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How old is too old to attend your first orgy?

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They have songs about glory holes, fat girls, my fav is their song against butt metal, death to all butt metal indeed. [WIth a guest appearance in the video by Sarah Silverman and porn chick Katie Morgan.]
 

IM469

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Never done it and I have no desire to participate. I have had a few ménage à trois with two females but that's it.

After thinking it over very carefully I think I know why ..


I don't like to share. :giggle:
 

SexB

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I was invited to my first orgy when I was in my mid-30's by a provider I used to see.

I was flattered but respectfully declined the offer since it's something that's a little out of my comfort zone.

I realize that the main reason why I was invited was because she and the other ladies were looking for paying clients but someone once told me that if you're invited to an event like this, the lady thinks you could have brought something to the event.

I jokingly think it's so the other guys could feel better about their physique after seeing me!
 

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I was invited to my first orgy when I was in my mid-30's by a provider I used to see.

I was flattered but respectfully declined the offer since it's something that's a little out of my comfort zone.

I realize that the main reason why I was invited was because she and the other ladies were looking for paying clients but someone once told me that if you're invited to an event like this, the lady thinks you could have brought something to the event.

I jokingly think it's so the other guys could feel better about their physique after seeing me!
This is a good honest reply. I would expect it to be out of the comfort zone for everyone’s first. Client or SP (maybe not). No one has commented on if bigger or smaller parties are better yet, though.
 
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This is a good honest reply. I would expect it to be out of the comfort zone for everyone’s first. Client or SP (maybe not). No one has commented on if bigger or smaller parties are better yet, though.
I’ve also read reviews about going into different rooms, or upstairs/downstairs. Is the open concept better, where you can see what’s going on?
 

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In younger days the goalies stick was ready walking in the door, now a days it needs lots of stimulation first before it’s ready to score!
 
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Oistins

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You must be bi curious from some of the comments you make / made
You should see me with a lolly pop 🤣. Look. All these gals are bisexual. One guy messaged me to say that by far that’s most of it. And in all of the orgies he went to, he only got touched intimately by the same sex twice, and it was to reposition his junk. You have to be prepared to see more, though.
 

SexB

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This is a good honest reply. I would expect it to be out of the comfort zone for everyone’s first. Client or SP (maybe not). No one has commented on if bigger or smaller parties are better yet, though.
I think that's going to be one of my unmoving lines in the sand. I've had a fivesome, myself with four ladies, and I think that's the closest I'm ever going to get to an orgy.
 
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I think that's going to be one of my unmoving lines in the sand. I've had a fivesome, myself with four ladies, and I think that's the closest I'm ever going to get to an orgy.
I am trying to decide on my level of envy and hate. Were the four ladies SPs or amateurs?...asking for a friend.
 

SexB

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I am trying to decide on my level of envy and hate. Were the four ladies SPs or amateurs?...asking for a friend.
They were providers. I've had a couple trios, myself and three ladies, I decided to challenge myself.
 

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They were providers. I've had a couple trios, myself and three ladies, I decided to challenge myself.
Well done then. My fave SP offered herself and her GF (surprise, surprise is also a SP) for a FMF but I declined as I did not want it to be a FFM and ending with me paying to sit in corner while watching them fuck.
 

SexB

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Well done then. My fave SP offered herself and her GF (surprise, surprise is also a SP) for a FMF but I declined as I did not want it to be a FFM and ending with me paying to sit in corner while watching them fuck.
If I have a duo, it has to be fully interactive.

I've actually had a couple of the ladies I see introduce me to other providers they're friends with for duos. It's led me to meeting a couple ladies whose company I've come to really enjoy and I still see them semi-regularly.
 

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If I have a duo, it has to be fully interactive.

I've actually had a couple of the ladies I see introduce me to other providers they're friends with for duos. It's led me to meeting a couple ladies whose company I've come to really enjoy and I still see them semi-regularly.
That is wonderful. Need to check it off my fucket list before I turn 60. Just the menage not the quad
 

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I would recommend going to a sex club like Oasis first and seeing how you feel, but IMO you are never too old. I personally like going to sex clubs, I like watching, and rarely partake unless it is with women, but it is still fun. I'm going to be at @Autumn-desilva 's orgy on Dec 1st. It is a smaller affair and might be good for dipping your feet in as there is at least 1 over 30 provider there (which is me, I don't know anyone else's age) and that might make you more comfortable.

