How should I have react???

[Grass.Hopper]

I had this guy calling me none stop. Stalker kind of guy. So after the third cancellation, I decided to meet, knowing it was going to be Hell.

So we agreed on 20:00. I told him to call me from a certain area, explaining why. He agreed.

Calls me at 19:50, telling me he was still home and should be here in half an hour... WTF!

Anyways, arrives and gives me shit because I'm not dressed like a hooker. But I'm not. I'm an escort. I can talk to you for 59 minutes if I want to.

So, I agreed, putting a nice outfit, with fishnets and high heels. Then he complains about the fishnets. Took them off. Now telling me shoes are not proper. (9 inches, vinyle, classic platform shoes).

I told him not to be rude and stop playing those games or I'll kick him out. Starts to give me shit again, telling me that I was the bad girl. I was pissed!

After trying to fix things, being nice and a warning, I kept the money and kicked him out.

Was I right?

 

[AllishaMyst]

Absolutely!!!

 

[Hangman]

I think you did the best you could. I also think that you were right to get rid of him when you did, as I get the sense that his negative behaviour may have escalated as he became more and more irrationally dissatisfied.

 

[trod]

You were right and am surprised you gave him a chance.

Its these kind of douchebags who should be thrown into a solitary confinement prison in the middle of an ocean.

 

[Rono]

I think you should have kicked him out right away. You were putting yourself at too much risk with this time bomb.

 

[EJunkie]

I think you reacted fine; I do question why you would see the guy in the first place (or is that the fourth place?).

and echo Rono's comment

 

[HOF]

I had this guy calling me none stop. Stalker kind of guy. So after the third cancellation, I decided to meet, knowing it was going to be Hell.So we agreed on 20:00. I told him to call me from a certain area, explaining why. He agreed.

Calls me at 19:50, telling me he was still home and should be here in half an hour... WTF!

Anyways, arrives and gives me shit because I'm not dressed like a hooker. But I'm not. I'm an escort. I can talk to you for 59 minutes if I want to.

So, I agreed, putting a nice outfit, with fishnets and high heels. Then he complains about the fishnets. Took them off. Now telling me shoes are not proper. (9 inches, vinyle, classic platform shoes).

I told him not to be rude and stop playing those games or I'll kick him out. Starts to give me shit again, telling me that I was the bad girl. I was pissed!

After trying to fix things, being nice and a warning, I kept the money and kicked him out.

Was I right?

Your first sentence says it all. Why did you go through with the appointment.

Now, grasshopper, who are you? website, etc?

 

[Grass.Hopper]

Thanks everyone for your inputs. It tells me that I've done the right thing...

 

[Grass.Hopper]

Your first sentence says it all. Why did you go through with the appointment.

Now, grasshopper, who are you? website, etc?

This as been replied by PM...

 

[harryass]

you done right young Grass.Hopper but I offer words of wisdom:

- go with your instinct, dont agree to see anyone that may make you feel unsafe.
- have backup pal (for your safety)
- when kicking him out, use CSA certified rated steel toe boots

"master" harryass

 

[Dougal Short]

I think you should have kicked him out right away. You were putting yourself at too much risk with this time bomb.

Ditto. You felt the guy was a nutbar... "stalker kind of guy". You should have listened to you "inner-escort" and not seen him at all...

 

[Cypher]

No you didn't do the right thing, it just worked out okay. With the alarm bells ringing you really should have asked him to stop calling as you just didn't feel comfortable.
Humouring him, seeing him, could have turned out uglier than it did. Fortunately it didn't. But now "nutbar" knows where to find you. Were you right keeping his money?
Absolutely! You earned it and then some.

 

[esoterica]

you done right young Grass.Hopper but I offer words of wisdom:

- go with your instinct, dont agree to see anyone that may make you feel unsafe.
- have backup pal (for your safety)
- when kicking him out, use CSA certified rated steel toe boots

"master" harryass

I've met GrassHopper. She doesn't need backup to kick somebody out. Gorgeous, cut and tough!

 

[fuji]

I decided to meet, knowing it was going to be Hell.

...

Was I right?

You were wrong, you should have gone with your first instinct and not met him at all.

Everything else you did after that sounded right though!

 

[Mencken]

I think you did the right thing, and you were certainly entitled to the money. Wondering though whether that might give him an excuse to come back. My gut feel would have been to give him back some of it on the condition that he not ever contact you again or you will call the police.

 

[Brill]

I've met GrassHopper. She doesn't need backup to kick somebody out. Gorgeous, cut and tough!

This thread is useless without pics.

 

[Ms.FemmeFatale]

No you didn't do the right thing, it just worked out okay. With the alarm bells ringing you really should have asked him to stop calling as you just didn't feel comfortable.
Humouring him, seeing him, could have turned out uglier than it did. Fortunately it didn't. But now "nutbar" knows where to find you. Were you right keeping his money?
Absolutely! You earned it and then some.

I agree with this.

I know as women we like to try and give the benefit of the doubt more times then not, but when you get the vibe like you did, you should just block the number and move on. It really is not worth all that you went through.

Having said that, you went through with the appointment as far as you could go. You ended it based on his behavior. The money is yours.

 

[Intrigued]

This as been replied by PM...

PM me the info please.

 

[GPIDEAL]

Thanks everyone for your inputs. It tells me that I've done the right thing...

Not so fast. You shoulda dug one of your 9 inch heels into his scrotum after you got his money.

Kidding aside, I agree with Rubmeister and Rono. Please don't take that chance again cuz I think some of us guys would also like to see you wearing that hooker outfit, mesh stockings and heels.

 

[harryass]

I've met GrassHopper. She doesn't need backup to kick somebody out. Gorgeous, cut and tough!

awwww lovely, young Grass.Hopper physical atributes are not in question but 'it is better to be safe than sorry".

peace out,
master h



lets kick his sorry butt together