how to please your sp ?

[shaneen]

whats the problem???

Well after reading that I have to ask you, what is the problem? I rather enjoy the sessions that involve those things and I know the ladies that I am around in the business do as well. Like you said I guess it has alot to do with age, as well I would rather, repeat and quality clients, and not quantity as this is not my thing. I know that there are alot of different likes and dislikes out there and I am sure that there is a sp out there to suit each of those, I guess that is why we have boards like these, to assure that the lady suits you before you book to see her. Perhaps an advertising board with headings like:

1 UNHURRIED & SENSUAL (for those who like it tender)

2 FRIENDLY & PATIENT (for those difficult releases)

3 RUSHED & TO THE POINT (for those who dont have much time)

4 QUICK & EASY (for those W B TY M)

5 COLD & HEARTLESS (for those who like a bitch)

6 MEAN & STRICT (for those who like to be told what to do)

7 OPENMINDED & PLAYFUL (for those who like roleplay and fetish)

I would be curious to know who falls under what heading or headings, as well which ones ladies prefer to see.
I my self prefer a combo of 1 and 2 with a bit of 7 sometime.

 

[Meesh]

Re: whats the problem???

Well after reading that I have to ask you, what is the problem? I rather enjoy the sessions that involve those things and I know the ladies that I am around in the business do as well. Like you said I guess it has alot to do with age, as well I would rather, repeat and quality clients, and not quantity as this is not my thing. I know that there are alot of different likes and dislikes out there and I am sure that there is a sp out there to suit each of those, I guess that is why we have boards like these, to assure that the lady suits you before you book to see her. Perhaps an advertising board with headings like:

1 UNHURRIED & SENSUAL (for those who like it tender)

2 FRIENDLY & PATIENT (for those difficult releases)

3 RUSHED & TO THE POINT (for those who dont have much time)

4 QUICK & EASY (for those W B TY M)

5 COLD & HEARTLESS (for those who like a bitch)

6 MEAN & STRICT (for those who like to be told what to do)

7 OPENMINDED & PLAYFUL (for those who like roleplay and fetish)

I would be curious to know who falls under what heading or headings, as well which ones ladies prefer to see.
I my self prefer a combo of 1 and 2 with a bit of 7 sometime.

I can't pick! They all have a certain charm at different times. I tend to agree your picks though.

 

[spartan5782]

Very nice post Shaneen....could easily be a poll (with multiple picks as an option).

I'd have to agree with you on 1,2 & 7 as my preferences as well.

Question? As a Provider, do you find yourself locked into your preference, or do you (can you) adapt to the request? If #5 isn't your nature, can you pull it off with notice? I know there's some acting ability in all, but I wonder to what degree an SP could (do) adapt to various audiances with different tastes?

Just curious...

 

[kwong_1978]

Candles

Everyone has really good suggestions. Here is another.

In a recent casual conversation I had with an Sp, she mentioned how a little gift like a small candle (purchased at a $dollar store) can go a long way in making her feel special. I know this is a cliché but it’s the thought that counts.

I think the important thing is to show courtesy and have respect.

 

[shaneen]

Good question

I cannot answer for anyone else but for myself, I have been all 7. I would have to say in my earlier years as a SP alot of #3 & #4 are what made me #5, although I was lucky enough to know the signs and stop being a SP for a while. #6 Well I dont do it often and I will only agree to it if it is what I am in the mood for. I will tell you though Tonya is geally good at it. I dont like to do anything I am not comfortable with, with anyone I am not comfortable with so that one I will say ymmv.
Shaneen

 

[CyberGoth]

question, who would want item #5??? it seems to be the antithesis of #1, #2 #7.

combo of 1/2/7 is great! but number 5 just mystifies me

 

[shaneen]

It happens

I am not here to ask why, I just listen to requests and oblige if I can, but there have been a number of occasions that I get that request so I felt it was an option. I guess that some men like it that way, we are not all of the same, thus my signature.
Shaneen

 

[CyberGoth]

true true.

besides, you're just a perfectly good and wonderful YOU.
and I simply cannot equate you with #5 at all which is just fine by me.

hugs

 

[hambone]

Re: whats the problem???

