How surprised would someone be....

[kherg007]

Curious, on a 1 (not at all) to 10 (as surprised as someone could be) scale...how surprised would the people in your life be that you have engaged this terb world (ie, seeing escorts/MPAs etc)? If a bloke, rate as a client, if a lady, rate as an SP or MPA.
Me - 8.

 

[bazokajoe]

for sure a 10

 

[luvyeah]

I wonder what factors or characteristics would cause someone to believe you participate.
Is it because you have many vices already, or show a lack of them?
Is it because you are promiscuous or lack thereof?
Introverted or Extroverted?

For me I honestly don't know, maybe a 3...

 

[yomero5]

5/10. My guess is that 50% of the male population over 40 hobby.

 

[kherg007]

I wonder what factors or characteristics would cause someone to believe you participate.
Is it because you have many vices already, or show a lack of them?
Is it because you are promiscuous or lack thereof?
Introverted or Extroverted?

For me I honestly don't know, maybe a 3...

Those are great questions. If a bloke is super flirty and had an office affair on the mrs., I would think people not surprised he was seeing escorts. But if a bloke is a Buddhist monk or Catholic priest, then a big surprise. Or the suburban dad w 2.3 kids and a mini van. Interesting ponder.

 

[superstar_88]

Any married guy where the wife has given up on sex a definite 1

 

[livestrong2000]

Any married guy where the wife has given up on sex a definite 1

yea but how many ppl would know that she's given up on sex lol? Mine gave up on sex years ago - i'm def a 10 - no one would think I participate

 

[superstar_88]

Oh don't kid yourself. They're just not saying it to your face.

 

[G.D. Gentleman]

My work life and most of my family - 8 or 9, I just don't discuss too much of my personal life with work but being early 40's, never married and have as much fun as I have in the stories I do share - some may guess or even figure it out.

My inner circle of friends, 1 - they know my lifestyle and many of those who I have shared with have in turn joined me on strip club visits and/or asked for advice on seeing SP's/MP's.

Back to your original question - work associates I become close friends with over time - again 8-9, often shocked at first (always fun telling them) and then most often want to know more, lol.

 

[GameBoy27]

Some of our friends know my wife and I go to Oasis and play with other females and couples, so I don't think anyone would be too surprised. So maybe a 2.