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Hey,

All help appreciated. How do you last longer?? I am so sensitive to rubbers, as soon as I slip inside her, I am destined to blow?? What should I do?? I hate being a 3 pump chump. Even if I am paying for it, it is still not fair to her. I do enjoy eating, before or after...
 
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#1 , it helps to pee before your session
#2, think of other things that are not arousing while doing the deed
#3, get your self some Viagra, Cialis, Levitra.

A chump to champ in 3 quick steps.
 
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The Houdini said:
#1 , it helps to pee before your session
#2, think of other things that are not arousing while doing the deed
#3, get your self some Viagra, Cialis, Levitra.

A chump to champ in 3 quick steps.
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do the pills in number 3 actually work?? Can i get them at a walk in?? Would rather not have my doctor know about it, cause i wanna nail 2 of the girls who work in the office.
 
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wantoplay said:
Hey,

All help appreciated. How do you last longer?? I am so sensitive to rubbers, as soon as I slip inside her, I am destined to blow?? What should I do?? I hate being a 3 pump chump. Even if I am paying for it, it is still not fair to her. I do enjoy eating, before or after...
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This might be embarrasing for you, but it's flattery to the lady... I know if I was dating you, yes I would want our sexual journeys to last longer than "3 pumps" but, those are things that come with time. Be patient with yourself and know that you are not expected to be anyone but who you are. If someone does expect more, they are not worth your time. As for the Viagara, etc., I would strongly advise against it. Primarily because if you are making love to a woman, and you've taken Viagara, you can go for hours... this is incredibly frustrating to the woman whom does not feel as though she's pleasuring you. Plus she gets sore after about 45 minutes.

It may help to orgasm before you see the woman, by self-pleasure. That could increase the amount of stimulation it takes to orgasm again. And if it doesn't, do not despair, you are fine, you are sensitive is all and that is better than not feeling anything.
 
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I find as you get older, you can last longer naturally. I've noticed that recently with myself. It may take a bit longer to get it hard initially, but at least when it comes time to do the deed, you get your money's worth. You can also masturbate before the session. That should take some of the pressure off.
 
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hickorysticks said:
This might be embarrasing for you, but it's flattery to the lady... I know if I was dating you, yes I would want our sexual journeys to last longer than "3 pumps" but, those are things that come with time. Be patient with yourself and know that you are not expected to be anyone but who you are. If someone does expect more, they are not worth your time. As for the Viagara, etc., I would strongly advise against it. Primarily because if you are making love to a woman, and you've taken Viagara, you can go for hours... this is incredibly frustrating to the woman whom does not feel as though she's pleasuring you. Plus she gets sore after about 45 minutes.

It may help to orgasm before you see the woman, by self-pleasure. That could increase the amount of stimulation it takes to orgasm again. And if it doesn't, do not despair, you are fine, you are sensitive is all and that is better than not feeling anything.
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Thank you. I would rather not use pills, never have, and don't want to start now. I get hard real quick. The longest I have lasted is in Cow girl, and I love that position too. Would a little lube in the rubber help??
 
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wantoplay said:
Thank you. I would rather not use pills, never have, and don't want to start now. I get hard real quick. The longest I have lasted is in Cow girl, and I love that position too. Would a little lube in the rubber help??
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Yes lube always helps... although if her body is naturally lubricated, than it isin't really necessary. Perhaps, you could ask (if it's an SP, if she could go down on you first, perhaps a 69 and then make love afterwards) for MSOG. That way you don't feel as though you've paid for 5 minutes worth of sex and you are satisfied in the end. If it is a partner, I don't think she would have any problem with making love multiple times in a day...
 
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An old trick...

Jerk off before the date so you are already on your second load by the time you get into bed, several hours later, and it will take you longer to come. If you jerk before the date, you should have enough recovery time that you can get hard at the end of the date. But, your load likely won't have rejuvenated as quickly so you should last longer. If two erections in one night is not achievable, take a Cialis as well. But still jerk off before the date.
 
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smylee52

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hickorysticks said:
This might be embarrasing for you, but it's flattery to the lady... I know if I was dating you, yes I would want our sexual journeys to last longer than "3 pumps" but, those are things that come with time. Be patient with yourself and know that you are not expected to be anyone but who you are. If someone does expect more, they are not worth your time. As for the Viagara, etc., I would strongly advise against it. Primarily because if you are making love to a woman, and you've taken Viagara, you can go for hours... this is incredibly frustrating to the woman whom does not feel as though she's pleasuring you. Plus she gets sore after about 45 minutes.

It may help to orgasm before you see the woman, by self-pleasure. That could increase the amount of stimulation it takes to orgasm again. And if it doesn't, do not despair, you are fine, you are sensitive is all and that is better than not feeling anything.
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I assume from the advice you give that you are female as your handle is ambiguous . i love hickory sticks by the way . Can't say I agree with what you are saying except for the "drain the tank advice ".

The ladies that are flattered when you come in minutes tend to be the "get them in get them out variety ." On those occassions where I wasn't able to toss one off before the date and ejaculated prematurely I generally was met with disappointment as the lady was getting into the fucking . I recently had one SP suggest I jerk off before I see her next time because I only lasted 20 minutes of a 30 minute date. This lady likes what she does .

Viagra and Cialis allows for a quick recharge but it doesn't prevent you from cumming normally .

Best advice is to toss one off just before the appointment . Whether that be 1 hr or 5 hours before depends on the individual .
 
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MuffinMuncher

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The Houdini said:
#2, think of other things that are not arousing.
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Personally, the thought of Sheik in a thong usually does it, although he does have spectacular titties.....

Count backwards from 101 in prime numbers usually does it - takes some real concentration and it will usually buy me an extra 2-3 minutes! But in the end it depends on the girl, her skill and how attracted you are to her. If a hot girl wants you to blow in 2 minutes, you will.
 
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This question was asked before by the same person about a month or so I believe.

The question is "Have your tried any of the advices we gave you back then? or are you just playing us for Thesis?"
 
The Oracle

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One word..

antidepressants.
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What the man said. The side affect I believe is caled anorgasmia. Any of the common ssri's will cause this most of the time. Problem is thats a helluva way to overcome your situation. Maybe double or triple up in the condoms. It's got to dull the sensitivity you would think.
 
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There are some anti-sensitivity based condoms or try some Stud100 if you think you are too sensitive.

I don't personally use them because I have the opposite problem sometimes.
Some days I find I can cum in like 5min and some days it's like 20mins. Go figure.
 
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5-20 minutes would be a freaking dream come true to me!:eek:
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5mins I don't mind but close to 20mins of pure humping gets me tired and makes it a 1 SOG hour 'cause I'm too burnt out. Could be psychological...
 
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