Well after reading that I have to ask you, what is the problem? I rather enjoy the sessions that involve those things and I know the ladies that I am around in the business do as well. Like you said I guess it has alot to do with age, as well I would rather, repeat and quality clients, and not quantity as this is not my thing. I know that there are alot of different likes and dislikes out there and I am sure that there is a sp out there to suit each of those, I guess that is why we have boards like these, to assure that the lady suits you before you book to see her.

Shaneen,

The problem as stated is that I ask up front (via e-mail or telephone) and am assured that what I want is fine with the lady then she doesn't deliver. I realize that part, possibly all, of the reason is that I am reluctant to state my desires in person but I would expect her to remember. I usually book same day or only one or two days ahead.

H.

 

[DukeOfEarl]

Be a gentleman

Be clean.
Be on time.
Be respectful.
Above all, be a gentleman.

These ladies may be professionals, but above all, it is important to remember that they are ladies and should be treated as such.

I treat each SP that I visit as I would treat a girlfriend or a spouse. On special occasions, I bring the appropriate accoutrements. On Valentine's day I bring chocolates and roses, and depending on which of my favorite SPs I may be visiting, I will bring lingerie.

I always have the agreed upon amount in an open envelope to present to the SP upon arriving. I always tip generously at the end, usually 25%. This amount may be more depending again on which of my favorite SPs I happen to be visiting.

DukeofEarl

 

[LateComer]

Re: Be a gentleman

On Valentine's day I bring chocolates and roses, and depending on which of my favorite SPs I may be visiting, I will bring lingerie.

I don't want to appear cynical but isn't this a little over the top? Chocolates, roses, lingerie? This is the sort of thing you give a girlfriend - not an SP. OK, maybe I can see the sense in giving lingerie LOL. Seriously, though, I think a small token to let her know that you are thinking of her is more appropriate, i.e., something without "romantic" connotations. The best gift would be something that comes to mind as a result of the conservations you have had. This shows you are thoughtful but at the same time you don't look like a love-sick john.

 

[spartan5782]

Re: Re: Be a gentleman

I don't want to appear cynical but isn't this a little over the top? Chocolates, roses, lingerie? This is the sort of thing you give a girlfriend - not an SP.

I guess it depends on your fantasy. If you are going for a multiple hour date on Valentine's Day and paying X to achieve the fantasy, candy-flowers-lingerie would be part of the memory and not that expensive by comparison. When you buy your GF these things, you hope she shows appreciation by boinkng your brains out..lol. Well, in this case you know you dropped an envelope to secure a good boinking, but for fantasy sake, she's your GF for the day and is really showing appreciation for the gifts.

So, not over the top...just a GFE to the max. I don't mind pleading guilty to the same as the Duke...however, a 25% tip?? Shit!!

 

[sweetnlovinlady]

Re: Re: Re: Be a gentleman

I guess it depends on your fantasy. If you are going for a multiple hour date on Valentine's Day and paying X to achieve the fantasy, candy-flowers-lingerie would be part of the memory and not that expensive by comparison. When you buy your GF these things, you hope she shows appreciation by boinkng your brains out..lol. Well, in this case you know you dropped an envelope to secure a good boinking, but for fantasy sake, she's your GF for the day and is really showing appreciation for the gifts.

So, not over the top...just a GFE to the max. I don't mind pleading guilty to the same as the Duke...however, a 25% tip?? Shit!!

damn your the man lol! i was a gf at one time i never got that shit lol guess i was in the wrong city lol

 

[drlove]

Re: Be a gentleman

Be clean.
Be on time.
Be respectful.
Above all, be a gentleman.

These ladies may be professionals, but above all, it is important to remember that they are ladies and should be treated as such.

You got it.

 

[shaneen]

Dr love

pussyology? I am curious
Shaneen

 

[notenufmuff]

What about the client

Rhetorical question: how do you please your client? Afteral, the client is spending hundreds of dollars to see you. The client is paying for the service, not vice versa.