How Safe is DATY in a Massage session

medalllione

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Just finished reading a thread under the Lounge section about a guy who got hsv1 from a bbbj session with a MA. What about DATY, is this safe? Do you have any safety concerns when partaking in DATY with an MA? If you can get hpv, hsv1 or hsv2 from bbbj, so too can unprotected activity such as DATY, correct?
 

kinkydahlia

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you can indeed get herpes from daty, you can also get gonnorhea and chlamydia. you cannot get hpv orally and 80% of sexually active people have hpv. the best way to stay safe is to get tested frequently. sex with anyone (oral or otherwise) is not without risks and many sti's are highly treatable.
 

gmaximus

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Can we just stop it with these fear mongering threads. A simple google search would have given you the answer. You can probably catch something from shaking hands with someone or being in close proximity to them. Should people stop receiving massages as well.

We don't know for sure how that guy got herpes. Could have been from his wife. Been getting bbbjs and doing daty forever and haven't caught anything. Just use your common sense and don't go down on someone who have signs of herpes or have bad hygiene. Don't want to take the risk then stay home and masturbate. However excessive masturbation can also have some bad effects lmao.
 

MidGuyy

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Can we just stop it with these fear mongering threads. A simple google search would have given you the answer. You can probably catch something from shaking hands with someone or being in close proximity to them. Should people stop receiving massages as well.

We don't know for sure how that guy got herpes. Could have been from his wife. Been getting bbbjs and doing daty forever and haven't caught anything. Just use your common sense and don't go down on someone who have signs of herpes or have bad hygiene. Don't want to take the risk then stay home and masturbate. However excessive masturbation can also have some bad effects lmao.
Lol you’re right. As well as too much pornography. But c’mon man can’t you see? It’s a fear tactic to make the rest of the hobbyists go celibate so that way they can have more ladies to themselves ;) lmao. All jokes aside tho unless you never had sex-Ed in school or for some idiotic reason you chose not to educate your self on the health risks when it comes to ALL sex then you really should of never taken any part in this lifestyle. No need to spread fear mongering threads unless it’s to spread awareness on a person in the industry knowingly spreading std’s.
 

gmaximus

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Lol you’re right. As well as too much pornography. But c’mon man can’t you see? It’s a fear tactic to make the rest of the hobbyists go celibate so that way they can have more ladies to themselves ;) lmao. All jokes aside tho unless you never had sex-Ed in school or for some idiotic reason you chose not to educate your self on the health risks when it comes to ALL sex then you really should of never taken any part in this lifestyle. No need to spread fear mongering threads unless it’s to spread awareness on a person in the industry knowingly spreading std’s.
You maybe onto something lol. Less hobbyists in the market means more SWs for themselves lmao.
Im waiting for someone to post if B*FS is safe now lol
 

medalllione

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Whao....I was expecting pulling out of knives and daggers but not this early, lol. I was hoping to hear from a segment of hobbyist, especially within the Ottawa Spa community, on what their thoughts (and perhaps experiences) are concerning this topic ( how safe is Daty?). Let's face it, DATY is very common in massage sessions, which suggests to me the ladies don't mind (in some cases, even encourage) it and I am sure I am not the only one thinking about how risky this is. I find it perplexing that some MAs are quick to call out BJ as risky but have no issues with DATY. The other question is who is more at risk during DATY: the MA or the hobbyist?
 

gmaximus

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What's the point in seeing a MA if you can't even DATY. I don't get why people go gaga over an overpriced HJ. BBJs should also be a standard for the price tag IMO. GFE gets thrown around so loosely here in Ottawa. Pretty soon it would be GFE just cuz an MA gets naked lol.

Here's some health benefits of eating P*ssy:
https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/4xkjbm/how-much-good-bacteria-is-in-a-mouthful-of-pussy

And I didn't forget the ladies. Here's even more health benefits of giving BBJs and swallowing :
https://selfhacked.com/blog/unhealthy-ejaculate/

You are welcome lmao
 

gmaximus

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LOL thanks for the laugh! And yes, I agree! OVERPRICED and OVERRATED hjs!! Some men have VERY low standards when it comes to "enjoying themselves with a woman".

What makes me LMFAO is when SW upcharge for daty!! Can you image if the roles were flipped and guys would upsell women for sucking their dicks?

Thanks again ;)
Glad you liked my post. Your contributions to the board are much appreciated.

Now who in their right mind would pay extra for Daty ffs. It's getting ridiculous. As far as I know and experienced it's always included. Would never even consider someone who upcharges. But as they say a fool and his money.....
 

gmaximus

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A lot of guys are so weak, they get bitch around by girls. Paying ridiculous rates and upsells for barely anything or for things they can get at half the rates elsewhere. Too many guys support Expensive Rates/upsells (and fake ads), SMH.
Those guys are thinking with their small head. I pity the guys who get hustled. Hopefully they will come around.
 

Jacobus960

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To me, meeting a MA or SW is for the entire experience. The attitude, the look, etc. I would never take a risk to do BB sex or BB blow or Daty with a sex provider. I know most of them get tested regularly but does it really worth taking the risk...i dont think. Sit back, relax and enjoy the view and have fun! :) this is just my opinion!
 

jazzbox

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The mouth is a very inhospitable environment for viruses and bacteria. That makes it hard but not impossible to get herpes, hsv and gonorrhea from DATY. Syphliis is rare at the moment and chlamydia is very hard to transmit orally. Only you know your risk tolerance and making a judgement is in your hands. That said, get tested regularly if you are dining regularly at the cross roads.
 

RockNRollMachin

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The mouth is a very inhospitable environment for viruses and bacteria. That makes it hard but not impossible to get herpes, hsv and gonorrhea from DATY. Syphliis is rare at the moment and chlamydia is very hard to transmit orally. Only you know your risk tolerance and making a judgement is in your hands. That said, get tested regularly if you are dining regularly at the cross roads.
I'm not sure on what basis do you refer the mouth as a very inhospitable place for viruses and bacterias. It's moist, warm with a steady supply of nutrients. Seems to me like the perfect nest for them.
 
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