I think most of us can agree that at one point or another we have all experienced that split second pause and internal deliberation of whether or not this is the right time or not to make your move. For some this really is a split second decision before they just go for it. Where as for others it can be this huge long drawn out calculated maneuver that sometimes doesn't even work out. Regardless of which category you fall into, I am sure you are juggling this with the notion of just not coming across as a total pig looking to get laid. Coaxing her into bed, ill willed or not, obviously varies on ones game, so to speak, but that is not what I am here to talk about.
As far as I can remember in my personal life, I have always tried to make the first move. Bone chilling moments of after school shinnanigans as an adolecent shy to the dubious routines of the horizontal mambo I now consider an everyday desire still make snicker with shame. Unfortunately this not so cool approach is not one of those things that go away with age. Shyness can hit at any time, anywhere, and with anyone.
So here is my point - When in my personal civilian hunting situations, I like to initiate action with the ladies. However, when I am in this hobby I would actually prefer it if the SP's initiated the action. I mean you would call for a Rogers Cable guy to come and then have him sit down, and eventually after some small talk, ask him to show you his tool belt, if you know what I mean. Now maybe for some getting cable fixed and getting laid is far from similiar, but I think you get my point.
What do you guys think? Should SP's initiate action?
As far as I can remember in my personal life, I have always tried to make the first move. Bone chilling moments of after school shinnanigans as an adolecent shy to the dubious routines of the horizontal mambo I now consider an everyday desire still make snicker with shame. Unfortunately this not so cool approach is not one of those things that go away with age. Shyness can hit at any time, anywhere, and with anyone.
So here is my point - When in my personal civilian hunting situations, I like to initiate action with the ladies. However, when I am in this hobby I would actually prefer it if the SP's initiated the action. I mean you would call for a Rogers Cable guy to come and then have him sit down, and eventually after some small talk, ask him to show you his tool belt, if you know what I mean. Now maybe for some getting cable fixed and getting laid is far from similiar, but I think you get my point.
What do you guys think? Should SP's initiate action?
