How would an SP react if a client...

[GameBoy27]

I am so surprised that this would even happen to a provider.

You're surprised some guys are assholes?

 

[Sophia Sinclair]

I am so surprised that this would even happen to a provider. When I am with a lady I always, always, inquire first before going forward. I always ask because with me sometimes it can rush on me fast so I tell her that we have to be careful and I'll certainly let her know. People are people, i'm always polite and respectful to everyone. I'm a people person and when I am with someone be it an SP or friend/etc. I want that other person I am with to at least somewhat enjoy our time together. Being an asshole pretty much guarantees they will not enjoy their time with me. Does everyone like me, probably not, but I definitely try to be a gentleman in all aspects of my life.

I would never do this to any provider. Its definitely rude and I can see why a lady would be extremely upset. Use common sense and don't do it.

You're surprised some guys are assholes?

I can attest to the fact that corp is a true gentleman. He's the kind of guy that would rather say nothing than something negative, even if he found his time together with a lady to be less than what he anticipated given comments here. He'll chalk it up to a lack of chemistry and leave it at that. He's not naive, he simply has a hard time wrapping his head around such callous behaviour because it's so foreign to his own. If I'm wrong he can correct me. Please note that I swallow so it's a non issue for me. Still, it's nice to be asked or warned beforehand and I find that most do when meeting for the first time. I presume that the few that don't are aware of my preferences, given reviews, etc. For those that don't it's a whole other matter and they have spoken to that effect.

 

[OnTheWayOut]

I value the health of my penis way too much not to warn a girl (SP or not) when ready to cum. There have been times over the years when she has requested a warning yet pleasantly surprised me by not pulling off and taking CIM and/or SW. Gotta love when they change their mind mid-bbbj. Afterwards I have sometimes gotten explanation saying they just got into it or whatever. Bonus is when they smile and say "you taste great". :bounce:

These types of times are definitely the essence of YMMV. And they happen rarely enough to be very memorable.

 

[corp]

I can attest to the fact that corp is a true gentleman. He's the kind of guy that would rather say nothing than something negative, even if he found his time together with a lady to be less than what he anticipated given comments here. He'll chalk it up to a lack of chemistry and leave it at that. He's not naive, he simply has a hard time wrapping his head around such callous behaviour because it's so foreign to his own. If I'm wrong he can correct me. Please note that I swallow so it's a non issue for me. Still, it's nice to be asked or warned beforehand and I find that most do when meeting for the first time. I presume that the few that don't are aware of my preferences, given reviews, etc. For those that don't it's a whole other matter and they have spoken to that effect.

Thanks for the kind words Sophia, you are absolutely correct in your statement about me.

I am a firm believer in treating others as you would like to be treated, hence my behavior. The act that is the topic of this post is very callous in nature.
I have to agree with what a few other ladies have already said, as a man you know when it's going to happen. Yes it can happen quickly but there's always enough time to let the lady know.

Also, I have to agree with what Iris said as well. I had a previous regular provider than has told me the same thing. She wasn't a swallower though.

 

[james t kirk]

Some of you guys make me laugh, "I thought she wanted it", "it just happened"

You know the old saying, what are the 3 biggest lies in the world?

1. "Trust me."
2. "The cheque is in the mail"
and 3. (wait for it).......... "I won't cum in your mouth"

 

[surferboy]

Yep almost got my pecker bitten off for this! Went home drunk with an ex a long time ago & she would rather be sodomized(which happened maybe once a year) than taste any cum. She gave such great head (had the whole hand mouth thing down to a science if you closed your eyes you'd swear you were in a vag) I busted accidentally & she went ape shit spitting it all over! Christ I miss that crazy gurl...

 

[D-Fens]

no CIM= Deal Breaker. I only see sps who offer that. Which is why reviews are important since sps generally don't avertise what they do.

 

[frankcastle]

There are no accidents.

I've had a few say they would bite.

 

[sempel]

I am so surprised that this would even happen to a provider. When I am with a lady I always, always, inquire first before going forward. I always ask because with me sometimes it can rush on me fast so I tell her that we have to be careful and I'll certainly let her know. People are people, i'm always polite and respectful to everyone. I'm a people person and when I am with someone be it an SP or friend/etc. I want that other person I am with to at least somewhat enjoy our time together. Being an asshole pretty much guarantees they will not enjoy their time with me. Does everyone like me, probably not, but I definitely try to be a gentleman in all aspects of my life.

I would never do this to any provider. Its definitely rude and I can see why a lady would be extremely upset. Use common sense and don't do it.

very true. I have the same philosophy.

You're surprised some guys are assholes?

lol

no CIM= Deal Breaker. I only see sps who offer that. Which is why reviews are important since sps generally don't avertise what they do.

You can always ask beforehand if it's a dealbreaker. Don't see a lady if she won't answer the question (and some don't discuss anything prior). I personally wouldn't care if the answer is yes/no/ymmv but an answer is appreciated to a question (applies to anything, not just CIM).

 

[D-Fens]

very true. I have the same philosophy.



lol



You can always ask beforehand if it's a dealbreaker. Don't see a lady if she won't answer the question (and some don't discuss anything prior). I personally wouldn't care if the answer is yes/no/ymmv but an answer is appreciated to a question (applies to anything, not just CIM).

