How to get a woman to instantly like you

[Big Rig]

This is some more of my continual banter of how to meet women and get them interested in you


She says :

1 look good

2 smile

3 be confident

4 open and comfortable body language

5 Look her in the eyes


Her comments are solid but my 2 cents on improving her suggestions will follow.

 

[Ballsin Deep]

LSO system - Look Smile Openup

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[Big Rig]

My improvement on her advice is do not smile, as she says, but instead smirk ( a half smile). A smirk is more interesting.


Clooney has a great smirk. Why? Because women like it, that is why, so he uses it all the time. He should know.

Emma Watson has great smirk. Don't you wanna walk over and say hello?

Just my 2 cents

 

[Big Rig]

An additional comment is to go further than just look neat. Instead, look interesting

Wear something she can comment on to get the conversation going. An interesting jacket, piece of jewelry etc and have something interesting and prepared to say about the clothing if she does comment. Better yet, have a prepared joke to get her laughing. If she is interested she wants you to make her laugh, so witticism does not have to be brilliant


Another 2 cents

 

[Big Rig]

Also, when it comes to looking her directly in the eyes I say 100% you should, however how long should you retain stare? I say no longer than 10 seconds before you look away then come back.

Any longer may make her uneasy.

2 more cents

 

[Big Rig]

Also, it should go unstated, but I will state it: This will not work with all women. Get real!


To greatly improve your odds of success approach only if she has given a signal of interest


Lots of vids on how women signal interest



2 cents

 

[peter4025]

I have only one tip that always work, open your wallet

 

[lomotil]

the flying lizards the best things in life are free

 

[Big Rig]

I have only one tip that always work, open your wallet

Disagree. $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ is not required as quality women want someone who is interesting and that they can really like above money.


Men who use lack of $$ as an excuse will find another excuse after they win the lottery.

 

[clementinexoxo]

listen.
ask for consent.
treat us like real human people.
be emotionally available.
be in therapy.

*panties drop*

 

[Big Rig]

listen.

Oh yeah, you do not have to entertain her.

Rule of thumb: She should talk 70% of the time. WTF is she interested in? Do not talk about yourself unless she asks. Not only is she talking about herself but you are remaining a mysterty which is going to peak her interest and after you leave she will be thinking of you, if things go well. Nothing is guaranteed.

So, get her to talk about herself but stay away from the personal and no flirty sexual stuff. Any compliment should not be sexual. The compliment should be about something she has done like hair or whatever. That way you are complimenting her taste. Sexual stuff comes later.

2 more cents (actually, this one is worth more than 2 cents)

 

[HEYHEY]

 

[Insidious Von]

My improvement on her advice is do not smile, as she says, but instead smirk ( a half smile). A smirk is more interesting.

Don, you're a pretentious fuck, who are you Antonio Banderas? Women like the bad boys, they'll take a Dany Trejo over Banderas every time.

Project strength and confidence, fuck the smirk, it suggests someone who's two faced.

 

[Insidious Von]

Regardless of gender always project strength and confidence.

Emma Watson auditioned to play Natasha Romanov's rival in an upcoming Black Widow film. She lost.

 

[bazokajoe]

listen.
ask for consent.
treat us like real human people.
be emotionally available.
be in therapy.

*panties drop*

"be in therapy"???
You like guys with addiction/mental issues?

 

[Big Rig]

Don, you're a pretentious fuck, who are you Antonio Banderas? Women like the bad boys, they'll take a Dany Trejo over Banderas every time.

Project strength and confidence, fuck the smirk, it suggests someone who's two faced.

Have no time have I ever suggested not to be strong. That is what confidence is. Also, to work out and actually have a lean strong body will go a long way with women.


As far as being a bad boy, some women love it, most do not IMHO. Seems shallow.

Taking risks, seeking excitement and challenging yourself takes intellect and these traits are very sexual to women. Being a bad boy has none of these qualities.

I see 1 percenter bikers on the road I go the other way. They are sad egomaniacs and trouble as well as cowards who hide behind patches.

You do not want to smirk then don't. Works for George Clooney

 

[Insidious Von]

Don stop the charade and most men don't look like George Clooney.

Bad boy may be shallow; be tough, be dependable. Most women don't like nice guys for a reason, they'll bolt at the first sign of adversity. Like, if she becomes pregnant.

 

[Big Rig]

Don stop the charade and most men don't look like George Clooney.

Bad boy may be shallow; be tough, be dependable. Most women don't like nice guys for a reason, they'll bolt at the first sign of adversity. Like, if she becomes pregnant.

What charade? I am making suggestions. I am not stating I am George Clooney nor am I a PU artist but meeting women is a skill and that is what I am discussing. What is wrong with that?

Work with what you got. If smirk is not you then do not do it. I don't smirk as it does not come naturally. It is a suggestion


I am unsure of your definition of what is a bad or nice guy.

Nice guys are not wimps, they are tough, dependable and honorable. They are real men. It is bad boys that will leave a pregnant woman. That is why they are bad.

 

[clementinexoxo]

"be in therapy"???
You like guys with addiction/mental issues?

the fact that you think that's who therapy is for is proof you need it.
the truth is, I think men aren't given the tools they need to be in touch with their emotional selves throughout their lives. so, they end up closed off, hardened, dismissive, and difficult. when a guy is in therapy it proves to me that he's doing work on himself, cares for himself, and is probably going to care for me too.

 

[bazokajoe]

the fact that you think that's who therapy is for is proof you need it.
the truth is, I think men aren't given the tools they need to be in touch with their emotional selves throughout their lives. so, they end up closed off, hardened, dismissive, and difficult. when a guy is in therapy it proves to me that he's doing work on himself, cares for himself, and is probably going to care for me too.

Sounds like therapy is right up your ally.