Is it me or ???

[sexy_bbw_Véro]

I received a email today from an *asiatique* guy from Terb wich want to book with me for my next visit.

The guy's look fine and gentleman and ask me if i am confortable with the fact he is asiatique.

So ... because i like my job and im doing everything with passion , i answered him the truth ... i said , sorry , i am not confortable with asiatique guy ...

I explain to him that is not against race in general ... so it's no way racism from my part ... just a sexual preference ... like some of you dont like bbw or slim girl. I used to tell him i also have friend asiatique but they are friend ... not sexe partner ...

you understand ?

This guy came back in my email box to treat me again and again : rasciste and say the last time : you are a racist and I will post it on terb..... you should think before you speak.... Tell your friend that you find their race repulsice... see what they say.. i suspect they won't be your friend much longer... becareful what you say.. Alot of terb members are offended, even the non Asians....

So .... first , like i explain here and in the email before ... it's not against race ... its SEXUAL PREFERENCE...

I would like to have your opinion on this please ... I want to know how you see the subjet ... because im sure im not the only one here that have sexual preference. turn on & turn off

Im doing my best to meet only person i think i could connect with ... in that way ... im sure to give my 100% in encouters .

Im wrong????

 

[Tarkus]

I would like to have your opinion on this please ... I want to know how you see the subjet ... because im sure im not the only one here that have sexual preference. turn on & turn off.

I find it interesting that he felt compelled to indicate to you that he was Asian? Maybe he has had some bad experiences in the past regarding this matter with SPs and as a result assumed that your refusal was the same.

As per sexual preferences, yes most people have a preference in body type or activity. Besides until you take his money you always have the right to say no end of story.

 

[Noir]

I completely understand what you are saying.

There are also other providers out there who openly communicate the fact that they screen potential clients, based on age, race, and even profession so this is nothing new. This individual is just angry because he was denied a service from you, and perhaps he has never had any problems in the past. It may be possible that since English is not your first language, there may have been a miscommunication between the two of you - either way, you were open about the fact that you wouldn't not feel comfortable seeing him based on your sexual preferences. At least he didn't waste his time/money to come and see you and get turned away, or get bad service.

Perhaps you may want to consider advertising that you do not like to see asian clientele? While it may be off-setting to some clients, I am sure that others may appreciate knowing before making an appointment...? (Just a suggestion...)

Either way, you did nothing wrong. I just wonder why he felt inclined to tell you he was Asian? Perhaps he had some bad experiences with being turned away?

 

[Tarkus]

I completely understand what you are saying.

You ever encounter that issue on the reverse side Noir? People surprised when you answered the door to find that Noir was more than your Nickname on TERB?

 

[sexy_bbw_Véro]

Thank you ... you help me more then you can imagine

I know that i should write something in my add but in montreal , i didnt have lots of asiatique wich want to see me so ... it was not a big problem.

And its more a preference then anything else so... i will not jerk if the guy wich took appointment with me is an Asian! But when guy asking by email if i am comfortable with his race ... its rarely good experience to try!And like i explain to him too ... i had 3 bad experience with strange asiatique guy then , i have more reticence now.

yes my english is baddddd ... im really sorry . Im doing my best.But the email i used to exchange with him was short and clear ... but i dont know maybe some expression look something else in english too loll

 

[sexy_bbw_Véro]

i have a big cock

i read just two thread where you participate tonigh ... and i know yet : you love tits and you have big cock lollll What else?!

 

[oldjones]

To the Client Who Was Refused: If you want people to ignore race, yours, anyone's or everyone's, what the hell are you doing announcing yours? Asking if a particular race is "OK" legitimizes people saying it isn't.

Whether it's a sexual preference or a racist prejudice that made her refuse, just how pleasant do you imagine a session would be if you browbeat her into it?

We could debate preference/prejudice for days, and there have been lots of multi-page threads that have. As the lady says, and many have before her, in matters of sex, appearances, including racially-associated ones count. But here's the bottom line on whether that makes you racist. It's like being pregnant, you are or you aren't. If you define yourself or others by it, you are. And high time we all got over such junk. But that will take a looonng time.

So while we wait, Mr. Whoever You Are, you get over yours first, then you can demand she gets over hers.

And geez, it's not like you'll never have sex again.

 

[smylee52]

You did the right thing

So much better to be honest about type of clients you are comfortable with . Better for you and better for them . Imagine if you just went through with the appointment and he gave you a wonderful review . Next thing you know you'd have hundreds of Asians calling you and then you'd have a serious problem. You are smart to be honest up front . Adults appreciate knowing where they stand .

However I must say it is ironical that you are advertising Bukkake and politely saying you prefer not to have Asian clients .

 

[sexy_bbw_Véro]

J'taime petite papillion de l ' amour

haaaaa trop cute! Merci!

Smylee ... why you said it's ironical that i advertised Bukkake and politely saying that i prefer not to have Asian clients ? I dont understand ... bukkake/gang bang is for all ethnie no?! Or the population of Ottawa are principaly Asian now?? lol

 

[smylee52]

Smylee ... why you said it's ironical that i advertised Bukkake and politely saying that i prefer not to have Asian clients ? I dont understand ... bukkake/gang bang is for all ethnie no?! Or the population of Ottawa are principaly Asian now?? lol

This should explain it ;
Bukkake is the noun form of the Japanese verb bukkakeru (打っ掛ける, to dash [water]), and means simply "splash".

 

[captainc]

you have done nothing wrong

If a restaurant refuse to serve their food to a particular race, I think that is racist.

SPs are not a plate that someone can order from a restaurant. They are human beings that have feelings and preferences.

I really want to see noir but I have that unexplained psychological barrier that stops me. (yup, fuck up in the head!!!)

SPs and clients are both humans and both should have the right to choose who to have sex with.

 

[sexy_bbw_Véro]

hihihihi ok ... now i understand ...

i knew it but at this hour , my brain are gone to bed ... thank you for remind me the signification smylee!

i will join my brain into the bed now so ...

Good night sirs! i give you sweet kiss!

it was nice to have some opinion ... i appreciate very much!

hope to read more tomorrow!