Noticed some ladies stayed mostly in their VIP section and in terms of the ratio , you're definitely right about that.. I was lucky I got to hangout with some of the ladies Im cool with..
Industry xmas party for charity
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I was in awe all night. The ladies are actually all tremendous personalities. But perhaps my best experience was walking up to TDL lounge area (I thought I might be able to introduce myself and chat a bit to get the "lay of the land" so to speak). I felt the intense stare of the bouncer/linebacker who confirmed that climbing those stairs would be CLM. We both chuckled and in any event I can't speak rationally with a hard on anyway. I'll just have to make a point of seeing each one individually.
What a Great marketing opportunity for the agencies! Great cause as well!
What a Great marketing opportunity for the agencies! Great cause as well!
The ratio is always like that and it reflects the ratio of men to women in the sex industry community. More customers than sellers.
The $100 fee you propose would kill the party right off.
My solution is to be as extroverted as possible and NOT SHY. The girls WANT to meet customers. That is why they're there. If you wave at them, they will smile and wave back. If you go into the vip areas to talk to girls, they will smile and talk to you. Just be polite and ask their names and where they work and keep the chat social and not insulting or overtly sexual and you will make contacts - and so will the girls!!!
For me one of the highlights of the night was Jayde Jolie from Allegra's mingling and dancing in the "general" non VIP-area. This was early in the night when the boy-girl ratio was around 50-to-1
I guess next time I could arrive a bit later, so to avoid the sausage party (note that things got better around 10.30 pm, when most of the ladies decided to leave their VIP zones), but then I would had missed what I consider the most memorable highlight of the night... and would not be meeting her today
I guess next time I could arrive a bit later, so to avoid the sausage party (note that things got better around 10.30 pm, when most of the ladies decided to leave their VIP zones), but then I would had missed what I consider the most memorable highlight of the night... and would not be meeting her today
VIP areas did not have open access so we were unable to meet the SPs we wanted to meet. The only solution is to raise the price and remove the barrier. I agree the higher price will "kill the attendance of some men", but that is what needs to be achieved. I suspect that SPs want to meet men who are willing to pay higher door fee which is likely better aligned with their intended target market. This is not about being shy or extroverted; many men simply don't want to attend a sausage fest.
I understand there will be differing views on this, which is fine. I don't want to take the spotlight away from the organizers who put this together. The bottom line is that it was a successfull event as the charities benefited greatly and I am glad they did.
It's wasn't clear, bouncers at entrance to agency areas informing you you are not allowed. There weren't too many non agency ladies earlier in the night. I did meet a couple of nice indys though.
I think the $30 fee was fair. Maybe have more girls come around 9pm and until 10pm stay in vip with regulars.(rotating in)
They are free to roam obviously at anytime if they see someone they are interested in enticing.(or waived over)
At 10:30pm do all the prizes. However, make fewer of them overall but, higher value.
That way there is time to go talk to the agency girls that the prize was for.(as well the guys would be around to claim them)
Bonus: Daley's mouth would not be so tired from calling out numbers.
Also should be a 5min limit like speed dating so that more guys get a chance to talk to more ladies
Thank you very much again for all the organizers, agencies, and ladies for a great night. (bring back St. Patrick's day parties please)
They are free to roam obviously at anytime if they see someone they are interested in enticing.(or waived over)
At 10:30pm do all the prizes. However, make fewer of them overall but, higher value.
That way there is time to go talk to the agency girls that the prize was for.(as well the guys would be around to claim them)
Bonus: Daley's mouth would not be so tired from calling out numbers.
Also should be a 5min limit like speed dating so that more guys get a chance to talk to more ladies
Thank you very much again for all the organizers, agencies, and ladies for a great night. (bring back St. Patrick's day parties please)
Good ideas.I think the $30 fee was fair. Maybe have more girls come around 9pm and until 10pm stay in vip with regulars.(rotating in)
They are free to roam obviously at anytime if they see someone they are interested in enticing.(or waived over)
At 10:30pm do all the prizes. However, make fewer of them overall but, higher value.
That way there is time to go talk to the agency girls that the prize was for.(as well the guys would be around to claim them)
Bonus: Daley's mouth would not be so tired from calling out numbers.
Also should be a 5min limit like speed dating so that more guys get a chance to talk to more ladies
Thank you very much again for all the organizers, agencies, and ladies for a great night. (bring back St. Patrick's day parties please)
I would like to extend my thanks as well to everyone that had a part in making this a fun evening.
As a winner of a very generous prize, it was doubly enjoyable.
One small complaint not for the organizers, but directed at the venue. Considering this was a meet and greet,
the music was ear splittingly loud. Something to keep in mind for the future.
As a winner of a very generous prize, it was doubly enjoyable.
One small complaint not for the organizers, but directed at the venue. Considering this was a meet and greet,
the music was ear splittingly loud. Something to keep in mind for the future.
Ok so we learn for the next event!
