Is Escorting a Side Hustle?

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I am with her (mostly) and it really comes back to the spectrum I commented upon earlier. This is a profession. The men/women that do it are self employed. The professional career oriented ones end up with a lucrative business and retirement is understandably their exit plan. I have met woman in their late 40s and 50s that are clearly doing quite well. Not that they are bragging - it’s just obvious they they own multiple properties and have put their kids through undergrad (as an example) when you talk to them.

There are obviously people in the industry that are at the opposite end of the above spectrum (like any industry they outnumber the successful people), they have reasons for doing this that are too varied to list. Many of them should have an exit plan as they are not the self employed professionals that can succeed doing this.

My only contention is the fat cat CEO bit….nobody in this career is making 20m a year (or whatever) and getting stock options hahahaha.
Stocks can be bought!!! LOL. JK. I get your point but you also get mine. This idea that we have to “exit” the industry and into some else is just funny to me.

With the amount we can make if we hustle right, and save like normal people in normal jobs, we can have the Freedom 55 retirement plan. We can put into RSP, TFSA, GIC, buy stocks, own homes, etc. We just have to claim our taxes. Which if a career, should be done naturally.

Side note - the shit we can write off, I can even begin to get into. Every women should be claiming this even in part in taxes. If only to write off hair and make up. LOL.
 
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With the social safety net in Canada, the motivation for prostitution are somewhat different than in other parts of the world where squalor and starvation are always at the doorstep and extreme “ hustling” takes place.
Currently Bill C36 allows for sex workers to get some support towards free tuition at some educational institutions to encourage them to abandon the sex trade and I wonder how many individuals actually make use of this avenue and if the government publishes stats.
Still at the end of the day, the world’s oldest profession is here to stay and morphs through the decades, centuries and millenniums in different forms with different complexities and euphemisms reflected by the times.
 
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Why does an escort need an “exit” plan? ((((A))))

Why can’t she have a career of like 30 years. Say from 20-50 and then retire early like a fat cat CEO? (((B))))

Why is retiring off all your escorting money after a full career of working - not considered an exit plan like any other job? (((C)))

There are plenty of women right now working in their 50s. Y’all think they are 35-45 but they are in their 50s. And killing it. ((((D)))

This “exit” plan idea seem like it is from a guy who feels escorts can only do this for a couple of years. Or while their are in their 20s. ((((E))))

This is a job. You work your job until you retire with your job, why can’t an escort have a career and retire? What is the difference? ((((F))))
I am going to answer your question with facts not hot air words, may sound ridiculous but it is life. I am not insulting you or degrading you this is all from experience and wisdom I have seen, heard and observed. Also my family member were landlords so I saw things when I went to help out.

In general in the old day but still is known today that women can't keep/save money. It seems most can now but not all, meaning women of age 35-55 seems they can save but not all. Statistics is hard to measure. So here it is....
Go to debtors anonymous and hear their stories. Most are women with high income plus 50k nurses, teachers, I think I saw a lawyer. Buying all luxury because society will give her an Academy Award. But has money issues.

(((A)))
Most self employed people don't contribute to their CPP. People have the idea that if they don't work they will get full CPP/OA/+. No. You get a % what you give. That percent is low, you can check with Service Canada how much you will get now or when you are 65.
I know blue collars guys at work that didn't work over time and will retire in 2-5 years and they are regretting it not much is going to coming and they haven't paid OFF the house yet and want out by 65.
IF the SP has a house paid off sure she can work at Walmart/Tim's ( or SP's) for the rest of her life and be safe and not on the street. Her being at landlord at 65 by herself with no kids or support is an adventure.
Look at LL or Redzone there are some ladies plus 60 advertising it is money or just want sex?
Lets say the SP ends been sick at 35 or 50 with cancer, STI or her Vagina is hurting her. What will she do then? if the Doctor says no more sex? how will she support herself?.

((( B))) - she can have a career till she is 80. I seen this in Belgium / Brussel brothel area. But did she SAVE her money and invested it? nest egg? There was an SP here long time ago at the beginning, she saved her money bought a house, then a second one I think it was MP/SP work, and rented out the second house and retired from this place/field. I am sure she is happy at where she is working now or also seeing her special clients on occasion.

(((C))) I worked with a real French lady her husband was management in oil/gas field all over the world. He passed away while retired she was 10 years younger and kids not at home. She decided to retire at 58. She came back two years later to work because the funds/money was disappearing very fast. The house was already paid for, but costing money, repair her and there, things do wear down, supposedly large RRSP and her CPP not very high. She stayed till she was 67, with some bullshit excuse when the company had a policy of 65 you must retire.

Now if the SP save their money in cash - of course it is hard to make a deposit in the bank. How long before she needs a man or female roommate to keep her cost down? Things go up in price and your cash money under the mattress doesn't accumulate interest or keep up with inflation.

Say inflation is 3% a year in ten years that is 30%. The cash money? no gain what so ever. Say items like grocery go up 5% a year in ten years 50%. The SP cash money under the mattress has devalue or is less. How will she regain or catch up to inflation.

I worked as paperboy in my pre teens for a high rise building, blue collar people. One client a couple were renting, she was a cop in the 50'-80's and he had a career but no house, what happen? They needed help with some work so for extra cash I said yes but the best part was when she would tell me stories of her days when she was a cop, even back then she would be called in to talk to former SP's who didn't have anything, getting kicked out of apartments they couldn't pay, no one to help her or family, some family live at the other end of the country. To me her stories were great it taught me a lot about people.
People don't change, you are doing the same behaviours and habits as someone else in the 50's. Technology has helped a bit.


