How/who moves it to dating.... sp/client relationship....

[luckylucy]

If you are sure you want a legit relationship, I'd quit the sex for awhile. Tell her that you can't do the "pay to play" anymore because you are developing real feelings for her. But see if she is willing to hang out without the physical stuff (so she can't accuse you of looking for "free tail") without pay, basically like a real date. If she is not interested in hanging out with you at all if she doesn't get some pay out of it then chances are that there is nothing there.

as a real girl and as an sp:
this is exactly what i've recommended to my "real life" friends when they think a guy is all about the sex.
stop the sex, discuss your feelings, see how it goes without sex.
imho it's the only way to go.

i'm glad we agree, don