Men seem to have different points of view about seeing the same lady more than once. Some believe that every time every woman has to be a different one. On the other end of the spectrum are men who spend most of their time with "regulars" - ladies they see repeatedly, on a somewhat regular basis. I have been looking in Toronto for some time and have had difficulty finding a "regular" - haven't found someone I have wanted to see for more than 3 or 4 times. Each time I am hopeful, something happens and the situation doesn't work out. Something happens and I say to myself, "really don't want to see her again." I'd be interested in any insights that people have about finding (and "keeping") a regular. I really like the "regular" concept and prefer not to meet a new person each time. In a way, I'm think I'm really looking for a part-time lover. Ideas? Help me figure this out, thanks.
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How to find a "regular."
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See someone you like three times, if they don't remember your name by the third time move on.
I once saw an MPA, unbelieveably hot and very friendly, on a Friday. Got great service and tipped her well. She said that the next time I saw her she would make things a lot more interesting. Couldn't wait so I saw her the following Monday, three days later. After an uninspired session she asked "Have I seen you before?" Not regular material.
I once saw an MPA, unbelieveably hot and very friendly, on a Friday. Got great service and tipped her well. She said that the next time I saw her she would make things a lot more interesting. Couldn't wait so I saw her the following Monday, three days later. After an uninspired session she asked "Have I seen you before?" Not regular material.
I don't know what kind of a response you are looking for. There is no secret handshake that you learn that will make for a successful "regular" relationship with a lady. You could shed some light on the situation for us by explaining what it is that makes you decide to stop seeing the ladies after a few visits. In other words, what is the "something" that happens?
It seems to me that you have found something that works for you. See a lady you like 3 or 4 times. Then move on. Nothing wrong with that. What works for others (i.e. a longer term leasing arrangement) will not necessarily work for you, at least until you find the right lady. Keep looking.
Either that, or change the "something" that happens.
It seems to me that you have found something that works for you. See a lady you like 3 or 4 times. Then move on. Nothing wrong with that. What works for others (i.e. a longer term leasing arrangement) will not necessarily work for you, at least until you find the right lady. Keep looking.
Either that, or change the "something" that happens.
As questor said, there isn't any magic powder to take to make it happen, it just does.
Chemistry works in the hobby world just like in real life. I've been lucky to find 2 (maybe 3) who clicked with me so well it was almost as if the planets aligned for a moment. (wish I could find that with a civvie woman lol).
You know you have "it" when she tells her agency owner "if I'm not scheduled to work, and he calls in, call me cuz I'll see him....".....
Chemistry works in the hobby world just like in real life. I've been lucky to find 2 (maybe 3) who clicked with me so well it was almost as if the planets aligned for a moment. (wish I could find that with a civvie woman lol).
You know you have "it" when she tells her agency owner "if I'm not scheduled to work, and he calls in, call me cuz I'll see him....".....
Being a nice guy with a respectful attitude helps a lot.
and a giant wang...
"monagamous hobbying" - I love the irony....
and a giant wang...
"monagamous hobbying" - I love the irony....
Hangman said:Or a paradox?
Anyway, we were discussing a giant wang...
Paradox? I thought you only needed one dock to moor your boat?
I have a buddy who believes in "serial monogamy". He fucks a girl for a while, then they break up, then he gets a new girl and fucks her. Not pros. I have concluded that my thing is "parallel monogamy". I have my wife, and two semi-pros that I have know for 10+ years, and no great desire to see others. You can get a regular in two ways - by seeing her a lot and tipping well, but the better way is to find someone that you have a connection with, beyond just the money. But that is hit and miss, all you can you is keep trying.
tboy said:As questor said, there isn't any magic powder to take to make it happen, it just does.
Chemistry works in the hobby world just like in real life. I've been lucky to find 2 (maybe 3) who clicked with me so well it was almost as if the planets aligned for a moment. (wish I could find that with a civvie woman lol).
You know you have "it" when she tells her agency owner "if I'm not scheduled to work, and he calls in, call me cuz I'll see him....".....
I had 2 MPs who would come to work if I called them on their cell. I guess I was a regular. They wisely kept it business by meeting me at the MP.
As for tipping, you don't have to tip to be a regular. Being clean and pleasant goes further than an extra 20 bucks.
