1) Position is everything. You either want to be on your back, with your head over the edge of the bed, or in a 69 position, over top of or underneath your lover's cock. The former - over the edge of the bed - is best for learning. It also reinforces the feeling of helplessness and surrender. Of being drowned by cock. I like it best.
Have your lover straddle you and force his cock as far down your throat as it can go. Hold still. If he's well endowed, you may have to slide the last millimetres of him in incrementally, but that's okay. He'll be happy to enjoy the journey. It's likely he'll get excited and want to thrust right away, but slow him down, clutch his ass and keep him still for a while.
You want to get used to this feeling. It can feel at first like your throat is going to explode. Just spread your legs wider. It helps if he vocalizes his appreciation in pants, in disbelief and some nipple play on you. All this will only serve to get you wetter.
This is the hardest work - accustomizing your throat to his cock. The more you can relax and settle into the feeling, the easier it gets with time. Everyone seems to have advice about throat relaxation techniques, but it's something you need to feel your way through. A shortcut:
2) Choose a pressure point. There's a point just below your Adam's apple that actually stifles your gag reflex. Feel for a soft indent and a 'C' lying on its side. Firmly press your finger there - or have him do it, that's even hotter. You'll find it stops you from retching quite so much. Even so, you'll still regurgitate a thick, slimy saliva that provides a fantastic lubricant. It feels great running down his balls and it allows for a quick changeover to other orifices.
3) The transition. There's an area in the throat that the cock must slide past to make it into deep throat territory. Relax your jaw and imagine creating space at the back of your mouth. Let go entirely. Again, spread your legs wide and surrender to the feeling of being taken and utter availability.
4) Breathe. When his cock fills your throat completely, breathing is impossible. As you learn throatfucking and he rests his cock deep down, hold your breath. Have him pull out and then breathe; have him re-enter and hold. Repeat.
When he graduates to seriously, wildly fucking your throat, you'll be able to time your inhalations and exhalations to the moments when he pulls out before he thrusts deeply back inside you.
Have your lover straddle you and force his cock as far down your throat as it can go. Hold still. If he's well endowed, you may have to slide the last millimetres of him in incrementally, but that's okay. He'll be happy to enjoy the journey. It's likely he'll get excited and want to thrust right away, but slow him down, clutch his ass and keep him still for a while.
You want to get used to this feeling. It can feel at first like your throat is going to explode. Just spread your legs wider. It helps if he vocalizes his appreciation in pants, in disbelief and some nipple play on you. All this will only serve to get you wetter.
This is the hardest work - accustomizing your throat to his cock. The more you can relax and settle into the feeling, the easier it gets with time. Everyone seems to have advice about throat relaxation techniques, but it's something you need to feel your way through. A shortcut:
2) Choose a pressure point. There's a point just below your Adam's apple that actually stifles your gag reflex. Feel for a soft indent and a 'C' lying on its side. Firmly press your finger there - or have him do it, that's even hotter. You'll find it stops you from retching quite so much. Even so, you'll still regurgitate a thick, slimy saliva that provides a fantastic lubricant. It feels great running down his balls and it allows for a quick changeover to other orifices.
3) The transition. There's an area in the throat that the cock must slide past to make it into deep throat territory. Relax your jaw and imagine creating space at the back of your mouth. Let go entirely. Again, spread your legs wide and surrender to the feeling of being taken and utter availability.
4) Breathe. When his cock fills your throat completely, breathing is impossible. As you learn throatfucking and he rests his cock deep down, hold your breath. Have him pull out and then breathe; have him re-enter and hold. Repeat.
When he graduates to seriously, wildly fucking your throat, you'll be able to time your inhalations and exhalations to the moments when he pulls out before he thrusts deeply back inside you.