How safe is DATY?

[guyoncognito69]

Never been with an escort, gonna try it soon to live out a few fantasies, but don't know what to expect, do, not to do.
I'm sensible enough to not try to get them off, I know enough girls in the industry to know better, what's gonna be expected of me, other than, of course, to be clean, polite, etc.
Main concern is MSOG, the safety of DATY, i know alot of the sp's aren't really comfortable with it, but if they are, is it safe?
And about transactions, are they gonna ask for more, should I be worried about anything?

 

[Ripper77]

The easiest way for a man to catch a disease from a woman even aids is through daty.So proceed at your own Risk.

 

[thighspy]

Newbie..

Nothing to worry about.Find a good incall or research a good outcall.They are advertised in these pages.
After that just be a man,and behave as a good man will with a nice Lady.I think all the ladies are looking for a nice guy,( with enough Money of course) And don't be a chump and fall for the Lady.It is a Business arrangement.She has something you want--you have something she wants.At the right Price and the right Service it is the oldest business arrangement known to man.As long as both sides are satisfied.
Hope this helps.
Life is too short to hurry.

 

[groo39]

Ignore Ripper and read up on various threads here -- he's paranoid about DATY and tries to scare everyone with his "warnings".

There is risk to DATY, but there is risk to all services. Hell, an MP could have a non-visible wart on her hand while giving you a covered HJ and pass on the warts!

Near as I can tell from much reading, DATY and DFK are roughly comparable risks, with BBBJ providing a slightly higher risk to the SP. Others will tell you differently, so you'll have to do some research and come to your own conclusions.

Just make sure you decide based on reasonable information instead of based on what you want to be the truth.

 

[Alucard]

well you can just cut the end off a concom and then use the square thats left, some places sell protectors too... thats if you want to be really safe.

 

[midLifeCrisis]

I`m sensible enough to not try to get them off, I know enough girls in the industry to know better

You don`t know enough of the nice ones, apparently. A lot of the girls genuinely enjoy it and genuinely get off. Not all, probably not even most, but a lot. Naturally, it`s more likely if you become a regular and establish a genuine liking for each other.

If it`s offered at all, it won`t cost any more. As long as you stay away from streetwalkers and the low end!

In re safety, see Question on BBBJ, DFK and STDs. and Daty

 

[Ripper77]

There is alot of naive people giving out bad information.If a lady has a disease it can be caught through daty,if she doesnt it cant.Its as simple as that,but for the man it is the riskiest part of sex they can have unprotected.Of course for the woman it would be sex without a condom. Check out the facts for yourself. Thanks,Rich

 

[midLifeCrisis]

There is alot of naive people giving out bad information.
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Check out the facts for yourself.

I hope I'm not one of your unspecified "naive people", Ripper77!

The threads I quoted have posts by me linking to sites operated by the Hassle Free Clinic, the Center for Disease Control and others. Can you provide citations along with your strong opinions?

 

[Ripper77]

There are dangers to DATY and they are minimal. There is a higher danger associated with driving while tired than there is to going down on 20 SPs, and believe me.............going down on 20 SPs will keep you awake.

This is one of the idiots i was talking about.

 

[lickitysplit]

One of the easiest diseases out there to catch is herpes.
Not too many know what the hell herpes is. It's quite simple!
If a man has the herpes virus in his mouth and performs oral sex on you, figure it out. And of course if the lady has oral herpes and performs oral sex on a man, figure it out. If a man has genital herpes which can at times be barely noticeable if you don't know what you're looking for, if he has sex unprotected, figure it out. Same goes for a woman. Many people who have herpes don't even know they have it. Even if this does scare you, it can be mistaken for even a shaving rash. Signs can be very subtle. And guys, I'm not talking about the common cold sore. I suggest everyone does their research. You can catch herpes from simply rubbing your pelvic area against someone else's who has the virus. I hope that made sense.
It is illegal to conceive children when affected with the virus.
If you're affected and have a child, it's up to them to decide whether or not you knew you were infected. If so, chances are your child will be taken away from you.
THERE IS NO CURE FOR HERPES!!!!!!!

 

[DenWa]

Herpes can be spread even when the carrier is not having an outbreak. A lot of people have herpes. You guys crack me up with your proclamations of safety...it's like you're trying to convince yourselves it's safe. The bottom line is, if a girl has herpes and you go down on her, you have a very good chance of getting it. Remember, she may have no visible signs of the disease - she doesn't need to - you can still very easily catch the disease.

DW

 

[PackRat]

Herpes

My ex GF had herpes when were together for 8 years. We did everything you could put an acronym to and then some. I am herpes free. Simple honesty protected me. When she was having an episode she told me, plus she was so uncomfortable when the episodes came (infrequently) I probably couldn't touch her anyway.

 

[DenWa]

you're a lucky person, PackRat...it may not happen every time, but you CAN get herpes in between outbreaks.

 

[groo39]

you're a lucky person, PackRat...it may not happen every time, but you CAN get herpes in between outbreaks.

You're neglecting the fact that you can get Herpes SII even if wearing a condom. It's a skin-skin transmission, not a body fluid transmission.

Those 'nads many of you like to treat to BLS are as much at risk of Herpes transmission as if you'd gone for a full BBBJ.

If you are all going to get paranoid about might and could, go do some reading. There is as much paranoid misinformation here as there is misinformation about how "safe" certain activities are. Stop getting info from your friends and rumours, and start doing a little reading. Better yet, ask your freakin' doctor!

 

[DenWa]

groo39...you're absolutely right that you can get herpes from BLS, or basically any kind of contact with anything down there. Not trying to scare everyone. It comes down to personal choice in what risks you're willing to take. But, if you're willing to take the risk that's fine, but don't try to diminish the face that serious risks exist. Personally, that's why I don't see SP's, and prefer to fark my wife. But my wife likes sex, and she's kinkier than me, so It's easy for me to say.

DW

 

[DenWa]

I was responding to a post in a thread created by someone asking about how safe something was, you dick.

DW

 

[groo39]

It's the LOUNGE, not the review area.

 

[Beautiful Witch]

Groo, Denwa, Ripper.........................why do you post here? This is an ESCORT REVIEW BOARD not a prayer circle or a Health Clinic site.

Don't feel badly,mate...

DimWit thinks everyone is a dick...

*Shrugs*

We all know he's the biggest dick of all,even with a dick the size of a sewing needle...

The dicks go on down the line...

Sloppy seconds is always their style...!! And 3rds,and 4ths,and 5ths and so on and so forth...

A good old fashioned shot in the mouth should shut him up a while,eh...??

Thank you...!

 

[Beautiful Witch]

Oh and let's hope DATY is safe,that's all I ever want a SP for...!!

Can't get enough of that pussy...!!

However - it must be clean and disease FREE...!!

 

[webmaster69]

not a prayer circle or a Health Clinic site.

LMFAO at that one...

Although Midlife's links are always helpful and informative.