37... discovered the Now Classified ads and The RedZone around 19-20 and was always curious. I remember remember going to see a girl I found through Backpage, and the condom broke during FS...I thought I contracted aids lol. Now I'm getting BBJ's and my ass rimmed and kissing girls who are giving blow jobs all day. During my 20's I was pretty broke and didn't hobby a lot. I'd say things picked up during COVID, I was making good money and had cheap rent so I started seeing girls more often.
How old are the hobbiest here?
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Same as you. The $5 dances I would get at Cheaters on Yonge St. south of Eglinton back in the day were epic. Never did the SP provider thing, although I still enjoy a good RMT quality massage with a happy ending from time to time.
Mid 60's and having as much fun now as I did when I started 20+ years ago. Just wishing I was 20 years younger. lol
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35 now, but think I started at 25.
I was on and off in my mid to late 20s as I had gfs at the time and never hobbied when I had a gf. My last girlfriend was at 29 and still dabble here and there. It wasn't till the past couple years where I started using agencies more regularly.
I was on and off in my mid to late 20s as I had gfs at the time and never hobbied when I had a gf. My last girlfriend was at 29 and still dabble here and there. It wasn't till the past couple years where I started using agencies more regularly.
HaHa!!!! When I started going to strip clubs I first started going to Brass Rail during the day when it was much more low key. Being a student and not having much money to spend, I used to sit close to someone who was getting those $5 table dances. That way I saw everything, without having to pay for it.
Mid-40s now. Stayed on the straight-and-narrow and am married with kids. I wish I started in my young 20s when I was truly a sex fiend, but I'd likely not have my amazing kids. Pure trade-off.
I wish my wife was into anything as this point... So boring!
I wish my wife was into anything as this point... So boring!
Mid-50s. Got my first lap dance at Cheaters. Pretty wild place considering the neighbourhood.
Got hooked reading the classifieds in NOW magazine.
Old enough to know better, young enough to not give a shit.
Late 50’s, started in my early 50’s but in hindsight wish I’d done it sooner.
60. Started by accident 15 years ago in Shanghai. Got a massage at a Marriott expecting no funny biz but was offered extras. I was hooked. For the last 15 years I would get a FBSM while traveling. This year, I could not resist the temptation of the Allegra ladies and went further. It was a great experience but I’m wondering if I need to dial it back to something safer.
I would love to get feedback from the experienced men and women.
I would love to get feedback from the experienced men and women.
That's interesting. Despite many trips to Hong Kong, Taipei in Taiwan, Seoul in Korea, and Tokyo & Osaka in Japan, with many upscale hotel massages, I was never offered anything except pure legit massages.
In Taipei the attendants were blind. A member of the hotel staff would lead them to the room, and then the attendant would take over from there.
But that was over 30 years ago.
Maybe its different in mainland China, or the other cities these days?
49 I have been between Now magazine ads bp ads Church and Jarvis Terb, exgirlfriends, bars clubs, one failed marriage, Toronto Dubai Europe China USA Singapore...since 1993 when I got into U of T .
I envy my friends who settled in with the first girl friend and they envy me as a middle aged pussy crazed dude.
I envy my friends who settled in with the first girl friend and they envy me as a middle aged pussy crazed dude.
Like a few posters I used to hit Cheaters back in the mid to late 90's. I was late 20's, no girlfriend and would stop be Cheaters after being out for drinks with my co-workers. The place was empty on weekday nights, so the bouncers were mostly sleeping. You could discreetly touch the girls all over during a lap dance. I had one hot Indian stripper who cautioned me on touching, but let me do any touching I wanted. It was the only time I came during a lap dance. She was so sexy I still recall that night.
Then in 2000 I met a girl , married her, and took about a 9 year break. Once the sex stopped, I started going to massage studios, then SP's and then left my wife. Haven't hobbied as much since the end of the pandemic and haven't been all that excited with the last few times. Not sure if its me, the talent, or both that has left me less excited.
I'm now 57 and will see how 2025 goes.
Then in 2000 I met a girl , married her, and took about a 9 year break. Once the sex stopped, I started going to massage studios, then SP's and then left my wife. Haven't hobbied as much since the end of the pandemic and haven't been all that excited with the last few times. Not sure if its me, the talent, or both that has left me less excited.
I'm now 57 and will see how 2025 goes.
40. Started when I was 20 because my boss took e to a massage. Never really looked back, really. I’ve seen probably around 400 SPs over the years in Toronto and then 100+ others on travels. Not a point a pride, per se, just context.
Late 50s as well. Started a year or three too late to fully take advantage of that golden late 80s to mid 90s era. I hobbied in SCs downtown with the odd trip to HoL1 on the Queensway. I didn’t have a car so I didn’t know about the real fun that Cannonball and Fantasia were like… sigh. I did actually get into Fantasia before it burnt down but not before in any volume… sigh x 2. Hit up Cheaters, Jillys and Filmores and still remember the dancer who gropped me “groinily” for the first time at the Rail. Went out with a dancer from Cheaters and another from Club Pro briefly. When I had a car, HoL, Bunnies/Friction and then Pro and the Trinity. Even WAGG was good. Like what tml… I’d do it all over again!
ps. back then terb was almost non-existent… canbest was the review site to read!
Went out briefly with said dancer there on two Stripper cruises that bobbed around the Lake. Heard lots of stories and one about Cheaters was that bouncers, in its peak days, used to walk around the club with bbq tongs and a platter to pick up all the condoms that were on the floor.
