how to please your sp ?
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Treat your SP like the lady she is and things will go well for both of you.
Small gifts are always appreciated, but I would only give to an SP I've been with a few times. Get to know her likes & dislikes then choose something appropriate to her tastes.
Small gifts are always appreciated, but I would only give to an SP I've been with a few times. Get to know her likes & dislikes then choose something appropriate to her tastes.
How to please your SP?
PAY HER
LOL just kidding (sort of, have the cash waiting in an open envelope with her name on it in plain site - this takes away from the discomfort of her having to ask for it)
Be clean - groom thoroughly before she arrives - then groom again to be safe
If she likes have a bottle of wine ready for when she shows (uncorked - some won't drink if it has been opened and they don't know you)
Treat her like a lady
Get to know her before the fun starts
In getting to know her find out her limits - once knowing this DON't try to cross those lines.
Last - be yourself - don't put on a big show they'll see through it anyway.
Ladies in this business in alot of ways are no different than you or I, just get to know them in the first while then - once you understand them and their limits a bit, proceed with the fun part.
PAY HER
LOL just kidding (sort of, have the cash waiting in an open envelope with her name on it in plain site - this takes away from the discomfort of her having to ask for it)
Be clean - groom thoroughly before she arrives - then groom again to be safe
If she likes have a bottle of wine ready for when she shows (uncorked - some won't drink if it has been opened and they don't know you)
Treat her like a lady
Get to know her before the fun starts
In getting to know her find out her limits - once knowing this DON't try to cross those lines.
Last - be yourself - don't put on a big show they'll see through it anyway.
Ladies in this business in alot of ways are no different than you or I, just get to know them in the first while then - once you understand them and their limits a bit, proceed with the fun part.
thanks
those are some great ideas...
It's good to hear from an SP in particular. so if any others want to join in and share some stories of how a customer surprised her, that would be nice.
I once bought some chocolates (the kind that are stuffed with liquor) and that seemed to please
still, no one answere my question about the tip!
those are some great ideas...
It's good to hear from an SP in particular. so if any others want to join in and share some stories of how a customer surprised her, that would be nice.
I once bought some chocolates (the kind that are stuffed with liquor) and that seemed to please
still, no one answere my question about the tip!
Re: thanks
Well, maybe it is because there don't appear to be any rules or guidelines for tipping an sp. If you go with the 15-20% guideline for tipping food servers, that would be $30-$40 for a $200 sp. But I don't know if that is an appropriate guideline. I usually give between $40 and $60, depending on her rate and how much I enjoyed her services. If I keep an sp for multiple hours, I might give a bit more on top of that.bornAgain said:
Do you think then that the "bad Service" SP's get it when we do not tip??kiarra said:
Wow....You have class...I could not have said it better...
I usually give money....it's simple...but I'm one of those guys that can never pick a present for Someone...at least with cash, they can pick it themselves..
Frenchy
Be well mannered clean and on time
I am happy when my guy takes a shower, shows up on time or calls if he will be late, having the money ready is good, it helps to take away from the uncomfortable situation of having to ask for it. Dont quarrel over a ladies rates dont ask for a deal if you dont agree with the rates then find someone else. Tips after service show you are truly happy with service, gifts are nice both giving and receiving. RESPECT that has got to be one of the most important things, treat us like we are your girlfriend even if it is for a couple of hours, it helps us to be comfortable and more relaxed = giving you the best service. If we do something you dont like let us know we would rather know so we dont do it again then have you feel irritated and we have no clue why. If a lady like things done a certain way and safety is important to her then respect that dont make her feel bad for it.
Thanks
SHaneen
I am happy when my guy takes a shower, shows up on time or calls if he will be late, having the money ready is good, it helps to take away from the uncomfortable situation of having to ask for it. Dont quarrel over a ladies rates dont ask for a deal if you dont agree with the rates then find someone else. Tips after service show you are truly happy with service, gifts are nice both giving and receiving. RESPECT that has got to be one of the most important things, treat us like we are your girlfriend even if it is for a couple of hours, it helps us to be comfortable and more relaxed = giving you the best service. If we do something you dont like let us know we would rather know so we dont do it again then have you feel irritated and we have no clue why. If a lady like things done a certain way and safety is important to her then respect that dont make her feel bad for it.
Thanks
SHaneen
Re: Goober's Gift
oh wait you meant....ahhhh!!!! ;-)
Oh yea like Goober's gonna share pie with anyone!Big Bear said:
oh wait you meant....ahhhh!!!! ;-)
how to please, tip or not to tip
Well it comes down to first how well you felt the session went. Even further it may come down to how well you felt you clicked with the lady on a more personal level.
I've seen sp's that gave mind blowing sessions, ie technique; but still seemed very cold and detached.
Your both human beings in the end so maybe think in terms of how you enjoy being treated by someone trying to show you they appreciated something you did for them. (don't know if that made sense?)
Some simple expression that says "I had a really great time, or I'm really glad I got the chance to meet you....or GOD I CAN'T EVEN WALK!"
