How often do you see SPs ?

[randy36]

This year so far has been quite busy for me - at least thats what I think. Met like a SP per week !! Thinking of taking a short break to reflect about the hobby.
When I was seeing my regular dear Candyce, I wasn't indulging this much. Maybe in hindsight, I am searching for a new regular.

I know from reviews that some gentleman have been quite busy as well. I would ask this question to all hobbyists to provide a sense of your SP seeing average.

 

[too2shy]

This year so far has been quite busy for me - at least thats what I think. Met like a SP per week !! Thinking of taking a short break to reflect about the hobby.
When I was seeing my regular dear Candyce, I wasn't indulging this much. Maybe in hindsight, I am searching for a new regular.

I know from reviews that some gentleman have been quite busy as well. I would ask this question to all hobbyists to provide a sense of your SP seeing average.

Depends how bad ones sex addiction is. Which is what hobbying generally is, by another name. I know some guys who will see multiple Sp's in a day, I've done this as well.
Real life and budget becomes the limitation for most..
Though I've seen guys who very periodically see a upmarket sp (350+) on a greater interval. Sometimes for multiple hours.
This doesn't compute for me, I immediately figure.. For 700$ I can buy x, which I can stare at or enjoy forever.. Or I can blow my nut twice and let my generally shitty memory forget that experience in a very short period.

When you start thinking it's unhealthy, when you're spending too much time on Terb and bp hunting, and releasing chemicals into your brain.
It is unhealthy. You're right.

 

[funfunfun010101]

Depends how bad ones sex addiction is. Which is what hobbying generally is, by another name. I know some guys who will see multiple Sp's in a day, I've done this as well.
Real life and budget becomes the limitation for most..
Though I've seen guys who very periodically see a upmarket sp (350+) on a greater interval. Sometimes for multiple hours.
This doesn't compute for me, I immediately figure.. For 700$ I can buy x, which I can stare at or enjoy forever.. Or I can blow my nut twice and let my generally shitty memory forget that experience in a very short period.

When you start thinking it's unhealthy, when you're spending too much time on Terb and bp hunting, and releasing chemicals into your brain.
It is unhealthy. You're right.

I still like looking at ads and reading reviews but I have two amazing girls I like seeing and doubt I'll be seeing many others as long as they keep being available. I used to look at ads all the time hoping to find the perfect girl.

 

[Caelus]

Once every two weeks or so... I see both SPs and MAs depending on how horny I am
I rarely repeat with the same girl and still looking for THE special gem.

 

[out4fun]

I gave it up a while ago but still enjoy keeping track of what's happening here. When I was active, I would binge and then take a long break. Maybe see 2 or three in a week, maybe do this for a couple weeks, and then take a break for several months.

 

[solo223]

once every 2 weeks on month....depends...i have one or two regular...and the odd MA experience...there too i got my fav and once in a while try something new...i prefer seeing who i know as opposed to gambling....the exception being those extensively well reviewed that fit my requirements....i mostly take outcalls and my favorite SP always spends multiple hours with me over wine and fun, sometimes dinner, makes it way more worthwhile....almost like a GF experience

 

[HOLLYWOODG]

Once a week unless I get lucky that week with a civie. Last year I had a decent year. So I only saw around 40 sps.

 

[GoinDown91]

see what saving up your allowance, lunch money and taking the bus can buy you

 

[Rio10]

I used to plan for once a week but find it more fun when it's not planned at all. Still tend to average 4 a month.

 

[randy36]

Thanks Guys for sharing. Looks like myself and many above have crossed over from hobby to addiction!!

I hope that I can survive ladies wrath for this thread!!

I would like to hear ladies perspective, any thoughts ladies?

 

[itd131]

Randy, I'm no expert, but I believe for a behaviour to be addictive it must become a major obsession in your life and be having negative or harmful impacts on you or those around you. For example, if you get up in the morning and spend your entire day on BP and forget to go to work, that would be addictive, or if you go into debt or mortgage your home to pay for SP visits, that would be addictive. The frequency of the activity isn't necessarily an indicator. For example, if someone spends around $500 a week on SP visits but has a salary which can support this and still has time for other life obligations and social time, then the activity isn't addictive, although many of us would consider that a lot of money. I'm sure there are many people who spend a fair bit of money on hobbies or "guilty pleasures" like dining out, vacations, personal training, going to sporting events, etc., etc.

The important question is how are you doing in the rest of your life and are you happy with things as they are? If you are feeling unhappy with the money you are spending, or the risks you might be taking, or whatever, then maybe the behaviour is getting out of control and change is needed. It sounds to me like you aren't completely happy with things as they are so I think you are smart to take some time to reflect and possibly take a break.

 

[roxyfan]

Good point on the addiction. I installed a porn filter at work and miraculously, my frequency of visits has dropped in half. Porn was the trigger that made me want to act out and I still do want to act out but just less often and I don't crave the variety of women I did...I saw ten different ladies in December before the filter went in. By any standard that is totally messed up. I upped my exercise level too and the endorphin release has also helped with reduction of sessions.

