In praise of the mature provider!

[Marla]

This isn't a debate about younger vs. older but a discussion if you were ever with ever with an older woman...
Who was seduced by an older woman when you were younger and did it make you a more sensitive and giving lover? Did it make you crave being with older women later on in life? care to share?
In my personal experiences with gentlemen clients, I have come across many who had "older women" experiences and really know their way around the bedroom as a result and can't get enough of the mature woman. They seem to want to reenact their initial experience. And they make such great lovers.

 

[bolt.upright]

I have never, ever been intimate with a woman older than me. Of course, now that I'm 59 I have seen women who would be considered "mature" but they are still younger than I am.

 

[shack]

Keep the young ones coming. More likely (meaning as a generalization) to be enthusiastic, open to experimentation, seeking adventure, and, if in the industry, less likely to have let this (tough) job harden them.

On top of these "state of mind" reasons, there is the obvious physical aspects of not yet experiencing the effects that advancing years and gravity bring on to skin and muscle tone. Smoother skin, firmer, less sag.

Sorry, but it's reality. A number of women, however, manage to hold off the "ravages":Eek: of time better than others and age very well, but I my above generalization keeps me seeing younger SP's.

 

[Marla]

Keep the young ones coming. More likely (meaning as a generalization) to be enthusiastic, open to experimentation, seeking adventure, and, if in the industry, less likely to have let this (tough) job harden them.

On top of these "state of mind" reasons, there is the obvious physical aspects of not yet experiencing the effects that advancing years and gravity bring on to skin and muscle tone. Smoother skin, firmer, less sag.

Sorry, but it's reality. A number of women, however, manage to hold off the "ravages":Eek: of time better than others and age very well, but I my above generalization keeps me seeing younger SP's.

Thanks for your opinion but this subject isn't a debate about younger vs. older. It is who was seduced by a more mature woman when they were younger.

 

[demien2k5]

Thanks for your opinion but this subject isn't a debate about younger vs. older. It is who was seduced by a more mature woman when they were younger.

In shack's defense, the title of the thread is "In praise of the mature provider" which by default does kind of make it a debate about older vs. younger. Regardless of how you have phrased your descriptor, the thread is clearly a soft promo for mature SPs, which is fine, but try not to get snarky if some members haven't any praise to offer towards your desired end, and wind up posting opposing opinions/hobby philosophies.

 

[DB123]

Thanks for your opinion but this subject isn't a debate about younger vs. older. It is who was seduced by a more mature woman when they were younger.

Take that muthafucka! If you want to post an opinion in an inane thread, you best be pickin' another one. This inane thread has some rules.

 

[Marla]

In shack's defense, the title of the thread is "In praise of the mature provider" which by default does kind of make it a debate about older vs. younger. Regardless of how you have phrased your descriptor, the thread is clearly a soft promo for mature SPs, which is fine, but try not to get snarky if some members haven't any praise to offer towards your desired end, and wind up posting opposing opinions/hobby philosophies.

point taken, I wasn't snarky, just factual.

 

[lewd]

the thread is clearly a soft promo for mature SPs, which is fine,

As has been most of her threads lately. Thinly veiled promos in the guise of a discussion.
As a paid advertiser, that's fine, I'm just calling it how I see it.

 

[DB123]

As has been most of her threads lately. Thinly veiled promos in the guise of a discussion.
As a paid advertiser, that's fine, I'm just calling it how I see it.

Pretty sure your eyesight is a-ok. Title of the thread has nothing to do with the intended discussion.

 

[Danolo]

I was 16 years old, working in a hotel in Banff, Alberta one summer... she was 26...a teller at the bank.. she took me into her bed and taught me how to love a woman... for six weeks we fucked like crazy... she was highly orgasmic and she taught me a lot!

Of course, I fell in love with her. When the summer ended she moved away and it was over.. I was upset for a while... but I never forgot what she taught me.

I forget her name...


Every woman in my life since then has been mature, no-nonsense type...

 

[Danolo]

As has been most of her threads lately. Thinly veiled promos in the guise of a discussion.
As a paid advertiser, that's fine, I'm just calling it how I see it.

I don't have a problem with it.... but Marla, your homepage link in your profile doesn't work. I would like to see some sexy pics....:eyebrows:

 

[Marla]

Pretty sure your eyesight is a-ok. Title of the thread has nothing to do with the intended discussion.

