Was wondering if any of you guys can really manage their need for porn, whacking or sex in serious moderation without allowing it to affecting everything around them (work performance, career goals, relationships with friends / family / people, the ability to enjoy and do other things in life generally speaking)?
LIke when I say moderation, can you like go without porn, whacking off, or sex for like a month, two months, 6 months or even a year. Then when the chance comes, just do it once again and go off for like 6 months?
For the last 5 years, I've only managed to go off porn/whacking at most a bit over 1 month and 2-3 weeks a few times, the last time being like very recent. Usually after I crumble to my carvings after a lay-off like that, it's almost like I got shot-up my drugs and then going on a once a day binge, roughing up my weiner.
I also notice it's usually during these times, i'm even more anxious than before, that my relationships with family, friends just goes bad and chinese girls with their sensitive 'creepy guy' radars ringing at an all time how (ok ok, a bit extragerated there). And my work performance goes down and my mind's just a fried scatterbrain.
I'm going re-literate the fact that porn, whacking, sex is awesome as is HOT chicks raising the ever humid temperatures of TO (this also goes to the females terbites reading this particularly the one i've seen, u know who you are).
But yeah, this stuff's like affecting me way too much negatively and I'm wondering how you guys manage?
LIke when I say moderation, can you like go without porn, whacking off, or sex for like a month, two months, 6 months or even a year. Then when the chance comes, just do it once again and go off for like 6 months?
For the last 5 years, I've only managed to go off porn/whacking at most a bit over 1 month and 2-3 weeks a few times, the last time being like very recent. Usually after I crumble to my carvings after a lay-off like that, it's almost like I got shot-up my drugs and then going on a once a day binge, roughing up my weiner.
I also notice it's usually during these times, i'm even more anxious than before, that my relationships with family, friends just goes bad and chinese girls with their sensitive 'creepy guy' radars ringing at an all time how (ok ok, a bit extragerated there). And my work performance goes down and my mind's just a fried scatterbrain.
I'm going re-literate the fact that porn, whacking, sex is awesome as is HOT chicks raising the ever humid temperatures of TO (this also goes to the females terbites reading this particularly the one i've seen, u know who you are).
But yeah, this stuff's like affecting me way too much negatively and I'm wondering how you guys manage?