Obviously the music was too loud. It was difficult to have conversations and I was slightly horse the next day. Once the ladies hit the floor us guys really wanted to chat but general sentiment was that it's rude to barge in on a conversation! It was awkward at times hanging in an area and waiting for your chance to speak with a lovely lady engaged in conversation. But some of the ladies were possibly anxious being around a hoard of guys. So they found comfort in their own company and wandered to the dance floor.
All in all thank you ladies for attending. Next time I'll be slightly more forcefull in having conversations with you so please don't consider me to be rude. My plan for the night was to make initial introductions and find some chemistry to form a basis for future meetings. I was marginally successful and thank you. But the real winners were the charities as well as the ladies that engaged with potential new prospects. But man I had a lot of fun. Thanks again to the organizers.
Obviously the music was too loud. It was difficult to have conversations and I was slightly horse the next day. Once the ladies hit the floor us guys really wanted to chat but general sentiment was that it's rude to barge in on a conversation! It was awkward at times hanging in an area and waiting for your chance to speak with a lovely lady engaged in conversation. But some of the ladies were possibly anxious being around a hoard of guys. So they found comfort in their own company and wandered to the dance floor.
All in all thank you ladies for attending. Next time I'll be slightly more forcefull in having conversations with you so please don't consider me to be rude. My plan for the night was to make initial introductions and find some chemistry to form a basis for future meetings. I was marginally successful and thank you. But the real winners were the charities as well as the ladies that engaged with potential new prospects. But man I had a lot of fun. Thanks again to the organizers.
Im sorry we didnt get a chance to meet. Ive mastered the ninja move quite well. I was trying to make my way around the club and kept getting side tracked or pulled in a different direction...
Anyone know who the petite mixed girl with short curly hair was? She was wearing a lighter coloured dress (beige or white) and hanging out with a troupe of younger looking girls (mostly brunettes) around the square bar earlier and then on the dance floor later in the evening.
That is very sweet of you to say, but since I was the one seated across from you and slightly to the side on the Party Bus--our eyes meeting quite a few times--the fault and loss is all mine. Once you were in the club, catering to the legions was obviously going to be your calling. That is the power of wow-factor, after all; "With great power comes great responsibility."
Even I should have known that... silly, silly boy.:doh:
But... we'll meet again... for the first time.
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Youre too sweet. I mean if we were on the party you shouldve just came over and sat next to me. I mean its not like we had anywhere to go at that point. We shall meet again and not on a party bus.
I'm sorry we didn't connect. I was actually looking at name tags as I mingled through the crowd. I didn't see IM469 either
Many faces I recognized without a name tag as we either knew each other, or I remembered them from past parties. I did have a first encounter with SchlongConery, and it was great.
Sometimes on boards, posts and views don't always do us justice. In person, SchlongConery is amazing. He was polite, funny, and very professional gentleman.
I have to second what Andy said about the Agency owners. How well this was organized, how well the agencies got behind this, and the caliber of ladies they brought out, was stellar. This was not a party to have missed.
I'd be all for a semi-annual idea, and doing the same location in the summer. Less worries about bad weather, and the girls can wear less
Really though, brilliant night to all those who made it happen.
It was so nice to finally meet you in person too Kathleen! What a beautiful and authentic person you are! I have such admiration for your joie de vivre... and how hard you must work out to have such a beautiful figure. I almost feel bad for now wanting to see you naked!
And yes, wearing a name tag would have made for an even better evening. I am glad I wore one with my nom de guerre. I had a few members come up and say hi and really enjoyed meeting them. One of the other highlights of my night was meeting oagre. He was one of the 4 or 5 of us men who wore name tags. What an authentic and personable man.
Andy. Well what can anyone say about Andy? I met him many years ago when he first started Mirage and am still shell shocked that a guy who looks like a fucking maniac (lol!) is such an authentically decent, if not awesome human being. In all those years I have never heard anything bad about him and have only ever heard great things and how he sincerely cares about the people that work for his organization. And people in general.
Thanks for putting this on Andy and thanks for "giving back" to the community.
And thanks to all the other agency owners, Daley and everyone who volunteered their time and sponsorship of prizes etc to making this party happen!
Back to the party....Met more than a few of the girls and had some great conversations with them.
Too many to mention that I put on my TDL list!
Great party. Andy knows how to make them work. Hopefully we will get back to the good old days. Ditto on most of below. Great girls at the party from indys to agency girls. Not a fan of the location however but I think it was good just not great - but I am sure some found it perfect. I like clubs more like the now gone Government or Musique and always enjoyed the strip clubs despite the drama (I liked when everyone got together from all three industries) Still a great party! There always ways to do better than last. but it was an "A" level party regardless.
That is great! Thanks you to Andy, Daley and all the other Sponsors of the party! As other people stated the party started off slow with more guys than gals but that allowed me to make some introductions early in the evening with some of the lovely ladies who were there!
Brandy & Lady Anna X, Kasey, Carmen of Eye candy, Nikki Thomas, Angel Monroe, Ryan of Eye Candy to name a few :biggrin:
Met some great people there as well. In fact for the Draw I won a 30 minute session at TGF that they graciously donated! Now I just need to decide who I am going to see
). Suggestions would be welcome.Frisky
