Is it just me…

[chatink]

Without the board I would have lost 1000's in escorts who just amp up the profile without any service.

Board has good reviews of most girls both independents and agencies. search helped me a lot.

from escorts perspective , I get that that those suck at service and nearing the age where they cant get much clients they dont want the board to exist.

 

[Papi69]

Says a guy who must use laughing emoji at the end of nearly every message across the board.

Here's what internet says about it:

"Overuse of smiley emojis can be a subtle sign of social anxiety or insecurity. People with social anxiety often fear being misunderstood or judged, so they use smileys to soften their tone, seek reassurance, or avoid conflict in text-based conversations. Those with insecurity may overuse emojis to appear more likable, overcompensate for self-doubt, or hide vulnerability behind a cheerful façade. In both cases, smiley emojis act as emotional cushioning—helping the sender feel safer and the message seem more positive or agreeable. While not always conscious, this behavior often serves as a coping mechanism for navigating uncertain social interactions."

I knew it. Social anxiety and insecurity was the cause of my fuckin' laughing emojis all these years in the hobby tapping all these hotties. That's the reason why I'm seeing two more this coming week, cause I really need help. Reviews and emojis will follow.

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

With all du respect because I don't know you, you may as well be a stalker or completely unhinged. You might even have threatened a bad review if she wouldn't comply to your request. Not saying you did all this but thing is, you guys are ganging up about something but you have no clue who everyone is....

As a moderator on other board, I saw members comit crime against sex workers and everything mentioned above to end up using boards as a vendetta.

Exactly. They lacked hygiene and additionally They tried choking her and being rough and she said no so they write a terrible review how she doesn’t do anything and the worst they have ever seen but it was the first time they have ever seen anyone and over inflated the experience for themselves and didn’t school on boundaries and consent.

 

[wigglee]

There are also huge problems on each board that probably discourage people to post:

1. People that call every first time poster a shill. You need to start somewhere.
2. People that get mad at members that asked for ISO because they dont share enough so they gatekeep the infos.
3. Members that get litteraly humiliated if they send a deposit to the wrong person.
4. Being shit on for a link.

There is nothing welcoming in this attitude. Just like the escorts you dont like because they bashes their clients online, I will return the advice. "It's part of the game. If it pisses you off don't engage."

thank you, Negative Nelly.

 

[Josephine]

thank you, Negative Nelly.

Lol you are very welcome Sparkle Fart.

 

[Josephine]

Your comment was perfect ! There are so many people with different accounts that are reviewing themselves. I have a strict no review policy ! Every time that I see a new account giving lot of applause on review I take it with lot of grain of salt !
Agree with the lizard part !
Last time I was reading about agencies paying for reviews etc ! It is crazy ! I don’t know if it’s true or not but one thing I know is that the busiest clients are focused on their day to day lives, work, commitments, to hang out here on the review board every time to review girls .

The agency section is full and slowly spilling on the indy's

 

[Josephine]

Exactly. They lacked hygiene and additionally They tried choking her and being rough and she said no so they write a terrible review how she doesn’t do anything and the worst they have ever seen but it was the first time they have ever seen anyone and over inflated the experience for themselves and didn’t school on boundaries and consent.

Thank you! We cannot take anyone's voices for cash just because of post count. Mine included since we have already established that I am a psycho

 

[lir2016]

White knighting by certain users is pretty common (at least in the agency review section) so I could understand why some users may be discouraged to not post reviews altogether

 

[Josephine]

Sweet but a psycho

Ahahah this song was probably written by my ex.

 

[Josephine]

 

[Jenesis]

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Knowing him - you didn’t hurt his feelings at all. You probably made him laugh out loud.

Just so you know. The reaction you hope you are getting with him, you are not.

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

You, who posted a negative review of a girl and then she responded with what ACTUALLY happened? It doesn't look good for you and you know it. ..and the hilarious thing is a few days later you posted "Review Guidelines". You might as well have stated, "...and escorts cannot disagree" because that's what you really wanted now wasn't it? I mean, self-awareness much? I'd say...mmm....no. Do YOU REALLY want to go there?

Perhaps you should do a search on people like you who have an anal fixation. Let's see....oh, the first result

Anal fixation can result in two different categories of people.

• One is the anal-retentive people, who have undergone strict potty training. These people tend to develop characteristics or traits of being strict with things happening around them. They are usually obsessed and have qualities of being stubborn, wanting things to be orderly and under their control. These people can come across as annoying individuals with their controlling traits. [seems to fit you so far]
• The other one is the anal-expulsive individuals. These people would have undergone relaxed potty training where the child would not have complied with any of the instructions. These individuals grow up to be messy, emotional, disorganized, confident, artistic, and cruel. [it does fit your self-justified review no doesn't it]

Like I said, self-awareness much?

