How's your performance?
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"My performance isn't what I would like.
Don't think it will get any better."
You can change how your body readies for sex.
Lift weights for a few minutes a day.....elevate your legs a few times before rising from bed....
Eat pure foods and lots of protein...massage your nuts as often as you can....
Treat your SO as your favourite whore.....
Don't think it will get any better."
You can change how your body readies for sex.
Lift weights for a few minutes a day.....elevate your legs a few times before rising from bed....
Eat pure foods and lots of protein...massage your nuts as often as you can....
Treat your SO as your favourite whore.....
Dare we broaden the topic a bit?
Jealousy, people being controlling and possessive, upto and including worrying about infidelity . Like worrying about performance are more about insecurity……how one feels about themself. me? Why? It’s not that I couldn’t care less, but I couldn’t care less..
some guys stress over whether orgasms are real, how long they last, msog and more…
Sex can be and is many things. Sometimes both you and your partner just want to get Fn railed. Primal….It might last 5-10 minutes…..other times it might be slow and easy and last 60 minutes or more…
coming out of my divorce I had some hang ups.mostly because for the past 22 years I’d just had sex with the same person. I was very lucky to meet someone that helped me get over them…
guys worry about how big they are, how long they last, whether their partners have multiple orgasms and more. As if that’s the only goal.
An SP surprised me once. We happened to be talking about some of this in a related way. She said “you’re better than average” I don’t think she really knew she was saying it. Ok, nice, I’ll take it at face value.
whether she meant it or not. Don’t much care. I know we have fun together.
most studies out of the us.suggest the same/similar
https://www.psu.edu/news/research/story/good-sexual-intercourse-lasts-minutes-not-hours-therapists-say/#:~:text=The%20average%20therapists'%20responses%20defined,from%2010%20to%2030%20minutes.
Jealousy, people being controlling and possessive, upto and including worrying about infidelity . Like worrying about performance are more about insecurity……how one feels about themself. me? Why? It’s not that I couldn’t care less, but I couldn’t care less..
some guys stress over whether orgasms are real, how long they last, msog and more…
Sex can be and is many things. Sometimes both you and your partner just want to get Fn railed. Primal….It might last 5-10 minutes…..other times it might be slow and easy and last 60 minutes or more…
coming out of my divorce I had some hang ups.mostly because for the past 22 years I’d just had sex with the same person. I was very lucky to meet someone that helped me get over them…
guys worry about how big they are, how long they last, whether their partners have multiple orgasms and more. As if that’s the only goal.
An SP surprised me once. We happened to be talking about some of this in a related way. She said “you’re better than average” I don’t think she really knew she was saying it. Ok, nice, I’ll take it at face value.
whether she meant it or not. Don’t much care. I know we have fun together.
most studies out of the us.suggest the same/similar
https://www.psu.edu/news/research/story/good-sexual-intercourse-lasts-minutes-not-hours-therapists-say/#:~:text=The%20average%20therapists'%20responses%20defined,from%2010%20to%2030%20minutes.
I judge my performance as a success when a woman milks a warm cumshot out of me while DFKing me.
I absolutely love the feeling.
I absolutely love the feeling.
Well I once performed like this
Now I miss those days.. this video reminds me of the younger days and its hot AF...
Now I miss those days.. this video reminds me of the younger days and its hot AF...
re-reading some replies. Some of which I chuckled. Thought I might use Shacks thought above for something to think about…..
Once knew a girl ( post divorce) that like a lot of guys, she had a couple hang-ups…There’s actually a SP out there, very much like her. I’m not going to name her.
She can’t orgasm…only with toys….
So guys, rate your performance when you see her..Failures…?
doesn’t mean she doesn’t enjoy sex..
So I’m curious, who are we to gauge our own performance? Some girls don’t like girth or length. Some do. For what it’s worth a lot of SPs have commented on how hard I am. Maybe that’s a universal thing…
maybe, it’s not how big, how hard. How long, how fast or fast/hard..
it’s how you use it? All the tools in our tool bag? Which might include foreplay???
Just like for us a BBJ isn’t a BBJ. Do we not rate ( judge different girls for different BBJ techniques ) performance???????
Ever considered there are SPs that don’t enjoy getting pounded for 30-40minutes. But, it’s their job to make you think your a rock star…isn’t it? So your performance in that case……?
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