How often do you repeat with an SP?

[Titalian]

I think a lot depends on the guy's personal life as well. Married men, i think, are more into playing the field rather than sticking to one or 2 regulars. Getting away from "routine" is why we are seeing escorts to begin with. I do have a couple ladies I gravitate back to, because they treat me well, we click and whatnot. But I also enjoy seeking out new experiences as well. I'm not very active this year hobby wise, I think I have seen 10 different ladies. 2 are the regulars I mentioned, 3 have been repeats with other ladies I have seen and the others have been new to me.


From what I see in the single guys I know personally in the hobby, and the ones identified as such on these boards, many seem to be looking for that "replacement" for a wife/gf in their life, in the bedroom at least. They might go through the exploration phase of seeing a bunch of escorts but they seem to settle down to a couple ladies at most that they are most comfortable and compatible with.

Very well said Mr Danj and very true. Some have even become close friends. We call each other periodically just to chat.

 

[maniac1911]

I've seen one for over 6 months. It comes down to attraction. What gets you is the chemistry/attraction what keeps you going probably has to do more with personality and how you feel after the experience.

I try to see one regular and then another week I will see a new SP. I think you are also limited with how much money you spend as well.

 

[notthemama]

Usually it's a one off.
There have been a few exceptions because of chemistry and service.
There is one Asian that went to the left coast at least 5 years ago.
If I thought she was back I'd call her as quick as I could.
She was attractive, friendly, spontaneous and creative.
I have no idea how many times I saw her, never failed to have a good time.
After the first few visits she always remembered to do the small things I liked.
It always was different.
Here's to you Candi.

 

[FTWWTF]

My ATF I saw once a week for 6 years. She's long since retired, but we still remain friends to this day. She even came to my wedding.

 

[harryass]

Sounds like you're not seeing very good providers
A high-end and reputable one would likely never do that.

Thanks Scarlett Mae for your comment. Its not I'm not seeing good SPs. I find it don't matter or not if its an indie, agency, touring, high end, or well reviewed SP. I give SPS I have met before maybe one benefit of doubt. I do think that some (not all) SPs over time may treat regulars as easy money in the bank and think they don't need to try to keep regulars as happy as before. The things I listed are some items that some SPs should think more about if repeat customers begin to drop off or high no returns. As we all know, there are many other places that we can take our biz to.

 

[brad200]

I have never repeated, more due to the fact I haven't done this very frequently, and most have either retired/moved/changed names etc. And I never got a chance to.

 

[goalie000]

Back in the day , I sawy favorite Lady 2 times a week for a very long time. She would take a break for a couple of months each year and that's when I would try some one new. It was curing one of these breaks that I met the Lady I'm with now. And Jillian has totally disappeared.

 

[gnudung]

From what I see in the single guys I know personally in the hobby, and the ones identified as such on these boards, many seem to be looking for that "replacement" for a wife/gf in their life, in the bedroom at least. They might go through the exploration phase of seeing a bunch of escorts but they seem to settle down to a couple ladies at most that they are most comfortable and compatible with.

This is true for me. I started seeing my ATF for extended dates to get back into the swing of things. I usually prebook but when the mood strikes last minute and she's not available I have two other go to ladies to choose from. I've been meaning to start dating in the civie world again but have just been too lazy and hobbying is hassle free.

 

[corp]

My ATF I saw once a week for 6 years. She's long since retired, but we still remain friends to this day. She even came to my wedding.

Wow really? that seems risky....


I'm single and found myself a regular that I used to see every week at least once. It was the connection we had. It was fun for us both.
As someone mentioned we repeat because of feelings....which was true in my case, I had them. She just quit the business all of the sudden a few weeks ago and I have been left searching because of it. Don't think I want to go down the "regular" road again though.
The connection is nice but can get messy easily. I'm going to be distancing myself from this hobby quite a bit because I don't really want to invest the time and money finding a replacement.

 

[legmann]

How often do I repeat? Sometimes, too often... I love the variety and chase, but it is nice (if overly convenient) having one or two regulars I can call or text on short notice. That said, I've got a TDL a half-mile long that I'll likely never get to. Lol

 

[matisse]

I have had the good fortune of seeing one particular lovely lady on average every other week for the past 6 years. We have created (what I believe) is an incredible connection. When we first me she was working for one of the agencies and had an incredible reputation and following both here on TERB and on some of the other Boards. She retired about 3-4 years ago and I am lucky to be one of only a very small number of clients she continues to see. We have become good friends - sharing with each other the ups and downs of everyday life. At the same time she is an incredible sex partner. Besides our semi-monthly sessions - which continue to be hot and steamy - we have also had probably a dozen or so duos - either women she discovered or women who I found and thought she would enjoy. Most of the duos have been incredible although I think she would agree that we're still looking for that perfect duo partner. From time to time she will send me a text with the name of an SP who she thinks I should "sample" and if I think them worthwhile, invite into a duo with both of us. All in all it has been an amazing experience for me.

 

[Titalian]

The question on repeats becomes what constitutes a regular.
What I'm saying is if you've been seeing someone for 2 to 4 years average 5 times a year. Is this considered a regular?
If so, in my case I got four regulars with a fifth one in the making, Which I believe is a safer position to be in. Maybe in some odd way I do somewhat like diversity.
All to say I'm having a great time with all these beauties.

 

[Ditsy]

80-90% of my visits now are repeats ....the only time I booked new girls now is if none of my regular/ semi regulars are available.... It was the complete opposite when I first started where I would only repeat 10-20% of the times .

 

[sweetasians]

I repeated with my favorite for 8 months without seeing anyone else. No Im trying to find someone else that's fit the bill , which I may never find that chemistry with another SP again

 

[Titalian]

I repeated with my favorite for 8 months without seeing anyone else. No Im trying to find someone else that's fit the bill , which I may never find that chemistry with another SP again

Never put all your eggs in the same basket.

 

[wellhungone]

It all depends how you get along, if there is a connection. There are some SP's that you tend to have more in comment and repeat. I found myself repeating with the same one for close to a year about 3 to 4 times a month. The relationship was great, we both knew this was more of a business relationship but we did do stuff that was outside the scheduled dates.

There are others that you repeat with cause they are freaks in the bed. :eyebrows:

 

[GGGDickson]

That sounds like my dream SP relationships! Although overnights and travel are hard.. I'd be extremely happy if I could find one to take on one of my business trips with me, although I'm definitely not yet at the stage where money isn't an issue, and getting into THAT kind of habit could put a serious dent!

Not that bad my friend. I started taking ladies on trips years ago. I am never gone that long. So having them around for a few.days is a blast. Don't rule it out until you try.

 

[GGGDickson]

I just coming off a 18 month relationship. It was amazing. She was the best SP I ever met. Wished it could go on for longer but all good things come to an end. Sorry to see her go but she is now so busy she does not have time for me.

So enjoy it when it happens. What a fucking ride. I will remember it forever.

 

[Mr Bret]

I'm a MP guy, but I'll answer from that perspective.
When I find someone I really like, I repeat often, dozens of times.
I still see others, but I do see my regulars often.

 

[sweetasians]

Thanks Maggie , I've been told that she will not see any of her old cus. So it looks like I will not be seeing her