So funny !! I also just told someone this last week about what their anal obsession is likely linked to based on what he read in psychology and Freud's theory on developmental stages.

 

[Josephine]

Yeah I see ! I gave up on Terb , when I was reading about some Indy’s SP providing average services and and getting more highlights than the unicorns in some agencies ! There are good Indy SPs too !
I mean ! Fake reviews are killers ! But damn it is fuckn painful to read constantly about it ….

Aren't you a provider?

 

[Josephine]

So funny !! I also just told someone this last week about what their anal obsession is likely linked to based on what he read in psychology and Freud's theory on developmental stages.

And suddenly, MY point above was proven. (About why review might be deleted)...funny how life plays out...

 

[imaan2k]

The review board culture is dying. Still good when it comes of advertising but from what I gather from my clients, they think most of the guys here are lounge lizard that are falling into misogyny, racism and they don't like the way they talk about the providers here. Not my words but I agree a bit. I see gents over 35 BTW. So maybe as they get older it becomes a little bit tedious?

Also the amount of people having multiple accounts and burning accounts talking to themselves in reviews are insane. So are reviews really valuable now? That's another question.

Things that never happened.

 

[NoLagJustMidlife]

Or is there a LOT LESS reviews on this board these days. This is not me giving anyone shit. I’m not exempting myself from this. I’ve asked for opinions and intel as well. But I just feel like you go in the review agency and Indy sections and there’s more ppl asking questions than giving input and reviews.

Anyone have an idea why this is the case? I get there’s likely more will to ask then for intel instead of writing a review. But is there any other factors? Has the industry slowed down as everyday living has become more expensive? Is it just laziness or an unwillingness to share details. Are more ladies requesting or implementing NRPs?

It just feels like there’s a lot less useful information on here these days. Even some of the reviews posted don’t give you any real information that matters.

My point of view as a newcomer: I try to post as many reviews as I can, and write them well so to make them interesting.

However, a recent review of mine got deleted by the mods, twice, without so much of an explanation.

After spending an hour crafting each review, getting even just one deleted feels disheartening. If they do that another time, I’ll just keep my reviews to myself and move on.

 

[The Options Menu]

However, a recent review of mine got deleted by the mods, twice, without so much of an explanation.

After spending an hour crafting each review, getting even just one deleted feels disheartening.

Two suggestions:
1) Write big posts in an outside app / program (with a save function) and copy and paste them into TERB (or other forums). I tend to use a coder's text editor or notes app (depending on where I'm sitting). Yes, that was more relevant advice when operating systems, browsers, and internet connections were more prone to crashing, but it often makes for a more comfortable writing experience even if you don't need the local save often.

2) If you notice a thread of yours went 'poof' for no obvious reason politely message the mods to see what happened. I've always found the mods reasonable to deal with. When I had a positive review go 'poof' some days after it was posted they got back to me promptly when I inquired. If you didn't trip over an obvious rule, there's a good chance a provider has a NRP, but if you're curious just politely ask.

 

[The Options Menu]

whatever your writing style is, be respectful and to the point. Anything incendiary, insulting or drama inducing will involve a lot of moderation because such threads usually get out of control fast, so deletion is a no-brainer for a mod.

Odds are if it starts as a dumpster fire it will get deleted, but if it turns into a dumpster fire it will get cleaned and locked. You can prevent the former, but sometimes it's hard to prevent the latter. It's also worth considering that if a review breaks the rules it makes it easy for a 3rd party to point to it complain, often resulting deletion.

As I said, if something of yours goes 'poof', and you're curious as to why, just politely ask the mods. The mods aren't always great about communicating reasons for deletion, but they will usually respond to polite inquiries.

 

[Liquidity]

Before the pandemic, there was generally very little risk of writing a wonderful review on a gem. Yes, she may get more busy, or even up her prices, but it’s part of paying it forward. Most of us have gotten more out of this board than we’ve put in over the years.

However, since the pandemic, with the rise of Onlyfans, scam culture being normalized, and the unprecedented wealth generated where you have so many johns these days with more money than sense, I’ve noticed that when you find the hidden gem and write a review, the demand goes through the roof, a bunch big whales monopolize her time, and when you get hold of her again, she’s more restrictive, more mechanical, and more distant at a higher price point.

This is also not to mention the weirdos who don’t understand YMMV, and because they saw some guy get DFK in a review, demand to receive it. Only a matter of time before a few very bad experiences ruins with johns ruins it for the rest of us and she becomes a rinser/scammer.

That’s why, going forward, the utility of the board is just to gauge if the provider is real and if she broadly delivers the services she agreed upon. That’s it. Elaborate reviews are largely antiquated now.