How upset women get at men who see escorts. ( lol )

[Alexxx99]

So if you have ever visited yahoo answers or other forums where issue of a guy visiint an escort come up, almost all female members will say how disgusting it is and why any guy would do that instead of having a " normal " relationship.

Now, I have a theory on this.

Not all women, but in my experience plenty of women expect their boyfriends or guys they are dating/seeing to pamper them, take them to nice places, buy them gifts.

Obviously not all women, I stress that, but I have seen so many girls dump boyfriends who fail to provide them with expenses they did initially.

I guess the hint is to not overdo yourself when dating a girl from the start, I made these mistakes when I was younger, as in, inventive date ideas, flowers, etc.

On top of pampering women with gifts, it's also the attention.

Fact of the matter is that most guys do have a soul and do care about having a girlfriend, but we also like sex, sometimes we do just want to rip off a girl's pants. Most women DO in fact acknowledge this but they act like we're jerks, so that when they do "allow" us to have sex with them ( even though they love it too ) they try to make it like we owe them.

So when a guy goes to strip clubs and pays $80 for a 15+ min lapdance where he'd probably have to spend more ( all things considering ) to get an average girl to take her top off or goes to see an escort where he can get laid with peace of mind for $200-$400 where it would cost him months of his life to get that from the average girl.

Add to the fact many of these escorts and strippers are 8/10 or higher on the hotness scale.

And women fear this because they lose their ability to control.

Okay, I'm sorry it makes me laugh, ever since I went to my first strip club ( 19 ) and met my first escort ( 21 ) I've been far less tolerant of toeing the line, so to speak.

And honestly, it's helped me from becoming locked in as some of my friends have, oh the stories I could tell.

Anyways, there's my rant, I don't go to many forums period let alone adult ones so I thought I'd state my 2 cents.

 

[Alexxx99]

Many girls also use scare tactics such as the STD factor, which is BS.

From my experience girls who are open minded about sex are more likely to use protection and are just better lays.

The girls who cry icky are the girls who have emotional breakdowns, get drunk off their mind and get pregnant, congrats, while the " bad " girls continue to live their lives.

 

[nottyboi]

Good psycho-analysis. I dated a 'good woman' who sometimes treated me like I was one of her pupils, and I thought 'I don't have to put up with this shit just for sex'.

The *ucking you were getting was not worth the *ucking you were getting.. I actually came to this conclusion while I was actually having sex with a girlfrined.. it was like.. man... this is not worth the hassle..lol

 

[Whosyodaddy]

Show me a freakin smokin hot babe, and I'll show you a girl that was kicked to the curb by an average looking guy who said.. "it just aint worth it"

 

[afterhours]

I'll say again: if escorts could give you kids, who the fuck would need civilians

 

[HOF]

show me a freakin smokin hot babe, and i'll show you a girl that was kicked to the curb by an average looking guy who said.. "it just aint worth it"

rotflmfao

 

[HOF]

I'll say again: if escorts could give you kids, who the fuck would need civilians

Fuck that too, then you gotta take care of them and have no time for escorts! Just take your niece or nephew to the park, and there will be a woman or nine give you their # for a hook up!

 

[tboy]

Amen brother, ayyyyyyyy-MEN

Taking away the Pussy Rationing Advantage sure adjusts perspective. It's actually better for everyone.

The PRA, lol now that there's funny I don't care who you are!

That's a new way to rate women, we used to say 8/10 7/10 but now it's gonna be "her pra was 2" "I bet her PRA is a 3"!! lol.....

 

[rama putri]

Add to the fact many of these escorts and strippers are 8/10 or higher on the hotness scale.

Not in the US, on average. Canada's agency SPs and strippers are much, much better looking, across the board that is, than most US providers - who I will describe as the equivalent of Criag's List skanks.

 

[cute-bald]

WOW .... so it not just the short guy that has a girl treat him like she is doing him a favor ...... releaved to know.

 

[Ceiling Cat]

Yes, they would be upset.

 

[ready2rock]

Yes, they would be upset. And yes, they would be fearful. The fear of losing of control you would be an issue - true, but the larger fear would be that most women cannot compete, on a sexual level, for your intimacy interests...... at least not at the level that your SP(s) are. Without intimacy, any relationship is doomed to fail - eventually.

R2R

 

[Roamin' Bee]

Agreed with the OP, but at the same time, it also has something to do with how our society as a whole think of our hobby. People (not just women) get upset because they tend to pass their moral judgement on us hobbyists.

 

[reaper29]

I don't think women get upset when men see SP's. All the women I have associated myself with actually encourage it... but then again, I only associate myself with SP's.

 

[Brill]

...why any guy would do that instead of having a " normal " relationship.

I think it's a fair point for women to make, paying someone to have sex can't compare to the intimacy of a good relationship. We're secretive about it for a reason, it would acknowledge a failure for many men.

 

[tboy]

I think it's a fair point for women to make, paying someone to have sex can't compare to the intimacy of a good relationship. We're secretive about it for a reason, it would acknowledge a failure for many men.

I'd debate that it acknowledges anything. In fact, most MARRIED guys do it for variety and some because their wives don't put out anymore. How is THAT a failure for THEM?

Me? I see SPs for no strings attached sex. How is THAT a failure?

 

[afterhours]

I'd debate that it acknowledges anything. In fact, most MARRIED guys do it for variety and some because their wives don't put out anymore. How is THAT a failure for THEM?

If you were a movie star or just independently wealthy and your wife wouldn't put out anymore, you would likely drop her as a bag of shit.
But if you are just a regular petty schmuck, then you convince yourself that you cannot afford a divorce, and you continue to live with her even though you are miserable.

How is that NOT a failure?

 

[HetroGuy]

I think even if a women doesn't put out for her SO, she still gets pissed he dines out. It is not the actual concept of you doing it with someone that saves her the effort - I think their is a pride factor among her friends (you are well trained) and if she thinks she will loose her ability to pussy-wipe you into a well 'behaved' dog type companion.

 

[Brill]

I'd debate that it acknowledges anything. In fact, most MARRIED guys do it for variety and some because their wives don't put out anymore. How is THAT a failure for THEM?

Me? I see SPs for no strings attached sex. How is THAT a failure?

Note I said "many men", not "all men". Don't get your panties in a knot.
If you're happier seeing SPs than being in a good relationship, why don't you announce it to friends and family?
Perhaps a bit of shame?

 

[tboy]

If you were a movie star or just independently wealthy and your wife wouldn't put out anymore, you would likely drop her as a bag of shit.
But if you are just a regular petty schmuck, then you convince yourself that you cannot afford a divorce, and you continue to live with her even though you are miserable.

How is that NOT a failure?

I beg to differ: ever heard of a relatively well known singer called, what was her name? Shania Twain and her husband Mutt Lange? Mutt stayed with her for years and it is well known that she didn't put out. Same as (oh shit, my mind went blank) the actress whose husband wanted her to try sex clubs? They stayed together for YEARS and frankly, your comparison sucks ass. Movie stars stay together and cheat because if they divorce, they'd lose millions.

How is not wanting to lose thousands or millions of dollars in a divorce failure? I'd say that's good business sense....I'd actually have to say it is failure on the wife's part because she can't satisfy her husband's needs. Take Brill and Blissful for eg. I'd say HE is a failure because his wife has needs that he can't satisfy. I mean hell, she was on here last week weeping over some other relationship that she lost and she wasn't referring to brill.....