You know I did the same thing today as well, I called her to make an appointment and I couldn't hear her on the phone, so I told her I would call back. I called back and she gave me crap for calling 2 times in a row, but she did make me an appointment. I was told to goto her appartment and buzz the code in the lobby "gently" and she would let me in, than go up the elevator and only if the view was clear to knock "very gently" on her door. I showed up 10 minutes early and buzzed the code for no more than one second...I waited and she didn't let me in, no response. So I tried to buzz her again after 5 minutes, still no answer. I repeated the one second buzz two more times, waiting 5 minutes in between each, and still no answer. I assumed that she might have been busy, but that wasn't the case as I than left and went to a pay phone. She answered and I explained what had happen and asked her why she wouldn't let me in. Her answer was "I don't want you to take this the wrong why, BUT I SAID TO BUZZ ME GENTLY AS YOU ARE TRYING TO DRAWING ALOT OF ATTENTION TO ME!!!" She than told me not to call her again. What is with this lady? How do you buzz someone gently? I have to wonder if this is a game to her or if she is on something or if she drinks alot? I spoke to her politly and respectfuly and this is how she makes a first impression. As far as I am concerned, its her loss, and I hope all of you can learn from my wasteful experience with her.....my advise is to spend your time and money elsewhere, find a lady likes what she does. This chick seems to be into mind games.