I think chemistry is the best reason for all of this Jen. Plus guys who often seek the company of beautiful women are often quite and pretty aloof about it so they honestly wont mind the "no chemistry" option. Plus it's honest.
How do you want to be “rejected” or “declined” as a client?
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ya...this. I know it's a lie but I get the underlying message."your dick is too big for me"
My favorite. "What we do is too intimate for me"
I'm actually waiting 3 months then I'll follow-up for the truth. I figure 3 months isn't being a pest or obnoxious. Always room for improvement.
If it is a matter of hygiene with ANYBODY - SP, friend, co-worker whatever, - it is a great favor to actually tell them that they have a problem. Might be slightly embarassing, but maybe they didn't know.
On the other hand a personality thing may lead to an angry response if they have a lack of emotional intelligence.
Tricky problem.
I saw an SP once who I had been a bit of a regular, then she left the country for a couple of years. I took a break myself from the hobby, and changed my phone number.
Then out of the blue she was back, so I booked her
When I went to see her she came down the hall of the Hotel to the back door to greet me which I thought was odd.
She looked at me and said, "Oh my God, it's you. I'm so glad its you"
Then she told me she had another client that never stopped trying to get her to do anal who had the same first name as me. She couldn't get rid of him. So I guess she had the same problem.
On the other hand a personality thing may lead to an angry response if they have a lack of emotional intelligence.
Tricky problem.
I saw an SP once who I had been a bit of a regular, then she left the country for a couple of years. I took a break myself from the hobby, and changed my phone number.
Then out of the blue she was back, so I booked her
When I went to see her she came down the hall of the Hotel to the back door to greet me which I thought was odd.
She looked at me and said, "Oh my God, it's you. I'm so glad its you"
Then she told me she had another client that never stopped trying to get her to do anal who had the same first name as me. She couldn't get rid of him. So I guess she had the same problem.
I'd chime in with the rest with the whole 'my schedule is much more limited and I have to reduce my client time these days and I can't accommodate you, sorry'
If they really push, repeat asking and generally being as persistent as fuck, just offer a ridiculous rate. In my work, we get what are called 'fuck you quotes' from contractors who clearly AREN'T interested in the job but want to maintain the relationship so they give an outlandish number. Facetious answer: Not sure how that will translate to a sex work menu but maybe start a 10min BJ at $500 and go from there
If they really push, repeat asking and generally being as persistent as fuck, just offer a ridiculous rate. In my work, we get what are called 'fuck you quotes' from contractors who clearly AREN'T interested in the job but want to maintain the relationship so they give an outlandish number. Facetious answer: Not sure how that will translate to a sex work menu but maybe start a 10min BJ at $500 and go from there
Also, I want to watch this as a satire of a RomCom. There is so much comedy gold here.
I appreciate people who are straight up and just tell you the truth. If a lady doesn't want to see a particular client, it's in his best interests to know that and move on. I don't see why anyone would want to spend time with someone who doesn't want to be with them. Having said that, it seems some people can't handle the truth, so not sure what the best course of action is in practice. If you don't think you can tell him straight up, I guess just stop responding or go with the suggestion in post #4. Eventually he'll figure it out - hopefully sooner than later.
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Don't you have a system in place for this already? How long have you been an escort?
