If you ask most people, if they had 2 years to live.
What would they do?
The only answer you get is that they would travel.
If you don't have any ties keeping you here, there are much better places you could spend your time.
Mexico is fairly cheap, if you stay away from the normal hotspots.
I was in Italy last year in October, it was 30c. i stayed clear of the tourist "coast", as in Rome and Milan. I would hit the east coast spots like Bari and the towns south.
As for women, i find it much easier to meet women overseas. Women who are not judging you because you have a android phone and don't wear a Canada Goose coat.