I stand to be corrected it should have been titled, "older woman experiences," and no I wasn't looking for self promotion. All of my posts have turned into great discussions for everybody. The kinds of posts I am looking for are as follows who's permission i have to copy:

I was in my first semester of university when I was seduced by one of the women who worked in the campus cafeteria. I was 17, she was mid 30s at least. We had become friends and one day she asked if I wanted to come over to her place that night. I jumped at the opportunity. When I got there I knew she was married. Don't know where her man was, but she was pretty calm and cool so I figured there was no rush. We were listening to Dark Side of the Moon when she seduced me. I still remember how hot she was and how turned on I was. She gave me my first oral to completion... she was delicious. We carried on our affair for 5 years. Periodically we would get together and have the best sex. I remember one night in her car in a corn field. It was awesome. We've lost touch and that's too bad. I often think of her. And, I still crave the seduction, touch, and sexual pleasure of an older woman. I'm 59 now. That's not making things easy for me. But I'm still on the hunt. And that is also why I only seek out a more mature SP when I indulge myself that way. For me, the more mature woman has always been my preference. While I'll never be able to repeat my initial experiences, I'm still hoping to come close. I think my first experience taught me about pleasing my lady and taking my time to learn about what turns her on and what she likes. I'm ok with my woman taking the lead or telling me what feels good or not so good. I'm not threatened by that at all. My first mature lover taught me about patience and flow in the bedroom. It's not just about the orgasm.

 

[Marla]

I don't have a problem with it.... but Marla, your homepage link in your profile doesn't work. I would like to see some sexy pics....:eyebrows:

I will pm you.

 

[Marla]

Since this is an off topic discussion I will add my story of an older experienced lover i had. I had just gotten a divorce and was 23 - i felt like a failure because I thought marriage should last for life. It was both our faults, we were young and it didn't help that he was a pathological liar either. The thing was our sex life sucked. I knew he needed it so gave in but he was a taker and then would roll over with his back to me and start snoring. It wasn't very satisfying for me. Whenever I tried to bring it up to him he would accuse me of busting his balls. So it was a contributing factor to the end of the marriage for me as well.
3 mnths after the divorce I ran into the Groom...from Montreal. He was 15 years older than me. There was a sparkle in his eye and he complimented me - something I never got in my marriage. He told me he was surprised i made it as long as i did with my ex becaue he was the kind of guy who didn't respect women. Anyway we had a few drinks and I invited him over. At this point, I was feeling like a loser in the sex department with nothing to give. He started slowly french kissing me and i got goose pimples all over. He kisssed me on the lips, inside my mouth and i recirocated. He locked his arms around me and started to nibble my ear and kissed my neck and slowly started to caress my titties. I moaned it felt so good and I was so hungry for more. My ex had never taken any time with me at all. I felt like i was in a drunken stupor it felt so good to have this man working me over so gently yet firmly. He knew exactly where to put his hands next and expertly removed my clothes. I tried to take off his clothes and he said no this is for you. i finally got his pants off and was in love immediately with his cock. After he had thoroughly aroused me with his tittie play he moved his fingers down to my pussy which was soaking wet and got some wetness and then started to play with my clit for at least an hour.in ecstacy both orally and manually with finger fucking also. I was panting because I wanted more and more and I wanted to do him. He wouldn't let me. He just kept shoving me down and played with me, making me crazy. I came and came and came and i begged for him to fuck me. Let me suck your cock i pleaded. finally he agreed and i got it really hard and primed. and then we fucked. I was so wet. He plunged into me doggie style and fucked me over and over. i reached behind me and played with his balls. He said i was so tight. and we kept going and going like a dance. finally we both climaxed and fell onto the bed, snuggling together. He taugth me so much about my femininty that day. I will never forget him.

 

[Shades]

Being an older gent.............I love spending time with women that love what they do, so they fall into the category of older women with life experience. Most I see are younger than me and the really younger ones seem to be in a rush.......I hate feeling pressure! Also, love to make it a mutual experience, but again I've found the younger ones don't give a "shit" about it being mutual, just get it on and move on! IMHO with maturity comes patience, and compassion and passion.

 

[Danolo]

Being an older gent.............I love spending time with women that love what they do, so they fall into the category of older women with life experience. Most I see are younger than me and the really younger ones seem to be in a rush.......I hate feeling pressure! Also, love to make it a mutual experience, but again I've found the younger ones don't give a "shit" about it being mutual, just get it on and move on! IMHO with maturity comes patience, and compassion and passion.

Exactly...

 

[niniveh]

Marla: Pl ignore the negative commentary and keep posting. 'most everyone here is in the business of self-promotion. So why should you be denied? Besides I enjoy reading your narratives of steamy episodes, real or imaginary. Being seduced by an older woman is every boy's fantasy. Some get lucky and that is priceless.

 

[Victor Lazlo]

Marla: Although I have not had the pleasure of meeting you I quite agree that nothing compares to a mature provider who is in good shape both physically and intellectually. There is something about maturity and sharing life experiences which adds to the overall experience and which you providers cannot bring to the encounter. I enjoy reading your posts. VL

 

[Titalian]

seduced by an older woman is every boy's fantasy. Some get lucky and that is priceless.

So well said! and I remember it vividly.

I was 17 and she was 24, her name was Lucy. Met her at my father's shop, where I was working during the summer months.
Petit brunet, with wild eyes, fabulous body. The first time it happened, she had invited me to her appartment, and was trying
on bikinis for me !!!! to see which one I liked the best. Talk about a kid in a candy store !!! and then it happened.

She the first one who stole my heart, and then broke it. I'll Never forget her.

Maybe she is the result, of why I prefer more mature escorts.