long time lurker noticed the same so i made an account to contribute
Is it just me…
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That's exactly what I've heard from quite a few of my clients that are members here...
They don't post or review because of the reasons you mentioned.
It's a shame because good reviews are great advertising, but I completely understand their reasoning.
I spend most of my time here in the sports, lounge and politics forum, although less and less in the politics.
I'll disagree about not leaving negative reviews because over the years I've posted a few and they were left as is. A lot depends on how you write the negative review. If you post it by bashing her then it's likely to be edited or locked from further comment. But if the negative comments are worded to reflect a negative overall experience, then the review will (usually) be left as is.
LTO_3
Lol you obviously didnt look. Before I lost weight I had people saying that I did gain weight and was not their COT. Even as Isabelle or Elizabeth prior I had guy thinking I had too much hips for their liking. Did I delete them? No. Some were even on my website at some points before the evil blue boards resident start deleting reviews of ANY advertisers GOOD OR BAD in one of her multiple meltdowns.
You would also be a fool to think that all the members here are perfect angel. Why would the bad reviews not be challenged just like the good ones made by new members?
Anyways it was a gentle poke and once again, you took it like a drama queen. Bisous.
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A significant number of my clients, more than half of them, tell me they peruse the board to see if a lady has consistent good reviews. They don't feel comfortable themselves writing intimate details, doing the number ratings etc.
It's hard to justify the cost of this hobby. I started this hobby back in the 90s when hourly rates were $100-150. The increase to $200-250 per hour, then the increase to $300-350 was tough to justify.
HPL seems to be the highest priced agency next to some of the Asian agencies. The Asian agencies had Asian clients who had lots of cash to throw around so their prices cater to that market.
I am selective now, mainly because my age and low T levels made me less horny lol.
On occasion I get the urge, and I am still searching for that elusive throat fuck, oh Lola@DD I miss you lol.
HPL seems to be the highest priced agency next to some of the Asian agencies. The Asian agencies had Asian clients who had lots of cash to throw around so their prices cater to that market.
I am selective now, mainly because my age and low T levels made me less horny lol.
On occasion I get the urge, and I am still searching for that elusive throat fuck, oh Lola@DD I miss you lol.
Pressuring someone to write a review is a great way to make a client so uncomfortable they never come back. It also makes the girl look pushy and desperate.Tell them to make shit up for their review. I mean, most guys want to know, is she real, nice, positive, good experience. Tell them to have fun with it. A lot of reviews are likely bullshit anyway so go with it....make shit up but let other guys know you'd repeat right?
Prime example...
Thank you! I'm doing fine but my line of work is so up and down right. Apparently it's super busy in Saskatchewan right now and if someone told me this 5 years ago I wouldn't take them seriously. My 2 regs raised there rates , complain that it's slow and tour more. One of then expected me see her every week when she isn't touring and texted regarding it. I got turned off by it and decided to head in a different direction. I hope it picks up for you.
my two cents as a new member that made a couple review dumps. Including a not so good experience resulted in the provider replying in a really remorseful way. I can understand her perspective so I opted to take the post down, not much incentive to post a "negative" (honest not rude) review when it has such a negative impact on someone
This goes both ways. A lady won't tell someone they are blacklisted because the guy could get irate and even violent. But she will tell the agency what was wrong.
But the not so good reviews are just as important if not more so than good reviews. it provides an outline of your experience and if the SP learns from that then so be it especially if her service wasn't the best that day. And sadly it can also be a bit of a grey area especially if she's having an "off-day" because let's be honest she's human just like the rest of us and off days do happen. But if your "bad review" was accurate then let it stand and you can always review her again if you repeat with her and the service was significantly improved.
LTO_3 .
The flip side of that is true as well. If you had a good encounter with someone that has some negative reviews, possibly in a previous incarnation, then let it stand. Like you said, anyone can have an off day, and I'll add that people can go through rough patches, or improve and learn... Just tell the story of your encounter honestly, in a style you find appropriate, while being reasonably humane and considerate. You don't have to talk down your good time because someone else had a bad time.
I used to visit and post reviews here frequently. In recent years, like so many social media platforms, as often as not threads end up in fights and arguments as the keyboard warriors do their thing. As mentioned above, there's also far more racism, misogyny and general boorishness than I care for (which is none).
In addition, reviews need to be toned down to satisfy the administrative censors. The last review I posted was deleted, I guess because it crossed the line in terms of being too explicit.
Anyway, I rarely visit here anymore at all, let alone to post reviews.
In addition, reviews need to be toned down to satisfy the administrative censors. The last review I posted was deleted, I guess because it crossed the line in terms of being too explicit.
Anyway, I rarely visit here anymore at all, let alone to post reviews.
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Trying to put in more reviews recently but more of a lurker by nature.
Facts.
That being said, I have written reviews for long-time providers when they asked me. It's no different than say asking for a reference. If I've seen a provider long enough or had enough sessions with her that we have a good relationship going on and I enjoy her services, I have no problem recommending her. I'll even show her the review before posting it so there no any surprises and for the opportunity to ask me to remove something she doesn't feel like sharing.
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It's like they're censoring or something... lol
With all du respect because I don't know you, you may as well be a stalker or completely unhinged. You might even have threatened a bad review if she wouldn't comply to your request. Not saying you did all this but thing is, you guys are ganging up about something but you have no clue who everyone is....
As a moderator on other board, I saw members comit crime against sex workers and everything mentioned above to end up using boards as a vendetta.
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I am a complete psycho and a lovely one at that!With all due respect, you could be a psycho??
No wonder guys speak out less and less.
And thanks for proving my earlier point. Much obliged
