I like to receive a very long (about an hour - maybe longer) BBBJ with lots of speed from an eager woman. Not too much into the slow sensual thing, just suck it as fast as you can. Lots of head bobbing, slurping. Massage my balls at the same time, putting it between the breasts on occasion is a nice touch but don't stop sucking for too long. Use your hands as well, one hand, both hands on the shaft while you pay attention to the tip. I'm not too big (did I just say that out loud) so go ahead and deep throat it. Deep throating with some speed and long strokes is especially nice. Finishing off with a good CIM while your still massaging my balls and/or stroking the shaft. NICE!