If she won't answer, it means she doesn't do it. In that case I move on.

 

[niceandslo]

I'd be pretty upset... I don't offer it or like guys doing that, especially without warning it's rude. I would not be happy and never rebook again unless he was genuinely sorry. Too many guys just pretend they didn't know and will do it and pretend it was a mistake, so just find providers that actually like it, or be fair and give a warning to be polite when a provider doesn't offer it. Otherwise yes you are an asshole. You know when you're coming, she may not.



I hope you're joking. If not have fun being added to the blacklist. I have neck pain from some car accidents, so holding my head down is a huge no and jerk move as well. If she's not consenting then you're a creep.

Of course one should never take freedoms with a providetr.
It would be nice if an sp made it clear in her ad or on her website that she does not do cim. I really dont buy the argument that providers dont have a menu because LE would be able to tell what they are up to.

 

[niceandslo]

There is a very low chance to happen with me.
After my few years experiences, I feel his orgasm a few seconds before it happen. I can be surprised of course, if you come into my mouth with a limp dick (diabetes or some surgery) but if you come normally , then very hard to surprise me ever

Assuming the guy is clean are you ok with cim?

 

[explorerzip]

This is why telling the lady if you're inexperienced or a virgin is so important. Someone's mouth feels a lot different than your hand.

 

[yermama]

Anyone ever had the opposite, where an escort squirted on you without telling you?

 

[niceandslo]

Anyone ever had the opposite, where an escort squirted on you without telling you?

Its happened to me a few times ,i actually liked it however it was not in my mouth.

 

[TeeJay]

If she is already doing BBBJ (health risk) what is the issue with CIM?
Not like she has to swallow or anything

 

[yermama]

If she is already doing BBBJ (health risk) what is the issue with CIM?
Not like she has to swallow or anything

Your dick (hopefully) has no taste. Your cum does.

 

[John Henry]

I don't care what anyone says, YOU KNOW WHEN YOU ARE GOING TO CUM!

Period. Full stop. EOD.

I get close calls because it comes up fast and yes more experienced women can tell but if you think for one minute that the "oops sorry" is real, I got land in the Sahara for you.

It is a purely selfish disrespectful act that can agruably be consider an assault.

Personally I offer CIMWS but EVERY client I have had has been respectful and warned me first. I don't tell clients I provide CIMWS. It is not on my website and no client has asked directly. So it is an unknown until the first time I do it. I like it that way because it gets to be a bonus surprise for them and I get to see just how respectful my clients are.

I can tell you that if I didn't offer it and you did it, your balls would be in the vice grib of my hands and the pain would make you stop cumming instantly. You would then be publicly blacklisted so everyone knows what an asshole you are.

I have heard of this happening a lot. Mainly with agency ladies. I don't know if it is because the guy figures it is easier to get away with the "oops" comments afterward with an agency girl over an Indy. Or they don't fear being blacklisted as much because of lack of screening or just bad agency owners but I feel for every single woman this happens too. Both in and out of the industry.

I really really hate men who did this. If you couldn't tell by my response.

You are a women . So now you know what guy's are feeling and what they are not capable or capable of doing . Isn't that rich !!!

Now we're down to the assault thingy again . He comes in your mouth , you press chargers . I can see you in court telling the judge that the fellow came in your mouth without permission . What about you grabbing his balls. He already came in your mouth so now you are assaulting him . Even slapping him in the face is an assault on him . Is that OK with you .

Stop with this assault shit . Looks like every time a SP has a problem they start yelling assault . If you wish to call something an assault then press charges . Don't sit back and take it . Do something about it and call the cops and press charges . Put your pussy hat on and call the cops .

Really being blacklisted doesn't mean anything . Calling guys assholes or scum of the earth is no big deal these days. By now you should have figured out that calling people names is part of the norm . You can get called a bad name just by looking at someone the wrong way .

 

[John Henry]

Its happened to me a few times ,i actually liked it however it was not in my mouth.

So in other words she assaulted you . You didn't give her permission . Whether you liked it or not it still was an assault on you. Just trying to prove a point here . What about that Jessica . Would that be an assault on a guy ?????????

 

[renuck]

So in other words she assaulted you . You didn't give her permission . Whether you liked it or not it still was an assault on you. Just trying to prove a point here . What about that Jessica . Would that be an assault on a guy ?????????

I think history matters a lot here. To me it sounds like the OP was talking about first encounters since if it's a few appointments in you should have a good idea of the boundaries. Niceandslo didn't mention if his experience was with a first time encounter either.

I've had a lady cum on me without warning (i knew she was going to orgasm but I didn't know she was going to squirt), we at least some have some history and a comfort level was pretty established. I loved every second of it. With the same lady had her squirt while I was down on her without warning too. My plan was to make her squirt and wouldn't have stopped until she did so of course I didn't mind. Again I loved every second of it but if it was a first encounter I might have felt differently... well probably not.

Way early in this thread I mentioned I always let the ladies know I'm about to cum but I don't think I did the last time, I think my body language is pretty telling so I don't think she was surprised - again this was with an SP I have seen before and knew she does CIMWS. Either way it doesn't excuse it so I guess I lost my soap box privileges on the subject.