You can laugh all you want but in our hyper-sexualized society a man who has a low libido, difficulty "performing" etc. doesn't feel like a "real man." I have my own performance issues (not related to testosterone but to complications from prostate surgery over 20 years ago) that often leave me feeling frustrated and less than fully masculine. Simply put, while I love and enjoy and can perform perfectly normally with oral sex I have internal nerve damage that makes penetration almost impossible because it's so uncomfortable. Even aggressive dt is uncomfortable for me. Frankly it's been years since I've been able to have actual sexual intercourse with anyone. I have a wife who hates oral sex so there's no satisfaction at all at home. I see escorts to "take the edge off" so to speak - but you'd be surprised how many times I walk away from a session having had a perfectly enjoyable time but still in the back of my mind thinking "God I wish I could ..." and feeling this weird combination of incredibly satisfied and extremely frustrated. If you don't think that hits the proverbial male ego pretty hard you're mistaken. So please hold off on your "Lmao" and your questions about "what is a real man." You know exactly what's being talked about.
no I don’t. I see a guy who was not told anything by a doctor, taking double the recommended dose to be a “real” man.
Sounds either idiotic or dangerous to me. Since he seems keen on doing it, I’m going with idiotic. So I asked HIM - what’s a real man to HIM. Not you. You took offence of something for no reason because of your own personal issues.
And maybe if the question gets asked and actually thought of and therefore answered right, you would all see that a “real” man is something you all put in your own head. YOU wish you could do this or that. That is on you. Just like women looking in magazines thinking they need to be a size minus 2 to fit in. You don’t. You don’t have to fall for this “hyper-sexualized society” as it is not good for your mental health.
So what is a real man? My question stands and my laughing at the OP stands for being an idiot and taking things without a doctors referral and doubling the dosage.
PS - sex doesn’t make you a man. Your penis is not the only important part of you or your body. The faster you realize this, the better you will feel.
PPS - don’t read this with an “attitude” style tone. But with a concerned one generally. I may think the OP is being an idiot but doesn’t negate the concern. You guys have a totally false sense of what a “real” man is and because of that - you do things that are physically, mentally and emotionally harmful to yourselves.
