another option
You might enjoy this, but it will take a bit of effort on your part.
First download an IRC (Internet Relay Chat) client program. I have used PIRCH in the past- it should be easy enough to find with a google search.
Once you do that configure it to go to the bondage.com server and make sure you have Saran-wrapped your keyboard!
You will have to be a sort of lurker for a while; don't just barge in and expect erotic chat all of a sudden. Watch different rooms and different ladies. Soon enough you will find someone that looks compatible with whatever you have in mind. Then it can be whatever the 2 (or 3 or more lol) make of it.
Good luck
Flooey!