I've tipped before, amounts may vary, but I do like the personal touch. Flowers, wine, something small, it doesn't have to cost an arm it's the fact that I felt the person deserved my putting the thought into it.
Let the lady feel like a lady and not just a flavor of the day.
Hell even in my own job I enjoy being recognized when I've gone an extra mile, or even if someone just has the time to say thanks.
Well it comes down to first how well you felt the session went. Even further it may come down to how well you felt you clicked with the lady on a more personal level.
I've seen sp's that gave mind blowing sessions, ie technique; but still seemed very cold and detached.
Your both human beings in the end so maybe think in terms of how you enjoy being treated by someone trying to show you they appreciated something you did for them. (don't know if that made sense?)
Some simple expression that says "I had a really great time, or I'm really glad I got the chance to meet you....or GOD I CAN'T EVEN WALK!"
I've tipped before, amounts may vary, but I do like the personal touch. Flowers, wine, something small, it doesn't have to cost an arm it's the fact that I felt the person deserved my putting the thought into it.
Let the lady feel like a lady and not just a flavor of the day.
Hell even in my own job I enjoy being recognized when I've gone an extra mile, or even if someone just has the time to say thanks.
Sometimes I tip with cash, if I know the lady's preference I may get her a bottle of her favorite perfume etc., at other times I may err on the side of caution and go with a gift certificate of some sort.
I always send a "thank-you" e-mail to the lady the next day; just to show that her time was appreciated.
I always send a "thank-you" e-mail to the lady the next day; just to show that her time was appreciated.
Re: how to please an sp
i would be happy just to have them show up or call ,pm ,or email when unable to . i have had tips but to me the best tip is knowing i made my guys day and that he will be thinking of our play time lol
shaneen said:
i would be happy just to have them show up or call ,pm ,or email when unable to . i have had tips but to me the best tip is knowing i made my guys day and that he will be thinking of our play time lol
to please the customer
it's interesting that a lot of SPs said they are happy to see the customer satisfied. I guess it's a self-confidence thing
But no doubt - the best combination is when both had a good time.
To make the customer happy, here are some suggestions:
- bring a fun CD to play and undress to !!
- suggest some alternatives that the customer
may not have thought of or may be too shy to ask
- offer to be photographed, since that will give the
customer something to remember you by and hopefully make him call again. plus it's fun to take pictures
it's interesting that a lot of SPs said they are happy to see the customer satisfied. I guess it's a self-confidence thing
But no doubt - the best combination is when both had a good time.
To make the customer happy, here are some suggestions:
- bring a fun CD to play and undress to !!
- suggest some alternatives that the customer
may not have thought of or may be too shy to ask
- offer to be photographed, since that will give the
customer something to remember you by and hopefully make him call again. plus it's fun to take pictures
mmmmmmmmmm ya
oh yesssssssss pictures are great did that this week lots of fun lol will be putting some of thoes up on my site lol damn right
oh yesssssssss pictures are great did that this week lots of fun lol will be putting some of thoes up on my site lol damn right
Re: I don't disagree but don't agree either...
Tips are never necessary and the best tip is of course a return visit. Be clean (squeaky), some wine or a soft drink available, a single rose and soft lights set the mood. Just because we are being paid does not mean that we don't enjoy our trade and can be turned on (or off) by attitude and personality. First and formost we are women (you gents know all about that) and not machines. And please, leave the fee on the dresser (we will pick it up) and never, never, count it into our hand (I hate that) Just my 2cents yet again, Hugs, Maryln
OMG with that attitude you are going to get the most mechanical lay ever and then wonder why!!!Nic Frenchy said:
Tips are never necessary and the best tip is of course a return visit. Be clean (squeaky), some wine or a soft drink available, a single rose and soft lights set the mood. Just because we are being paid does not mean that we don't enjoy our trade and can be turned on (or off) by attitude and personality. First and formost we are women (you gents know all about that) and not machines. And please, leave the fee on the dresser (we will pick it up) and never, never, count it into our hand (I hate that) Just my 2cents yet again, Hugs, Maryln
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Re: I have a question...
I commend you for asking. I wonder if you ask at the time and if your clients are forthcoming with answers. I always make my desires known via e-mail or telephone as I am shy about asking face to face. However this does not seem to work. The ladies either forget (??) or just go through their own routine.
I suppose that your answer would vary with the age of the client. Personally I enjoy some time to get to know you a little, some seduction, some passion and some making love (not just f***ing), some time to cool down and cuddle then a warm shower.
Seems that most ladies I have met are more into the Wham Bam type of encounter. When that happens I would rather just leave.
Hope this helps.
H.
Shaneenshaneen said:
I commend you for asking. I wonder if you ask at the time and if your clients are forthcoming with answers. I always make my desires known via e-mail or telephone as I am shy about asking face to face. However this does not seem to work. The ladies either forget (??) or just go through their own routine.
I suppose that your answer would vary with the age of the client. Personally I enjoy some time to get to know you a little, some seduction, some passion and some making love (not just f***ing), some time to cool down and cuddle then a warm shower.
Seems that most ladies I have met are more into the Wham Bam type of encounter. When that happens I would rather just leave.
Hope this helps.
H.
