Like a few posters I used to hit Cheaters back in the mid to late 90's. I was late 20's, no girlfriend and would stop be Cheaters after being out for drinks with my co-workers. The place was empty on weekday nights, so the bouncers were mostly sleeping. You could discreetly touch the girls all over during a lap dance. I had one hot Indian stripper who cautioned me on touching, but let me do any touching I wanted. It was the only time I came during a lap dance. She was so sexy I still recall that night.
Then in 2000 I met a girl , married her, and took about a 9 year break. Once the sex stopped, I started going to massage studios, then SP's and then left my wife. Haven't hobbied as much since the end of the pandemic and haven't been all that excited with the last few times. Not sure if its me, the talent, or both that has left me less excited.
I'm now 57 and will see how 2025 goes.