(((D))) Yes 50+ plus are killing it but I seen it in Europe, and here but do they have liquidity or a house? Condo is to expensive, in my area there are some condo's whose maintenance fees are 800+ a month and on top have to pay the mortgage. Reason being to high is because the developers or construction people screwed it up, like every where else.
IF the SP can save the money and reinvest it in a house or several houses then get out later, but keep one, yeah sure she is killing it and has contributed to her CPP and RRSP, even better, I am sure she can manage after 65. I seen old ladies working at Tim's and Walmart are they bored at home? would a person rather be at a store arguing with people at 70?

(((E))) from a guy yes. And not women because women like to see other women suffer. It is said - some one told me also in the bible - that supposedly women can't keep money, and it is in their DNA, if raised properly to save at early age they can. I have seen this and know family. I also know female family and other women who don't or can't save MONEY and buy luxury to show off. Who are they showing off to????? I see this at work now.

(((F))) She can, here is proof
But has she saved money for her retirement?
See above comments.
or is she expecting some old man Camelot prince charming knight to save her from her bad decisions? in her later years.

People now can't take their CPP and go to a third world country and live moderately, because those places have gone up in price/inflation. I know because my dad is looking and can't do it as a blue collar. Even his other friends who were white collar cannot and safety. Maybe in the 70's yes but now?????

Karma and Money is a weird trait to have and I have seen so many weird things in people.
 

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Um, so I don't care? Other than generalky as a human I hope they are doing ok. As in I'm paying for specific services. I don't worry over my barber's wealth management either.

Honestly it's none of our businesses.
 

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Um, not sure where to start with this….ill take the low hanging fruit….CPP contributions for self employed people are unavoidable. It’s an assessed tax on a tax return (as every SE person - including paperboys that aren’t t4’d - should know).

As for the women can’t save bit - good luck with that life view and anything else interrelated.
 
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I’m sorry I have to laugh at a lot of that @xix . Too much to get into really. Anything you quoted about business ownership applies to every business owner. Which BTW doesn’t include CPP which I didn’t add in my list of available retirement saving options. These things apply to every owner. Not just escorts and not just women.

And it really has nothing to do with what I said. I said escorts have to claim taxes. I said escorts have to put to savings for retirement, etc. Not stuffing money away under a mattress.

But thank you for writing out all you did. It took a lot of time and effort and even if I don’t agree, I appreciate the post.
 
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I hope escorts keep the hustle going and I hope the older ladies can keep it going as I’m beginning to feel like a pervert with the young ladies entering into the market.

PS - Nurses, admin people and law students seem to be the common jobs…. I had one supply teacher. The experimental SPs that try it out are fun too…
 
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During my "wilderness" years I met an SP in a hotel room in downtown Toronto not far from TMU (formerly Ryerson). She told me she is a student. So, escorting was obviously a side hustle.

About a year and a half later I heard she had graduated and moved outside Toronto but came back for the Christmas holidays. She now had a civie job but missed escorting. So, I met her for the second and last time so far. I don't want to disclose too much details as I think she is now a full time civie.

Below is an edited pic of her.
 
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I would love to do this as a side hustle and cater to older CEO-esque women who need to keep it hush hush because of their high position and the fact that their SO are never home. Ohh wait sorry....drifted into my fantasy world... :ROFLMAO: :love: ...no seriously would love to do this as a side hustle but only to CEO-es...oh there I go again....
Being retired, I dream of this type of side hustle too, just to keep me in gas money for my truck and motorcycle expenses.
 
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Being retired, I dream of this type of side hustle too, just to keep me in gas money for my truck and motorcycle expenses.
Ahh fellow biker - what do you have mate - I ride a 1997 IM Scout-Sixty. Sorry for hijacking the thread - but got excited when I saw 'motorcycle expenses' :love: . If only if I could to do this as a side hustle but only to CEO-es...............
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From my experience with sp's who actually like to converse and talk about life I find that escorting is mostly a side hustle for most girls in the industry. Alot of escorts are self proclaimed nymphos they need and crave sex moreso then your average female or even male for that matter. Whenever they get horny which is often they will schedule a work shift for themselves. They hopefully get their needs and desires fulfilled from their clients while getting paid a good amount of coin. A win-win. They still have "normal" jobs outside of escorting but the more established and well known an escort becomes they might put more time into escorting and less time into their normal job and if it's financially viable they might all together just become a full time escort but that probably takes years to happen and abit of luck.
 
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Most ex- CEO's are men.... so if you don't judge, are good looking and need the money go for it and keep the Bike going.
 

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Stocks can be bought!!! LOL. JK. I get your point but you also get mine. This idea that we have to “exit” the industry and into some else is just funny to me.

With the amount we can make if we hustle right, and save like normal people in normal jobs, we can have the Freedom 55 retirement plan. We can put into RSP, TFSA, GIC, buy stocks, own homes, etc. We just have to claim our taxes. Which if a career, should be done naturally.

Side note - the shit we can write off, I can even begin to get into. Every women should be claiming this even in part in taxes. If only to write off hair and make up. LOL.
I seriously doubt you would get away with writing off things like hair and nails. Condoms and lube, sure. You are essentially in a sales position and the CRA doesn't allow a salesperson to write off hair cuts or mani-pedi's, so why should escorts be allowed to do that?

Otherwise, I agree that you are professionals like any other and should be treated the same.
 
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