.... a correlary to another thread. Does sp just say .... don't pay anymore??? What is the usual average lenghth of time before this may ever happen??? I met a 24 yr. old on P.O.F. Before we met she asked & also said she has 1 guy for 1 year that gives her 200 for getting together for 2 hrs sex & then go out & do something .... bowl, mini golf, movie ... & dinner. She would not be intereted in dating him. We met 2 x for 7 hrs each time .. sex 2 hrs ..... liesure activity..... dinner... gave 200. I expressed, 6 ways to Sunday, that interested in being on a more personal ... dating type level. She seemed to be agreeing .... sort of ... BUT ... never said .. don't give money. She said she doesn't see me like other guy & I am not a client. BUT aslong as I am giving 200 to help her out; I am a client!! I could be daring & play like I thought we are dating & don't give money. Soooo how does & who moves it to personal dating???