town.

Thanks!
P.S. apologies for the long rant.

 

[CanuckSoldier]

Its definitely a good idea to just book for a hh for a new lady, many ladies want you to pay for an hour and hope they can get you done in 15-20 min. Until you find a lady with good chemistry with you, don't pay out more than needed.

 

[source]

Its definitely a good idea to just book for a hh for a new lady, many ladies want you to pay for an hour and hope they can get you done in 15-20 min. Until you find a lady with good chemistry with you, don't pay out more than needed.

You said it: It's all about chemistry. I've seen Ladies who had a clockwatcher reputation, but through chitchat we found areas of common interest. We kept talking, sometimes even past the agreed time. But those are the exceptions to the rule. It doesn't guarantee anything for my next appointment.

I often said it and I'll say it again: Never forget that these Ladies are running a business so they (and their children, if they have any) can live a decent life. These Ladies are service providers, and once the 'service' is 'provided', they're looking forward for the next client or simply for some 'me time' between clients. They're not interested in empty talk or the dramas of our lives.

Things may be different with expensive Ladies at 400+ that don't take appointments under an hour and a half . I don't know, I haven't been there.

 

[DoctorMuon]

Yeah, that is common for providers, and that's a newbie mistake you made, when trying out a new provider, just always pay for the minimum amount of time that you need to finish, the first session. If you go for a repeat then go for more time. Afterall, if you're repeating that means you got along with her, and she probably got along with you too. So chances are likely that the second time, she'll want to see you and hang around a bit with you too.

 

[mmmbewbz]

Just find ones that are good with MSOG

 

[MikeO]

I book independents and my experience is as follows. Generalizing doesn't paint accurate individual pictures, but....

If you book local ladies who are well reviewed and who are trying to "build a practice" of regulars, you have more chance of enjoying a less rushed "visit", creating some chemistry and mutually enjoying your time together. Several of the ladies make outcall to my place and enjoy conversation, perhaps a glass of wine on the balcony, before heading into the playroom.

After a couple of less than favourable experiences early on, I started trying to line up introductory sessions of 45 mins. with new ladies. That usually moderates the price of an uncertainty and still leaves enough time to make a proper assessment of chemistry and performance, but still allow for a less rushed experience than 30 mins.

The few experiences I've had where I was rushed or the provider spent time on a mobile phone were with ladies from out of town, more likely here just to make the bucks and look or ask for you to leave after "the event". Two of these touring ladies voiced, "Well that's how we do it in (wherever they are from)." I no longer see out of towners.

 

[Gurney]

You said it: It's all about chemistry. I've seen Ladies who had a clockwatcher reputation, but through chitchat we found areas of common interest. We kept talking, sometimes even past the agreed time. But those are the exceptions to the rule. It doesn't guarantee anything for my next appointment.

I often said it and I'll say it again: Never forget that these Ladies are running a business so they (and their children, if they have any) can live a decent life. These Ladies are service providers, and once the 'service' is 'provided', they're looking forward for the next client or simply for some 'me time' between clients. They're not interested in empty talk or the dramas of our lives.

Things may be different with expensive Ladies at 400+ that don't take appointments under an hour and a half . I don't know, I haven't been there.

Ok nice but on other end they always says you pay for the time with them, not the service as if you don't cum, you still have to pay...

 

[TimeOutCalled]

Have your chat before you get down to business. I hate first time encounters so I tend to repeat. Repeating with someone who's company you enjoy is a pleasure. Clock watching with tepid company is a waste of money. A quality provider will ensure you don't finish early.

So, don't be one of those TOFTT guys. Check reviews. Pay for quality. Be a repeat client.

Good luck.

Hi guys,

I am new to all this, well, a couple months in, I was just wondering is it normal to get booted out earlier than what you offered? I have only been going through LL services, not many local indy yet (recommendations?…..).

I have always compensated for at least an hour-long service, although, y’know, can’t last that long. I enjoy small talks afterward, just laid back and hang out. However, the past couple of services, let’s just say, time has been cut short, like, commercial break length short. It was like, oh, you finished, you done. Maybe, I found a couple bad apples on a tree but, it is giving me some bad impressions. I can finish in HH just for the service, but I preferably pay for the hour, let us take our time, don't rush it, socialize a bit, have some fun and relax.

Anyhow, I guess I am seeking any sort of experiences from you guys?

Is it better to do HH services, those you found on LL, with limited info, and test the water first.
Or, you have been generous….and aim for the hour but somehow you get pissed off even more afterward because you felt, wtf, did I just got scammed because that session was shorter than a period of hockey….don’t get me wrong, I can get fucked by just attending a senator’s game and watch them lose but still….at least, for the amount I paid for the game, I get to stick around.
There have been extremely rare gems(When she opens that door, she didn't give you the, get the fuck in, give me yo money and let's get fucked. But the sensation of welcoming home, from a long day of work) found on LL and I hope to be a regular, but still, the odds were slim considering how much I’ve blew past couple of months….(thanks GME now I’m broke).

So, do you guys just go for it, avoid the small talks afterward and peace or stick around for socialization?

Any word of advices or recommendations for the newbies around town.

Thanks!
P.S. apologies for the long rant.

 

[DirtyMiind]

When I started I thought along the same lines as the OP and used to book 1.5hr minimum for the initial meet. I've since adopted the less is more approach for first meets due to some less than pleasurable meets with well reviewed ladies, so I would just echo the other suggestions here.

Save your money until you find someone worth it then go nuts. If you find one, do let me know hahaha.

 

[EdElric]

Thank you everyone for the feedbacks!

I think I can understand a little bit about the business. Every providers different, and I should test out the water for the first time providers, and keep it minimum. If the chemistry is there, I shall invest more into the lady.

Becoming a regular will help with the experiences. Don't become a guinea pig with a bunch of different providers haha

 

[DoctorMuon]

So, don't be one of those TOFTT guys. Check reviews. Pay for quality. Be a repeat client.

If it weren't for the TOFTT guys, you wouldn't even know who to look for. TOFTT can be beneficial for the pioneer, as he will have access to a new diamond in the rough long before anyone else, but he has to play it smart.

 

[TimeOutCalled]

Agree that the TOFTT guys provide a valuable service, but not for me. The regulars I see I developed a dialogue with in here first. I had a pretty good comfort level with them before the first visit. I do my homework. And I have had to TOFTT at times, but again, homework.

Fortunately, for me at least, I can over rule the little head so I haven't taken the "I need a woman badly and to hell with caution" route very often because it inevitably disappoints.

If it weren't for the TOFTT guys, you wouldn't even know who to look for. TOFTT can be beneficial for the pioneer, as he will have access to a new diamond in the rough long before anyone else, but he has to play it smart.

 

[DoctorMuon]

Agree that the TOFTT guys provide a valuable service, but not for me. The regulars I see I developed a dialogue with in here first. I had a pretty good comfort level with them before the first visit. I do my homework. And I have had to TOFTT at times, but again, homework.

Fortunately, for me at least, I can over rule the little head so I haven't taken the "I need a woman badly and to hell with caution" route very often because it inevitably disappoints.

Yeah, but I wouldn't call that a TOFTT situation, that's just a boner mitigation run. TOFTT guys usually ask here first, and if there's no answers coming, then they begin their own research, with lots of inquiries to the target about what they're like, before taking the plunge. TOFTT does involve some research first, even if none of the answers come from here.