I've been known to get the shy guy in on the fun with my kind nature ;-) on more than one occasion I have found a shy client hiding near the food and chatted him up until he felt comfortable and ready to join.
 

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I would recommend going to a sex club like Oasis first and seeing how you feel, but IMO you are never too old. I personally like going to sex clubs, I like watching, and rarely partake unless it is with women, but it is still fun. I'm going to be at @Autumn-desilva 's orgy on Dec 1st. It is a smaller affair and might be good for dipping your feet in as there is at least 1 over 30 provider there (which is me, I don't know anyone else's age) and that might make you more comfortable.

I've been known to get the shy guy in on the fun with my kind nature ;-) on more than one occasion I have found a shy client hiding near the food and chatted him up until he felt comfortable and ready to join.
Boom! And we’re back on track. Thanks Vera. I’ve seen the ad.
 
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SexB

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I would recommend going to a sex club like Oasis first and seeing how you feel, but IMO you are never too old. I personally like going to sex clubs, I like watching, and rarely partake unless it is with women, but it is still fun. I'm going to be at @Autumn-desilva 's orgy on Dec 1st. It is a smaller affair and might be good for dipping your feet in as there is at least 1 over 30 provider there (which is me, I don't know anyone else's age) and that might make you more comfortable.

I've been known to get the shy guy in on the fun with my kind nature ;-) on more than one occasion I have found a shy client hiding near the food and chatted him up until he felt comfortable and ready to join.
One lady I see actually did recommend going to a sex club but again, it is something that's a little out of my comfort zone and I think it's going to be an unmoving line in the sand for me.

I've had a few of the ladies I've had duos with tell me they enjoy watching me with the other lady and I even had one suggest a cuckquean duo, Ie. she would just watch me with the other lady then we would switch.

I like to think I've got a bit of a DILF/silver fox thing happening.
 
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Oistins

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One lady I see actually did recommend going to a sex club but again, it is something that's a little out of my comfort zone and I think it's going to be an unmoving line in the sand for me.

I've had a few of the ladies I've had duos with tell me they enjoy watching me with the other lady and I even had one suggest a cuckquean duo, Ie. she would just watch me with the other lady then we would switch.

I like to think I've got a bit of a DILF/silver fox thing happening.
Oh. I’m definitely going to do, Oasis, too. At this stage, it might come after the orgy, though, as I’ve been invited to 2 more since I started this thread. And it doesn’t mean I won’t do more duos, too. They make my head spin 🤣.
 
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I think more then age being a concern when attending an orgy it's more important to consider your performance. imo in order to truly enjoy all that an orgy has to offer you should be able to get off at least 2-3 shots in a span of 3-4 hrs. If your a one shot type of guy you might not really enjoy orgy's
 

Oistins

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I think more then age being a concern when attending an orgy it's more important to consider your performance. imo in order to truly enjoy all that an orgy has to offer you should be able to get off at least 2-3 shots in a span of 3-4 hrs. If your a one shot type of guy you might not really enjoy orgy's
Ah. A realist. I like it! One guy messaged me to say that at the one he tried he played with 4 girls and did not finish. Boy was he pissed! Let’s put things in perspective. That’s not going to happen to me.

When I come to Toronto, I try to see a different girl every day. If I’m here for a week, that’s 7. On occasion I’ve done a duo, or a series. I go once, sometimes twice, maybe 3 if I’m lucky. Hell! About 5 years ago, when I first started this, almost 4 times in 45 minutes at a spa, and would have if hostess didn’t keep calling the room because time was up.

The point is, it’s about the company. How I remember it. The experience. How connected it is. I’m fit! I don’t worry about being able to fuck.

Even if it’s underwhelming, I already know that I’ll do it again to be sure.
 
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