For some reason, discussion of escort rates is sort of taboo. So, I take risk to be criticized and obstructed for posting such a thread. Actually, I don’t understand why it cannot be discussed if it is not the rate of some particular provider.
I think it would be interesting for all – hobbyists and providers – to see and understand how rate is established and how it works for different clients.
The approach outlined below was told to me by my long time close friend who had been sp for many years. (She is out of business now and I have her permission to post this).
This strategy looks smart and reasonable to me. But of course it is just one variation and cannot be suitable for everyone and everything.
This is written in the way like Escort girl is the author (easier to formulate as I heard it).
1) Most of the clients have long term (3m, 6m, 1year maybe) budget for escort. It took me some time to clearly understand this. And many clients have some budget per visit (real financial restrictions or it is just set in the mind).
2) The rate I advertise is first of all the filter to cut out “low budget per visit” clients. I don’t want these guys. Rate should be high enough to serve this purpose. I never advertize HH sessions and never Book HH for fist t.
3) I never advertise different rates on different sites. It is a trap, you advertise one time lower rate and you will never get your higher rate for a long time. No idea how they all know about lower rate has been advertised.
4) I don’t negotiate my rate, never! If it seems to be promising client I just shut down such a question politely but usually I simply filter out this client immediately – I don’t like cheap men.
And there is no such thing as “every week” client. They promise this sometimes to get discount – never happens.
5) I place all clients in three categories:
- Occasional client – the guy who might see me maybe 1-2-3 times and disappears. Regular rate, nothing to discuss here.
- Repeat client – this guy returns from time to time to me among the other providers. His budget is split for 2 – 3 repeat escorts and maybe some new girl to try. No sense to give any discount here, it will not change anything. This guy won’t visit me more frequently and I will lose money - he does not have budget for additional visits even with discount.
- Regular client – for this man I am almost exclusive companion. This is my guy to work with! (see below)
It seems that it is not easy to distinguish “repeat” and “regular” clients. But in the reality, even if I don’t know for sure I always feel these men for whom I am an exclusive companion.
6) So, regular client. All numbers are just for example.
Let’s say this guy has $1000 budget and my rate is $250. Will I get this $1000 in 4 visits? Not necessarily, normally I am entitled for $500 maybe $750. Even regular client sometimes goes to the new girl maybe just to be sure I am the best for him.
And if I really like this guy and want to keep him - here is the place for discount! I will offer him $200 per visit without any conditions (not per hour, exactly per visit – we are talking here about really good guy who, I am sure, will never take advantage of me). There is no discount for regular client in general, it is discount for this particular valuable nice guy – he should know this.
This worked perfectly for me, I usually had that $1000 in 5 visits. Yes, it is 5 visits instead of possible 4 but I enjoy being with him, and it is almost guaranteed that I will get the whole his budget. Giving discount, I will get more in long run.
7) Escort success in long term (at least for escort working in some particular area and not travelling around the country) depends on regular clients. When I have built a big enough circle of regulars, it became in significant part some sort of nice "family" business.
I think it would be interesting for all – hobbyists and providers – to see and understand how rate is established and how it works for different clients.
The approach outlined below was told to me by my long time close friend who had been sp for many years. (She is out of business now and I have her permission to post this).
This strategy looks smart and reasonable to me. But of course it is just one variation and cannot be suitable for everyone and everything.
This is written in the way like Escort girl is the author (easier to formulate as I heard it).
1) Most of the clients have long term (3m, 6m, 1year maybe) budget for escort. It took me some time to clearly understand this. And many clients have some budget per visit (real financial restrictions or it is just set in the mind).
2) The rate I advertise is first of all the filter to cut out “low budget per visit” clients. I don’t want these guys. Rate should be high enough to serve this purpose. I never advertize HH sessions and never Book HH for fist t.
3) I never advertise different rates on different sites. It is a trap, you advertise one time lower rate and you will never get your higher rate for a long time. No idea how they all know about lower rate has been advertised.
4) I don’t negotiate my rate, never! If it seems to be promising client I just shut down such a question politely but usually I simply filter out this client immediately – I don’t like cheap men.
And there is no such thing as “every week” client. They promise this sometimes to get discount – never happens.
5) I place all clients in three categories:
- Occasional client – the guy who might see me maybe 1-2-3 times and disappears. Regular rate, nothing to discuss here.
- Repeat client – this guy returns from time to time to me among the other providers. His budget is split for 2 – 3 repeat escorts and maybe some new girl to try. No sense to give any discount here, it will not change anything. This guy won’t visit me more frequently and I will lose money - he does not have budget for additional visits even with discount.
- Regular client – for this man I am almost exclusive companion. This is my guy to work with! (see below)
It seems that it is not easy to distinguish “repeat” and “regular” clients. But in the reality, even if I don’t know for sure I always feel these men for whom I am an exclusive companion.
6) So, regular client. All numbers are just for example.
Let’s say this guy has $1000 budget and my rate is $250. Will I get this $1000 in 4 visits? Not necessarily, normally I am entitled for $500 maybe $750. Even regular client sometimes goes to the new girl maybe just to be sure I am the best for him.
And if I really like this guy and want to keep him - here is the place for discount! I will offer him $200 per visit without any conditions (not per hour, exactly per visit – we are talking here about really good guy who, I am sure, will never take advantage of me). There is no discount for regular client in general, it is discount for this particular valuable nice guy – he should know this.
This worked perfectly for me, I usually had that $1000 in 5 visits. Yes, it is 5 visits instead of possible 4 but I enjoy being with him, and it is almost guaranteed that I will get the whole his budget. Giving discount, I will get more in long run.
7) Escort success in long term (at least for escort working in some particular area and not travelling around the country) depends on regular clients. When I have built a big enough circle of regulars, it became in significant part some sort of nice "family" business.
