If you know an escort
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This a very cryptic question. Is it a friend? Colleague? Family member? Someone you met once in a bar? And what do you mean they don’t “necessarily” know? Also, this is not a review and you should post it in the 411 section. Thanks.
Correct that the nature of the "knowing" may be very relevant. There could be various degrees of embarrassment that emanate from this scenario, for either or both of you.
I once booked an escort and only upon arriving at her incall was greeted by a friend of my daughter. I didn't previously know she was in the 'industry'. After a brief moment of surprise and some blushing, we went about the session. At one point (while she was cowgirling me) I told her she was fulfilling one of my fantasies (daughter's friend). She just laughed and told me I was fulfilling one of hers (friend's father). HA HA. This was at a time when she was past visiting my daughter at our home, so no further embarrassment ensued and I didn't book her again. We might both have been a tad uncomfortable at gatherings or had she visited our home if these had materialized. I still see her in passing from time to time (she lives in my neighbourhood) and we greet other politely and move along.
Don’t. Just don’t. If you know them personally and know that you know them personally, just don’t.
We don’t want to see anyone we know in our personal life and you don’t want to cross over from personal to business. Yes you get laid but you lose everything else.
We don’t want to see anyone we know in our personal life and you don’t want to cross over from personal to business. Yes you get laid but you lose everything else.
You’re right. I should have clarified with some and not made it appear that all feel this way. I will say the majority probably do but I stand corrected on my wording.
Nobody can speak for “all women” or “all men” or “all people”, but I suspect that @Jenesis ’s point is not just a majority opinion, but a MASSIVE majority opinion.
Like, I know that I would be absolutely mortified if I knocked on an SP’s door and a co-worker or neighbour opened it… I can’t speak for all men, but I can say with a lot of confidence that most men would be equally mortified. For exactly the reasons Jen mentioned.
I disagree if u put a open sign up besides how many of us would luv to have the so called woman next door but I hear u my friend on ur concerns
Hard to say for sure, not knowing what your relationship is with them, and how you know that they are in the business. Do they know that you know?.
However, for the most part, I’d be in the NO camp. Potential for a lot of awkwardness and embarrassment. The only way I think this could work out is with a frank discussion with the person beforehand. I know for some guys this is a fantasy come true (fucking someone hot that you know from real life, but never normally would have the chance to) but there are a lot of pitfalls.
However, for the most part, I’d be in the NO camp. Potential for a lot of awkwardness and embarrassment. The only way I think this could work out is with a frank discussion with the person beforehand. I know for some guys this is a fantasy come true (fucking someone hot that you know from real life, but never normally would have the chance to) but there are a lot of pitfalls.
Default for me is no, ut it’s hard to say without any context. Most people who are in the business don’t want their friends and family to know. Even these days there are many good SPs, so my advice is to see someone else.
I think you're right. The vast majority of SPs would not want to entertain someone they knew in their private lives. Though, that could depend on a number of factors. If they were out as a sex workers, they might not mind. And I would imagine it would also depend on the relationship. Like, if it was the son of a friend, or a friend of their son, or a number of other sticky situations.
Personally, I wouldn't want do it. There could be a good chance that you show up and she says no. Spare both of yourselves the embarrassment.
While not knowing your situation....this seems risky. Which might have added to the flavour. But, what if the SP told your daughter...I can only see negative fallout. BUT....it does sound really hot...
yeah I’m gonna be on team “NO” personally. It’s too risky and i think that just puts a sort of fear in the provider’s mind who is trying their best to maintain their privacy, what if someone else finds out too. For this very reason of not bumping into friends and family, I moved out of ottawa 
Gee...I don't think you read my post correctly. I had NO IDEA when I booked the incall that the lady behind the door was a friend of my daughter. In fact she was a well reviewed member of OIC back in its early days... so no face pics or means of identifying her before we met. It was TOTALLY a surprise and completely unplanned... which is what made it work for both of us. The SP would have been 'outing' herself if she told my daughter... which she certainly didn't want to do. Sometimes life throws us a little surprise that is NOT a pandemic!
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Ok let's switch gears once apon a time I had 2 19 years old ladies in my neighborhood starting to strip they told me this and wanted me to come see them I went because it was important for them to see a friend support them so what would u do oh yah I didn't look when they were naked lol 
Haha, I'm thinking the same . It would be a great little secret no one else would know about ..how fun !Sounds very much like FWBIsn't that every guy's dream
As long as the SW isn't close friends with SO, and chances of blowback are slim, I'd say fair game !!
Contact her, let the cat out of the bag so to speak... then see if she is willing to meet on the clock. If you don't ask, you will never know.