 

[Ryan1967]

Thanks Guys for sharing. Looks like myself and many above have crossed over from hobby to addiction!!

I hope that I can survive ladies wrath for this thread!!

I would like to hear ladies perspective, any thoughts ladies?

Not sure what perspective from the ladies you are looking for...how often they see regulars...? How many clients do they see on average? The latter question will certainly unleash the wrath of which you speak...Or the more likely silence...

 

[Amanda-Lee]

Thanks Guys for sharing. Looks like myself and many above have crossed over from hobby to addiction!!

I hope that I can survive ladies wrath for this thread!!

I would like to hear ladies perspective, any thoughts ladies?

My response is not "wrath" as I don't get angry over questions being asked as I feel that is not productive or helps any situation.

As being both an MA and an SP, it varies. My response may be different than others.

MA point of view:
I have regulars who visit me but I don't expect them to just see me. Some visit every week, every other week, or every 4-6 weeks. Most of my clients have enjoyed the time with me that they keep coming back, most have mentioned they come back because of my personality and how fun I am, others say they enjoy the experience (massage techinques). Genlteman visit the same lady because their is a reason they want to invest in her time, sometimes, they see other ladies because they enjoy the different experiences and enjoyment (this is both MA and SP). Some are really busy at work, family, and other responsiblities that they don't want to go through the hassle in finding a different lady when a lady already provides everything the gentleman needs and wants and he is happy.
I have been told by some that they have visited ladies and their experience was really rough they are scared to venture to try someone new.

In the end, what matters is how the gentleman feels about spending X amount in a month either over a few ladies for different experiences or invests the time and enjoyment on one single lady.

SP point of view:
As an SP who does outcalls. Every gentleman is different in if they are visiting Ottawa or who lives in Ottawa. Some who book me every month or every two weeks but we continue to communicate between that time. Other times, if it is a visiting gentleman usually it is just that, a single visit.
I find that dates want longer sessions than the typical 1 hour. It also depends on how much they are willing to spend and what time they do have to spend with a lady.
I always look forward to dates who book me again because I know we both had an amazing time and to continue that fun where we had left off, or spicing it up more with idea's we've both come up with and have communicated.

I don't think there is any limit on how many times you see someone whether it being the same lady or muliple different ladies. It comes down to if you are comfortable with what you are spending and the lady you are seeing.

 

[too2shy]

Randy, I'm no expert, but I believe for a behaviour to be addictive it must become a major obsession in your life and be having negative or harmful impacts on you or those around you. For example, if you get up in the morning and spend your entire day on BP and forget to go to work, that would be addictive, or if you go into debt or mortgage your home to pay for SP visits, that would be addictive. The frequency of the activity isn't necessarily an indicator. For example, if someone spends around $500 a week on SP visits but has a salary which can support this and still has time for other life obligations and social time, then the activity isn't addictive, although many of us would consider that a lot of money. I'm sure there are many people who spend a fair bit of money on hobbies or "guilty pleasures" like dining out, vacations, personal training, going to sporting events, etc., etc.

The important question is how are you doing in the rest of your life and are you happy with things as they are? If you are feeling unhappy with the money you are spending, or the risks you might be taking, or whatever, then maybe the behaviour is getting out of control and change is needed. It sounds to me like you aren't completely happy with things as they are so I think you are smart to take some time to reflect and possibly take a break.

Addiction doesn't have to be totally destructive. There are functioning alcoholics and drug addicts. There are people who smoke and spend a hour or more outside of their office in any manner of weather, wasting that time smoking a cigarette. Addiction has varying degrees, and it can be managed. Doesn't mean it isn't one.

There's something in many of us that's broken.. We can even take a break for years.. But fall back into it like a old glove.. Porn is certainly a trigger yes, as is the forum, and bp, etc.

 

[curiousm7]

Back in 2012/2013, I was seeing between 5-10 per week...then, I just got bored. I didn't really give a shit spending up to $10 grand per month, I was having fun. I still check the boards from time to time looking for anyone who piques my interest...then maybe I'll find a new regular. Hot, fit, big breasts, gorgeous eyes who is GFE and PSE...one who does it all with enthusiasm.

 

[roxyfan]

Back in 2012/2013, I was seeing between 5-10 per week...then, I just got bored. I didn't really give a shit spending up to $10 grand per month, I was having fun. I still check the boards from time to time looking for anyone who piques my interest...then maybe I'll find a new regular. Hot, fit, big breasts, gorgeous eyes who is GFE and PSE...one who does it all with enthusiasm.

Guy...how much money do you have that you can drop $10k a month....I'm jealous that you can indulge so much. Your call sign should be Caligula.

 

[curiousm7]

Guy...how much money do you have that you can drop $10k a month....I'm jealous that you can indulge so much. Your call sign should be Caligula.

It's only money, it comes...it goes.

Can't take it with you when you die.

 

[randy36]

It's only money, it comes...it goes.

Can't take it with you when you die.

I like this perspective

 

[kid_kuh]

I see one or two per year at the most, I prefer massages.