I'm a long time lurker here who has finally decided to dip his toes. I texted multiple SPs but almost all of them never seem to reply back despite me writing polite introduction message with my name, age and other stuff. Just one of them replied and I set up a time with her, only for her to ghost me when I reached the address provided. I waited for like 30 mins and gave her a couple more calls before losing hope. Demotivated from this incident, I texted the number provided for sakura but it has been 2 days and they haven't responded either. What am I doing wrong? Am I just supposed to knock on the SP's door instead of texting/calling them? Am I supposed to just call the number for SPs/Sakura that don't reply to my texts? I can't help but blame my nervousness is the issue. Is there anything else?
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Are you using a text app by chance? Many ladies won't reply to those. As for being ghosted, it happens, maybe just bad luck with who you picked that day. Make sure there isn't anything specific in their ad that they want to know in initial contact that you are forgetting. I also mentioned in my first time that it was my first time seeking an escort's companionship. Some like to break a guy's cherry, others don't want to deal with a newbie. Polite, keep it short and to the point basically which sounds like you have done, so just keep at it. Don't pester the same ladies though.
I never book an appointment with Sakura but if you checked the site, there is an schedule posted. Maybe you need to booked on the day where the ladies are working. I guess they don't wanna mixed up the schedule as these girls may sometimes working on the other city like London.
I've no idea if my experience applies to you but....
I always start with; "name, age, ethnicity and I'd look to book one hour on date and time". Don't say "hey". Don't say, "there?". I never try to 'talk dirty' or sexy or anything that doesn't have to do with booking an appointment. I've never even asked what services are/are not included as that ultimate depends on her deciding within the first 30 seconds of us meeting. Your goal is to try and be as normal as possible. Remember, for sex workers, it's a job. In the last year, 3 escorts have waived their screening rules and didn't bother with my reference because..I sound normal. Apparently, "normal" is unusual in this industry.
Case in point for being "normal" (and friendly). I punted some 20 year-old SB early last month because she lacks the same sense of time urgency that I have. She just texted me a month later just to chat. Create the opportunity.
If you text normal, you'll be considered unusual in a good way. So, don't be that guy.
r/sexworkers also has some great advice. I think they have a good sticky on the subject.
They also had a great meme on what shit texting they usually get.
Don't be that guy.
Also, LC18 has a good thread and she has some very good comments in general. It's worth some time going through her postings.
I always start with; "name, age, ethnicity and I'd look to book one hour on date and time". Don't say "hey". Don't say, "there?". I never try to 'talk dirty' or sexy or anything that doesn't have to do with booking an appointment. I've never even asked what services are/are not included as that ultimate depends on her deciding within the first 30 seconds of us meeting. Your goal is to try and be as normal as possible. Remember, for sex workers, it's a job. In the last year, 3 escorts have waived their screening rules and didn't bother with my reference because..I sound normal. Apparently, "normal" is unusual in this industry.
Case in point for being "normal" (and friendly). I punted some 20 year-old SB early last month because she lacks the same sense of time urgency that I have. She just texted me a month later just to chat. Create the opportunity.
If you text normal, you'll be considered unusual in a good way. So, don't be that guy.
r/sexworkers also has some great advice. I think they have a good sticky on the subject.
They also had a great meme on what shit texting they usually get.
Don't be that guy.
Also, LC18 has a good thread and she has some very good comments in general. It's worth some time going through her postings.
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I've no idea if my experience applies to you but....
I always start with; "name, age, ethnicity and I'd look to book one hour on date and time". Don't say "hey". Don't say, "there?". I never try to 'talk dirty' or sexy or anything that doesn't have to do with booking an appointment. I've never even asked what services are/are not included as that ultimate depends on her deciding within the first 30 seconds of us meeting. Your goal is to try and be as normal as possible. Remember, for sex workers, it's a job. In the last year, 3 escorts have waived their screening rules and didn't bother with my reference because..I sound normal. Apparently, "normal" is unusual in this industry.
Case in point for being "normal" (and friendly). I punted some 20 year-old SB early last month because she lacks the same sense of time urgency that I have. She just texted me a month later just to chat. Create the opportunity.
If you text normal, you'll be considered unusual in a good way. So, don't be that guy.
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r/sexworkers also has some great advice. I think they have a good sticky on the subject.
They also had a great meme on what shit texting they usually get.
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Also, LC18 has a good thread and she has some very good comments in general. It's worth some time going through her postings.
Always send the Dick Pic first