I used a desensitized condom and it definately took away from the experience. Not only didn't it feel as good, but it took me forever to blow my load! While this may sound like a good thing, it's not because the whole time it didn't feel as good and I was trying so hard to blow my load.pool said:update : I was going to say desensitised spray/ condom, DM, but having not used it, I wasn't sure how long it took to wear off and may detract from the overall experience (?)